Dark Skinned Bruhs! Let's Make a Comeback..

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by standupguy27, Feb 7, 2009.

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  1. OpenHeart

    OpenHeart New Member

    Fake orgasms do nothing but allow a sorry ass lover to believe he has done something when he ain't did shit!
     
    OpenHeart, May 7, 2011
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  2. Trey1540

    Trey1540 New Member

    Lets say that he's doing the best he can would you be open to coaching him?
     
    Trey1540, May 7, 2011
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  3. Trey1540

    Trey1540 New Member

    What if you're the one who's the sorry lover would you want him to come out and say it?
     
    Trey1540, May 7, 2011
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  4. BlackMasterJay

    BlackMasterJay Well-Known Member

    The same with lying to her when she asks "do i look fat in these"...lol...

    But youre right, constructive criticism serves a purpose: it clues your lover to the fact that hes on the wrong "path". It's a clear sign that he really needs to find some other method to tear that ass up, or work harder, or else, you will hand that ass to jay and have him play with legos or something
     
    BlackMasterJay, May 7, 2011
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  5. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Choke away on that chicken honey if that's what you gotta do. A woman whose man doesn't give her an orgasm has to put that mighty hand to use as well. ;)

    There needs to be balance. If a man gives a damn about you, your needs will be as important to him as his own & he'll make sure you're happy & satisfied. If he doesn't care, his focus won't be on you at all, & there's NOTHING sexy about a selfish lover IMO. Personally, I don't want a "man" that thinks the world revolves around his raggedy ass dick.

    There's nothing wrong with focusing on him once in a while. I love to do that myself occasionally. I love to give my man as much pleasure as he can stand...I get off on getting him off. The important thing is that it's not always one-sided; he should be willing to do the same for you. I agree...a man that is capable of multiple orgasms is awesome.
     
    Tamstrong, May 7, 2011
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  6. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    :smt023 So true and very well said. :smt038
     
    Sin Mari, May 7, 2011
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  7. Trey1540

    Trey1540 New Member

    All jokes aside I don't see how giving a woman an orgasm can be hard in anyway. When I'm fuckin/making love I'm having fun. I don't focus on things outside of what I'm doing and orgasms seem to come naturally.
     
    Trey1540, May 7, 2011
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  8. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member


    There's nothing wrong with focusing on him once in a while. I love to do that myself occasionally. I love to give my man as much pleasure as he can stand...I get off on getting him off. The important thing is that it's not always one-sided; he should be willing to do the same for you. I agree...a man that is capable of multiple orgasms is awesome.
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    How about 10 plus? Although the condoms get expensive, I'm sure ;-D

    Not really sure how he did it, but it was fun - like a surprise party over and over again lol. Needless to say he came back for more (and more and more), because I can deliver.8) I wish more men would work on that skill.

    Your input is appreciated, Tam - For the record though, I will usually just lose all enthusiasm once I realize he is in it all for himself, and that doesn't take long.
     
    saintaugusta, May 7, 2011
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  9. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    lol...think you need to start a seminar on how to give a woman good loving. i've had some duds in the sack
     
    wtarshi, May 7, 2011
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  10. BlackMasterJay

    BlackMasterJay Well-Known Member

    no pun??
     
    BlackMasterJay, May 7, 2011
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  11. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    Whaaaaat??? You mean you've had guys who weren't putting in work by trying to rearrange and relocate those freckle ?? :smt108
     
    Ra, May 7, 2011
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  12. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    shocking ain't it...!!!
     
    wtarshi, May 7, 2011
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  13. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member


    Hell Yeah!! Sorry bastards. :smt011
     
    Ra, May 7, 2011
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  14. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yeah, I would. Everybody is different...what might have made one person's eyes pop out might just put someone else to sleep. There are some basics that pretty much apply in most situations, but you have to take the time to learn about each other's likes & dislikes & try different things so you can fine tune those basics & know what quirks & twists to add (or take away) to make it the best it can be.

    Like I said above, it's about learning together & being honest when something isn't working. It needs to be done in a loving way though.

    You were on a roll until you got to the "hand that ass to Jay" part. LOL ;)
     
    Tamstrong, May 7, 2011
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  15. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    Are you schoolin' youngins up in here Mama Tam? :cool:
     
    Ra, May 7, 2011
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  16. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thanks, Sin. :D

    That's a good thing...keep up the good work. ;)

    Multiple orgasms don't always involve multiple ejaculations. :smt112

    Good for you for not putting up with selfish Jethros...they aren't worth having. :cool:

    Sadly, I think we've all dealt with some duds. :smt085
     
    Tamstrong, May 7, 2011
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  17. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I'm just trying to share some of the wisdom I've learned, Daddy Ra. :smt080
     
    Tamstrong, May 7, 2011
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  18. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    they should be given a course or something in high school
     
    wtarshi, May 7, 2011
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  19. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    It's a damn shame I can't get shared some of that wisdom. :smt047
     
    Ra, May 7, 2011
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  20. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    Multiple orgasms don't always involve multiple ejaculations.

    Good for you for not putting up with selfish Jethros...they aren't worth having.


    Please - regarding multiple orgasms/ejaculation - do tell. He had like 16 last time I counted and I am a bit concerned.
     
    saintaugusta, May 7, 2011
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