Fake orgasms do nothing but allow a sorry ass lover to believe he has done something when he ain't did shit!
The same with lying to her when she asks "do i look fat in these"...lol... But youre right, constructive criticism serves a purpose: it clues your lover to the fact that hes on the wrong "path". It's a clear sign that he really needs to find some other method to tear that ass up, or work harder, or else, you will hand that ass to jay and have him play with legos or something
Choke away on that chicken honey if that's what you gotta do. A woman whose man doesn't give her an orgasm has to put that mighty hand to use as well. There needs to be balance. If a man gives a damn about you, your needs will be as important to him as his own & he'll make sure you're happy & satisfied. If he doesn't care, his focus won't be on you at all, & there's NOTHING sexy about a selfish lover IMO. Personally, I don't want a "man" that thinks the world revolves around his raggedy ass dick. There's nothing wrong with focusing on him once in a while. I love to do that myself occasionally. I love to give my man as much pleasure as he can stand...I get off on getting him off. The important thing is that it's not always one-sided; he should be willing to do the same for you. I agree...a man that is capable of multiple orgasms is awesome.
All jokes aside I don't see how giving a woman an orgasm can be hard in anyway. When I'm fuckin/making love I'm having fun. I don't focus on things outside of what I'm doing and orgasms seem to come naturally.
There's nothing wrong with focusing on him once in a while. I love to do that myself occasionally. I love to give my man as much pleasure as he can stand...I get off on getting him off. The important thing is that it's not always one-sided; he should be willing to do the same for you. I agree...a man that is capable of multiple orgasms is awesome. __________________ How about 10 plus? Although the condoms get expensive, I'm sure ;-D Not really sure how he did it, but it was fun - like a surprise party over and over again lol. Needless to say he came back for more (and more and more), because I can deliver.8) I wish more men would work on that skill. Your input is appreciated, Tam - For the record though, I will usually just lose all enthusiasm once I realize he is in it all for himself, and that doesn't take long.
lol...think you need to start a seminar on how to give a woman good loving. i've had some duds in the sack
Whaaaaat??? You mean you've had guys who weren't putting in work by trying to rearrange and relocate those freckle ?? :smt108
Yeah, I would. Everybody is different...what might have made one person's eyes pop out might just put someone else to sleep. There are some basics that pretty much apply in most situations, but you have to take the time to learn about each other's likes & dislikes & try different things so you can fine tune those basics & know what quirks & twists to add (or take away) to make it the best it can be. Like I said above, it's about learning together & being honest when something isn't working. It needs to be done in a loving way though. You were on a roll until you got to the "hand that ass to Jay" part. LOL
Thanks, Sin. That's a good thing...keep up the good work. Multiple orgasms don't always involve multiple ejaculations. :smt112 Good for you for not putting up with selfish Jethros...they aren't worth having. Sadly, I think we've all dealt with some duds. :smt085
Multiple orgasms don't always involve multiple ejaculations. Good for you for not putting up with selfish Jethros...they aren't worth having. Please - regarding multiple orgasms/ejaculation - do tell. He had like 16 last time I counted and I am a bit concerned.
