I'm not saying we don't, but all you hear when it comes to BM or Black folks in general, is light and dark.
Very true Here are blackness categories: 1.pale 2.caramel/light skinned 3.dark skinned 4.black 1. Pale: Sinbad 2. Caramel/light skinned: will smith, Chris Brown etc 3. dark skinned: Kobe bryant, denzel washington 4. black::andrae :smt023
Bullshit. A happy woman equals a happy home. She will remain faithful to you and you will be sure that all of her children are in fact yours. She will look up at you in adoration with that twinkle in her eye, and be willing to do all kinds of things that make YOU happy because you know how to please her.
The first one is the black vampire in Twilight (not that I actually watched the movie), but he looks extremely similar to my last longterm boyfriend, except that he is even darker with a red undertone (like dark mahogany) - I can only imagine because of some Native American blood (given his bone structure). The second one is of course the great Sidney Poitier who is in my mind one of the finest gentlemen anywhere, ever. He crafted himself into one of the legends of American screen because of his charisma, graciousness, and dignity. If I could have pick my parents, they would have been Sidney Poitier and Julie Andrews. The third (and fourth) is a beautiful, spiritual man who happens to be a model... Someone whom I am talking to to at the moment and will most likely meet in the very near future. Now tell me that dark black isn't the most beautiful thing you've ever seen! I've dated medium-brown men, but am in awe over lovely dark-skinned men. Like someone said here earlier - beauty is beauty no matter the shade.
Petty was just joking. He knows damn well that a man has got to please his woman or else someone else will. These are no longer the 1800's we are living in. Orgasms are the joy of life for a woman and any man that thinks this is not important had better make sure that his woman hates sex and enjoys faking orgasms. I for one, can't live like that. I ain't faking shit so he (my man) has to bring it for real.
I don't think so honey. :smt018 I'm not faking it for anybody. A man needs to know how to handle his business, or he doesn't get his orgasm either.
I need to learn to be more like you, Tam. Just a little bit too willing to please, until you realize his NOT pleasing you (and lack of interest in doing so) is becoming a bit of a nasty trend. There are many times, however, when I am not interested in focusing on my own pleasure, and will spend a session (I'd say maybe one in 7) strictly intent on giving him as much pleasure as possible - even better with a man capable of multiple orgasms :-D.
No, because that would lead him to believe that he's doing something right when he's not. It's also unfair to both partners & it's dishonest.