Are White Women Winning?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by karmacoma., May 5, 2011.

  1. OpenHeart

    OpenHeart New Member

    Let that be a motivation...not a deterrence. Ignorance will desist as the numbers of IRs increase. Don't be like most black women who are worried about what others will say if they date outside of their race. Date who you want to date and be happy. Life is just too damn short to do otherwise. You are going to make some nice white girl a great husband one day. ;)
     
  2. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    LOL!

    I don't even want to play the game....
     
  3. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    The Latino man will soon know what we know about BW. :D
     
  4. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    I wanted to know what you WW thought about WINNING.
     
  5. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    The mark of a true winner! Go Brittle!
     
  6. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    It is if you're a beautiful, white sex goddess.
     
  7. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Article was a straight snooze fest but I will say this, white women are definitely winning in the gym.

    Keep it up ladies!
     
  8. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    priceless;)
     
  9. Archman

    Archman Well-Known Member

    Are White Women Winning?

    Yes !........and they are practically winning by default......Black women of 2011 make so easy.......So late out of the starting block and so weak on many fronts, they have lost their access to those eligible men for the foreseeable future !..........
     
  10. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    what exactly are white women winning? :confused:
     
  11. Raul Sinclair

    Raul Sinclair New Member

    Black Women need to step their game up...Enough Said
     
  12. Hellspawn

    Hellspawn New Member

    Right, focusing on white women "winning" isn't gonna help them get a man. Stepping outside of the box and speaking up will.

    I guess these kinds of articles and youtube vids ain't gonna end. :smt096
     
  13. Raul Sinclair

    Raul Sinclair New Member

    The reality is there is just not enough Eligible Black Men for Black Women. If you take away Uneducated BM, BM in prison, and the BM who date outside their races it leaves a small pool for Black Women to choose from. Naturally Black Women should start looking elsewhere to find suitable mates.
     
  14. OpenHeart

    OpenHeart New Member

    White women are winning the black men thus black women need to step their game up. That's what the article says. I think it's being implied that more white women have good black men for husbands than black women do, though statistics show otherwise. Not only are most black men with black women, but Black women are also increasingly dating/marrying Hispanics, white men and Asian men. So these BW are not losers by any means unless one continues to keep their eyes closed.

    But the type of black women that ARE losers are the ones who sit around and bitch about the shortage of good black men and absolutely refuse to date outside of their race.
     
  15. Archman

    Archman Well-Known Member

    Enough is not Said Raul !,
    You can't shout that suggestion from a distance,......If You care, you can be their champion !........ They need you to take away and put down that second plate of sole food and then hold their hand on tight for a walk on the treadmill Raul............
     
  16. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    If you guys read the article closely it is written by a black woman (seemingly). see page 2 paragraph 1 and 2. it reads as follows:

    Do white women have more options than black women? Yes and no. As the reigning standard for beauty, there certainly aren’t many groups of men who do not date them. Additionally, white women tend to be equal-opportunity daters. There lies the favor. That said, they are a bit more optimistic than black women when it comes to finding a husband because they don’t fall victim to ‘the shortage’ of available, desirable black men.

    Black women have to stop equating interracial dating with self-hate. Interracial dating doesn’t mean black or the other; it means black and the other. Traditional standards of beauty are evolving in our favor, more and more ‘other’ men are openly dating and marrying black women. We just have to be receptive and let go of the notion that dating a white man is abandonment.

    paragraph 4 page 3

    "Let me say this: WE ARE NOT MEN. Never will be. They are physically stronger than us and genetically programmed differently."

    and her bio on the last page:
    LaShaun Williams is a lifestyle and relationship advice columnist and blogger. Her work has been featured on popular urban sites, such as The Grio, and she has made appearances on the Tom Joyner Morning Show and Santita Jackson Show. She is also the founder of Politically Unapologetic, where she unabashedly discusses pop culture, life, love and a dash of watercooler news. Follow @itsmelashaun on Twitter or visit her on Facebook.
     
  17. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    A black woman tell BW it is ok for BM to date outside their race and your should do it also. lastly step your game up.
     
  18. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    lippy thought black men liked her for wit,charm and laugh out loud commentary...now you tell me it's because i'm white:smt090 it there another option on the sweepstakes...i'll take the cash prize instead
     
  19. OpenHeart

    OpenHeart New Member

    Yes, it is written by a black woman. I totally agree with it. However, most black women are only attracted to black men. Yes, some want to be loyal to their race but for the most part most feel that white men are inadequate in bed and in the "LOOKS" department and there is simply no comparision. These are the women that are coming up on the short end of the stick. but the other BW that I mentioned in my post before this one are not losing on any end of the spectrum and there is more of these type of black women than some realize there are.
     
  20. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    yeah there are BW in an undercover mode wanting to date a white man. they arent fooling me. I dont care one way or the other. If they are happy with a WM cool...that is all is needed in the world.

    there are very selfish people in the world and they feel if they arent happy so you shouldnt either
     

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