"12 Reasons women can't stand Nice Guys."

Fan, I think you are full of shit. You seem like a nice guy with an edge LOL

 

I appreciate the acknowledgement babe but on the real my kindness needs to be earned its not initially given. You don't get gf treatment without putting in gf time even though I know a lot of girls expect it lol.

 

Fair enough and you are right..but remember, guys need to put in the bf time 2

 

You know whats funny is I never want bf attention until I'm ready to give them gf attention everything before that is just two strangers getting to know each other and if you're talking about sex... well I'm not gonna lease a car with the option to buy without a test drive. It doesn't make sense. What if I get a 2008 Honda Accord and it doesn't feel right once I already put the down payment ie my time. Could have driving a 2011 Camry the whole damn time lol

 

Good thinking

 

Truth of the matter is bad boys will always pull hot chicks fuck em and dump them and that's their main intention. They are not really ready to marry and want to insert their pipe in as many holes as they can to prove they have the x- factor with women. Unfortunately a lot of women are drawn to them and it is after they are dumped by 2 or 3 bad boys that they begin to see that nice guys are really not bad. So that is life, bad boys will pull the chicks fuck them then they get heart broken and look for the nice guy.
OH i forgot to add that bad boys have wit and they have a way with words and know how to make a women feel alive, its a practice they have honed and perfected and have a 80% success rate.

 

LOL.

 

She seems to not made a point of mentioning attractiveness. I am pretty sure women would like TOm Brady whether he is a nice guy or bad boy.

 

trust me not all women want bad boys to spend the night...no, you can not use my damn shower...go home and shower...no i will not make you a sandwich you came over here for sex...we had sex...now you go home...

glad we got that straightened out...i love how men always think they are in the drivers seat:lol:

 

Honey the real ones are ya dig?

 

And conversely, really hot and bitchy woman can and do use men in pretty much the way. Then men start looking for more than just looks after a couple of experiences with gold diggers.

 

If, only, more Girls thought that way.

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You are absolutely, 100% correct, BlackMasterJay I fell prey to one of these and it took me over 5 years to recover. I am still reeling from the effects - it almost took my life. He rescued me from the death that was my childhood marriage and created me from ashes...for months, he treated me like a queen, or so I believed - he certainly was my King. He absorbed me into his life (like that warm jacket in winter) before spitting me out, suddenly, utterly - without warning and with great brutality. Even his parents, although they love him (they have to, although they are ashamed of him), still love and pray for me to this day and hold me in respect. He has done this to numerous other woman before and after me - I am not the only one. That is your "bad boy". Like I said, he almost killed me.

Yet still to this day, I despise "nice guys" as an insidious force within themselves - a lack of self awareness, a pitiable passive aggressive nature that they assert unknowingly on their unwilling subjects. Who needs 'em. Not me. I fling them off like lint. They are absolutely insubstantial, tiresome, and less than men. I hate them, unbelievably, worse than the bad boy, for their lack of self awareness, the fact that they haven't been through the flames... like me...

Give me a man who has been through it. A man who is capable of being a bad man, who chooses not to be... who has come to truly know himself and chooses conscious kindness instead.

 

oh ok.

 

Shut up bitch.

 

I'm with you on that. Your feelings never come into play. You give her support and in the end she will never be attracted to you like she was to the bad boy. Life is too short to worry about a woman who doesn't love you. Go out on a few dates. Start a fight or two. Live your life. Be a man.
Its no use kowtowing to a woman who doesn't have the same feelings for you. She had a rough breakup, oh well tough titty. You don't need that karma in your life. You have a human right to be happy. Never let a woman take that away from you.

 

Im bout to be a bad boy from hear on out.

 

My man is one of the nice guys. LOL I've been attracted to the "bad boys" so I completely understand that, but I was WAY more attracted to my nice guy. I did wonder if it's perhaps because, in this relationship, I'm the 'bad' one. :smt043 Opposites attract, right?

 

What the hell would piss you off so much about this quote of mine? A real "bad boy" would ignore it - so you must be one of those pantywaist "nice guys".

 

Being a pushover or a wimp isn't the same as being a 'nice' guy.

I'm a nice guy, but I still argue like muthafucker with girls I date, get mad, don't return calls, etc.

At the same time I'm not emotionally abusive or deliberately manipulative. I try to see things from her vantage point generally and not just my own.

If you're a woman and you can't say with utter conviction your man is a 'good guy', IMO that's a problem.

You can be self-assured, confident and still be a 'nice guy'.:smt109