That One person that ALWAYS got you SPRUNG!!!

***Disclaimer*** ***ADULT CONVERSATION***



Simply put: We all got one. That one person in your past that every time you think back, you either get hard or wet, depending on your sex.

I was on the train home tonight and thought of "M", that one lady I dated for a summer that for whatever reason, was the perfect physical specimen to me, not to mention she had a great personality to boot, which is also very important to me. But seriously, her body, was exactly what I desire in a woman, and to get that, even once, is VERY special.

Her body was so on point, that it didn't matter what she was wearing, she was absolutely perfect. She would come over in sweats and sneakers, and I would get heated at the very sight of her. Yes, ideally your eternal mate would create this response every single time, but it's really not so. Everyone is flawed in one way or other, and in a loving relationship you love beyond flaws. However, we all know that ONE PERSON, past present or future, that supersedes all others in terms of getting you sexually aroused. This is the person I want to focus on!

"M" for me was a long time coming. It's entirely possible that the prolonged desire for a particular person can enhance sexual desire, but she was really out of mind for about 3 years from the time I met her. She was reintroduced into my life after she graduated grad school, and came back to working at my office again. I was always attracted to her, and she to me, but there was that whole relationship thing going on both of our ends, so nothing was ever pursued. She came back from grad school single, and I being single at the time, shit moved quick!

We hung out every day for about two weeks, then, I offered to cook her dinner for a romantic evening. At my suggestion (or mandate for dinner services), she came over in a yellow sun dress and 3 inch heels. We didn't get to dinner for awhile....

So what I ask of YOU ALL, is to share your stories of that person that you've met in the past that at a very thought, would get you sprung! Ladies too of course. Let's make this a good one; too many shitty threads lately!!:smt025

 

This is a GREAT idea for a thread. There was someone like that in my past, but now it is just a memory...I feel nothing for this man any longer as I am so content right now. Agree there have been too many negative threads lately. Will positive rep you if I can . Looking forward to reading others.

 

when are yall getting married.

no shade but you have the classic case of "lost-herself" I wish I could be a fly on the wall and see how you and yours play-out, man that would make for interesting viewing.

 

LOL. It seems that way I guess. But that is not the case. He and I have been through a lot together and this is the third time we have reconnected. Before we did this time, we decided that we want to do this for keeps, which means compromise. After a 20 year marriage, I was not sure that I want to get married again, so the compromise is this: He just bought a fixer upper house that is halfway between where we both live, right now we live 100 miles apart as I moved to the Boston area. Once the house is fixed up a year to 18 months, we are getting engaged and moving in together and setting a wedding date.

We have our seperate and together life and times, and have definitely grown and talk more and are more into the emotional part of the relationship, don't get me wrong the physical is awesome, but this is a grown-up relationship. For both of us the key I think was realizing that we are happy apart but happier together and not allowing others to tell us why we should not be together. We are the only two in the relationship and nobody else knows the feelings involved.

Getting a third chance is truly a gift and we don't intend to waste it. Like I said RR's thread idea is a GREAT one, but I am beyond looking at the past as it prevents moving forward.

 

This woman I met tonight....I can't get her off my fucking mind. I like how she gassed my head up on some "ohhh I couldn't wait to talk to you, just the sound of your voice comforts me" than some dumbass totally ruins the moment because his buddy locked him out of the room she hung up by the time I got the situation settled.

Man she has it going on, documentarian, writer, producer, arts activist, philanthropist, MOTHER, care giver...Sadly she is going thru a bitter divorce right now. Wish I could of helped her thru these hards times.

 

It sucks when you can't forget someone who has already forgot about you. Last night did not turn out as well as I thought.

 

Wow, i guess people are missing the point of the original post.

It was just a question to those who have past relationships that bring back good memories.

Just because there is one person in your past that you will always be fond of does not mean that they were your eternal love interest for life. I'm also not saying people who find a lasting mate at a later point are settling for less.

In my case, we are still friends and chat occasionally. I will always remember how hot she gets me, and she does remember similar feelings as well; far from forgotten Celticboy...

Regardless, it didn't work out between us for several reasons, and that's that. I have no problem gettin sprung on new women I meet, which is why I'm cutting out now, got some work to do.... :smt025

 

I understand man. Looks like I need to put in the work as well.