"12 Reasons women can't stand Nice Guys."

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by babybro, Apr 22, 2011.

  1. Blacktiger2005

    Blacktiger2005 Well-Known Member

    The so-called nice guy is the supreme player. They have a different approach which is a little more sophisticated in getting what they want. They prey on the naive with kindness. Unfortunately too many women fall for it until it's too late. I guess one learns from their mistakes to get wise. I guess that is why sooooo many women see through the nice guy.
     
  2. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I always love it when people call me arrogant. It cracks me up. Why shouldn't I be arrogant. I'm inlove with me lol
     
  3. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    I think many times different characteristics are confused.

    nice/wimpy

    shy/introverted

    arrogant/confident


    Some good, while others that are similar can be a turnoff. I don't find nice a turnoff but wimpy is out.
     
  4. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Exactly but some people that shit takes forever to figure out. One of the things that I use to hear girls talk about in hs was finding a pretty thug. Dumbest thing I ever heard of in my life.
     
  5. Raul Sinclair

    Raul Sinclair New Member

    Real Talk :cool:
     
  6. Raul Sinclair

    Raul Sinclair New Member

    For the most part, everything you said is accurate. Wolf in sheep's clothing lol...Thats what its all about now.
     
  7. BlackMasterJay

    BlackMasterJay Well-Known Member

    Heres a kicker: If you researched narcissistic(and sociopath) behavior in men, it states the following:::::::::men exhibiting these behaviors initially come across as the nicest-charismatic-most charming- ducklings in the pond. Wrapping around you like a warm jacket in winter making you accustomed to the feeling. After your body has become dependent on it, a transformation occurs. In other words, this jacket turns into a winding snake-anaconda that squeezes the life out of you. It squeezes until blood explodes through your nostrils and all that is left is a dried up, fruitless, depressed entity psychologically enslaved from her true essence.

    But heres another kicker: Women love feeling psychologically enslaved and told what to do. Provided the fact that the narcissistic individual "studied his game", he can suck the life out of a woman and still have her crawling back for more (and more) because the feeling of depression becomes a feeling of affection she cant live without. And his aggravation becomes the only passion in her life.

    :D
     
    Last edited: Apr 24, 2011
  8. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    Pause. lol
     
  9. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Exactly. That usually meant pretty ass dudes who hung out on the block with their wave cap while they did push ups and admired each other's kicks. Just plain gay.
     
  10. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    Kinda like that one episode of "The Boondocks" when they was on that homies over hoes-type shit. It's fucked up how the prison mentality creeped it's way onto the streets like it did.
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    So true kid

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  12. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    That whole episode was crazy.
     
  13. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Hey guys BW call bad boys thug behavior , macks or players.
    Hey fellas guess what WW and BW are the same....is that funny.
    Like I stated before what the woman been saying you can be a good guy but doesnt mean be a cupcaker, a simp and a trick
     
  14. celticboy04

    celticboy04 Member

    Yep, this is something I try to tell many young men. I cannot tell you how many men, black men in particular, who are educated, polite, physically fit, and have nice jobs who have no confidence with women whatsoever.
     
  15. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    wow, it has been so long since I have seen the boondocks.
     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    It's because too many young black men buy into the idea if you're not the stereotypical black lady's man you aren't going to be desirable.
     
  17. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    Ah the dreaded "nice guy" term. The other N word lol
     
  18. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Yup nobody wants to be called that. I'd rather be called an asshole than a nice guy any day of the week.
     
  19. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    lmao I got to give you a rep on that!
     
  20. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    Yep. That's just like being put in the "friend zone".
     

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