Right...I left that out because I didn't understand the phrase....friends with benefits. Since you said you weren't referring to that plus I didn't quite understand what it meant, I responded to the part quoted. If there was a connection I missed it somehow. silly me.
I think FG is a bit confused as to what we were all talking about. "Boyfriend number 2" is a song and a slang term(stupid I know) but it refers to just getting laid on the side. Oh course no man would want to have other men involved in their relationships but thats not what we are talking about here. For example, in the case of Tiger Woods he had his wife & a slew of other women he was boning on the side. All of these women knew he was a married man but they spread their legs anyway...now here comes the fun part. A lot of these mistresses were not okay with just being a side bitch anymore...they wanted to be the MAIN chick Men dont operate like this. We would be totally happy with a hot married chick using us on the side.
This is how we females respond when we've been used...it's bittersweet. To guys it is a victory or score of sorts, but to women it is bittersweet if the man is a good lover. Not too many women are "happy" sharing a man but most guys would be happy to be a side dick. Moreover, a side dick is still a man when he gets up out of that married woman's bed. Not so for the side bytch who is screwing another woman's husband...She is not a lady any longer. She is in fact worse than a bitch. It may not be fair, but hey...it is what it is. [HDYT]80lh4Oj2Ys4[/HDYT]
Not to 'jack this thread, but that's incredible live recording by Mr. Withers!! Best thing about youtube IMO are some of the music clips uploaded on that site.
I agree that women can play this too. Both men and women if they are playing should be honest enough to let their palymates know their position.
I just hate the term bitch i aint no bitch i'm a DOG so you can call me side dick or booty call dick or whatever but not a bitch hell naw