The other side of the coin

This. Right there. This is what get's you in trouble. I simply gave you my opinion on why you catch heat from everyone and you accuse me of misunderstanding and disliking you. Seems to me you read what you want to in what others post here. You've already got your mind made up that someone doesn't like you because they post something to you that you take in a negative way, because you perceive the Majority, if not all, in a negative light due to your intitial posting here.

I don't like or dislike you because frankly you haven't let anyone here get to know you. You've not reveal any personal facts about yourself : age,where you are from, whether you are married or just dating, things of that nature. And yes you are quite welcome to keep your life outside this forum to yourself if you wish, but this is another thing that makes you look suspect to some here. Although she herself was accused of being a troll like yourself, your friend Sockervadd has revealed personal details about herself to at least make herself relatable to people here, and even though there are a small few who still think she is a troll (probably more so because they just don't like her) she has become accepted more so.

Feel free to continue alienating yourself if you like.

 

Well you don't know America.

A BW's word comes before those of a BM in America...everything after that is just bullshit.

The BW is also FAVORED BY THE MEDIA..to say they're not recognized is foolish.

BW were left in charge of white babies during slavery...and in many cases,were trusted to run the plantation when the owner was away.

WM didn't even trust their own women that much:smt039

Unlike Black men....BW are not seen as a threat....historically...she's hasn't given them a reason to be threatened.

 

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Lol...

Of topic and I could easily be wrong but dude's accent reminds me of the well rounded tones of a Zimbo schooled at St George's, Falcons College or the like. Same with the sense of humour. Then again if he born in from UK could be any type.

I don't play too much into the stereotypes/prejudice/what other people think etc 'cos really I don't give a fuck and it doesn't loom large in my relationship anyway.

Of course I've noticed issues at times but I don't indulge it. Marriage takes some people off guard, it's like they can entertain it as a passing fun but settling down together surprises them.

HA at the superchild theory.. not sure about that, but I know my kids will be super kids 'cos their Daddy will be a guy who is intelligent, proud, open hearted, patient and talented.

 

I don't think he should rub it in that this pisses off black women and white guys. I like his accent and his style of communication, however.

Hint, she'll never do it. When it's brought up she always goes on the defensive end. You might as well just say the stick figure is the person making the replies behind the computer. This is the best we've got.

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This dude makes lots videos.... in couple of his videos some of the white ladies sound like a bit of Aussie/kiwi/Brit, may be they were educated overseas. Kara at 3:04 has very beautiful accent.

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Yes, I know she won't reveal anything about herself because even if she initially came here with legitimate intentions, due to the negative reactions she got from her first posting here, she immediately adopted the mindset that the majority of people here are hateful and negative and she was going to stay here to spite us and wasn’t going to “conform” to our ways. The fact that she went into this mode and continually harp about any and every perceived negative thing that someone said or did, and Tamstrong, someone who was one of her defenders after the bullshit from her initial posting went down, got frustrated with her and pointed out to her what she was doing and accused Tam of attacking her and hating her for sticking up for Goodlove during that particular drama speaks volumes.

Personally, I don’t care if she’s White or Black as some suspect, if she came here to contribute to this site in a positive way, then she should quit with the crusading victim act she’s on and contribute to prove all the naysayers about her wrong. She doesn’t need to “conform” just make herself relatable to people here. Ymra can be looked at as the biggest non conformist on this site since he’s made it clear that he thinks most of the people here and the site itself is stupid. Many folks here don’t like him but he has revealed things about himself and his personal life here to at least be relatable to everyone here. She hasn’t. And because of this she will be suspect.

 

super child ? OOHH SHIT . LOL

 

Yes defo born somewhere and educated elsewhere.. 2.57 and Kara at 3.54 are both Australian for sure. I'd say Kara is Australian/has been living in UK.. but I think that vid is filmed in SA?

Anyway.. who cares.. thanks though the guy cracks me up. I guess he must be comfy in his job if he can get up to such in his office! Media maybe.

 

what does it speak. I have been and will always say.....this is what TAM was getting mad about that I was pointing out the fact that there were BM disrespecting BW and I saw it as BULLSHIT. so if it is suspect for a person to side with me on that then yeah that speaks volumes. It speaks volumes of people who are making disrepectful statements about BW.

 

Tam was not hating on her for siding with you. Enough already with the Black men disrespecting Black women shit. Move on already. If you believe that some Black men are doing that here that is fine and that is your opinion and you have stated it. Repeatedly. Some people here think you are wrong on that fact and have stated it and they are allowed their opinon. So why are you still hung up on it? Bringing it up over and over again will not resolved the situation. No one here participating on this site is forced to. Everyone here joined of their own free will. If anyone perceives something to be wrong or offensive on this site they are more than welcome to leave of their own free will. I get and under stand where you were coming from, but I also don't get why you are so hung up on this. Especially as it has been pointed out this is a site focused primarly on WW/BM relationships.

 

Im not Im just pointing out the ongoing convo you are having with Openheart saying what is what and where it is coming from. To me it is being blowing out of proportion and for people to call her a troll is crazy for sticking up for BW. again depite the fact it is a WWBM site doesnt make it rite to bash BW . Is ok to bash Asian women asain men , white men and ect because it is a WWBM. that doesnt make sense.

like you stated they can move on so why when people speak of differring views people get evil in their rebuttal..saying you are a troll or whatever.

also when you bash BW and you know BW and BM (who are against IR) give them ammo to go back and speak against IR. just remember you have to be an example like it or not.

there are people making it really hard for IR to exist in a small or large way.

 

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don't make me get the puppies & kittens up in here

 

ok lets hug

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Just my observation but as I stated to Openheart, two reasons why she gets looked as a troll : her constant harping about the negative things she perceives here and her lack of humanizing and making herself relatatable too people here. Even if Openheart for arguments sake is a Black woman, and joined here with positive intentions, then she should not be focused on the perceived negative things here but on making positive contributions if she supports IR as awhole, because her focusing on the negative her is only heightening the percepetion of those here who already think she's Black, creating tension and ammo in and of itself for those against IR. As I said to her in one of my post to her be a solution to the negative here, don't add to it by focusing on it.

 

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OMG, Is GL STILL on that shit?
Not even on ignore can I get away from his never ending rant.
smh

 

Please elaborate on what I put in bold. I would prefer that in the future, it is easier for IRs (especially of this kind) to exist in America, and you have to worry less about white men, black women, and other people that simply frown upon the presence of the coupling. Because I know soon I'll be in one too and I don't want fear/resentment of others to be something that prevents two people from liking each other. You should view the Celebrity IRs section and see how they deal with all the stuff going against them. For some people, the hate is motivated by resentment, and for others, it's about maintaining "racial purity".

Based on this link, part of the reason you express out the problems you express is that black women are the only ethnic group that prefers not to date outside of their race. Hence, that poses as a concern for the people on this forum. Also Goodlove, there are "bad apples" in every race. If they said something in frustration about BW, that doesn't mean that they are bashing them. I think the whole thing with you is just a misunderstanding.

http://www.afroromance.com/fyooz/black-women-on-interracial-dating/

 

if you read the whole thing...you will had figured out some things also

I stated the following:

ok lets hug

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people bad mouth the kool aide and dont know the flavor

 

nope if you cant figure it out then.....