Who do you miss..

where on earth in that statement was me admitting i want it...??? very telling ra-ra

 

Nowhere. I was simply asking if you did. There's no shame in it if you do. You're a big girl. It's okay.....:smt110

 

well, that was why I said I want me back, its been way too hectic lately.. tell u all about it if I can get my ass to skype... I do lubb u loads, you do know that!!! XOXOXOXO


and thanks Ra-ra and Tar for the comments!!!! That was sweet

 

We should skype party sometime

 

:smt008 you know i lubb you toooo :smt060

 

i'll be in that...!!!! artyman:

 

It was quite a bit easier in Miami, but the damage had been basically done. We're divorcing now, but I can't blame it all on the city. But a lot of the initial stress that set it in motion started in the midwest. It is certainly easier for my son in Florida, though, and that is definitely the most important. Looking for like-minded people who had been through that sort of thing is one of the things that drew me to the site in the first place.

 

pain is love

the most painfull thing on earth is see the one u love,loven other person,am douglas:smt039

 

Sorry to here this. I'm guessing you are the person who left me the unsigned attempted positive rep & comments then.

Yes, coming to this site to get perspectives, insights and share some common ground overall from like-minded people who have been through or are going through the same experiences was a motivator for me as well. Been in a BM/WW relationship is not an easy thing, but it is worth all the negative bullshit when you know that you are not alone in your day to day struggles and support you and your loved ones. It's kind of frustrating at times to observe some people here who claim to be about BM/WW relationships treat the issues of our unique relationships as a joke, because it not. And wanting input and opinions from people who say they don't understand or can't relate to what we go through at times? WTF??

 

Yeah. I was trying to find a way to put this across in my response to Mr. F when he asked what I meant by strong invested interest. It's not that simple to put down in words and explain, but people who live BW/WW relationships on the daily and go through certain things on a regular basis seem to get where I'm coming from when I say strong invested interest. It's our lives. We're invested in the unique issues and concerns that are a part of BM/WW relationships.

 

I wanted to be sure I understood you correctly before I flipped out. Again I want to be clear. Are you saying that you can only understand the struggle of being in an IR if you have kids with or are married to a white woman?

 

No. And we both know that's not what I was implying. You're a smart man. Come on now.

 

so lippy is curious ra ra...are you married and if so, does your wife know you are here? O said that he was in the middle of a divorce...not that you have to be single to be here...married is actually great! do you think your wife would consider joining as well?

 

If you get into an IR you better brace yourself for the beauty of it and the ugliness that society brings.

 

I'm going to act to like you in this post Goodlove.

 

Yes I'm married and pretty much most of the regular female posters know this. My wife knows I participate and I don't know that she would join and if she did she more than likely wouldn't participate that much. Forums are not her cup of tea. Facebook, Ebay and clothes/shoe browsing are more her thing when she's online. If she did join however she'd probably be one of those types of people that would only post up pictures or music than actually get into any discussions.

 

Exactly. See, I knew there was a reason why I call you my wifey from an alternate reality. :mrgreen: