The other side of the coin

Discussion in 'Dealing with Prejudice' started by Veronica1986, Mar 20, 2011.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    cosign

    cosign, cosign and if you sound intelligent around black folk (only a small fraction) they think you are some uppity negroe

    cosign, cosign and cosign
     
  2. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    nobody wants to be in the place of a BM.....muslims dont want to be BM. BW is a two for one deal in coporate america...(cover 2 bases under affirmative action)
     
  3. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL. if you dont agree with everything they say you are a troll. hell I dont agree with everything you say but I hope we dont get all nasty about it.
     
  4. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    they can say they were raped to be a woman because they were seperated from their kids and had to nurse the white folks kids.

    that strong black women anthem is just a way for them to have a ticket to argue at a drop of a hat.
     
  5. sockervadd

    sockervadd New Member

    where have I said bm oppressing bw? nowhere dudie

    wm did rape many bw.. and Id chose death over rape anyday..
    that's the ultimate humiliation
     
  6. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

    Strong word right there.
     
  7. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

    Definately...and a young white girl from Sweden of all places..sure as hell isn't informed enough to say otherwise...unless she's just trolling.
     
  8. sockervadd

    sockervadd New Member

    haha I have never demanded anyone to agree with everything I say. hel tomorrow Ill probably wont agree with everything I said today myself

    that doesn't stop me from saying it today tho
     
  9. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL. everybody is trolling...maybe she isnt connect enough to get what goes on here in america doesnt make her a troll.

    just because someone make a little off statements doesnt make them trolls or make statements you are very much against a troll. Im sure yall can sniff out a troll a mile away but ....
     
  10. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Why are you coming to this conclusion that black women somehow have it harder than black men just because they are women, that is very presumptuous and shortsighted.

    It would be akin to me thinking every White Southerner in America or White Afrikaners in South Africa is a racist, just because those places were two hotbeds of racial policies that shaped their cultures and society and so those folks must be all racist.

    You draw a conclusion that is uninformed and shortsighted. Just becasue a black woman is a woman doesn't mean she had it harder in life automatically in American society.

    If anything today it is black women who are the one's in America going to university and graduating at a higher rate than black men. It is all part of the discourse about the breakdown of relations between black men and black women and the oft repeated "not too many good black men available" phrase being tossed about.

    You seem to be taking the white male relationship over history with white females as far as discrimination and applying that to blacks in America, that is a very faulty strategy. Black women never needed feminism to liberate themselves from black men, they have always had a free will in American history in their relations with black men, and we are back to what I talk about power and control, something black men do not possess over them.

    Can you site any examples of black men oppressing black women in America. We know why white feminism came about, to be liberated from white male control over them but that equation never included black men, who faced their own battles to be liberated socially from oppression of the same white men.
     
  11. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    exactly. that is a part of life...you dont always agree..just understand
     
  12. sockervadd

    sockervadd New Member

    haha yeah and sometimes I don't understand BUT winning isn't the essential, participating is lol
     
  13. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

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  14. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Then what are you saying, white man's oppression of black woman has been worse than his oppression of black men.

    I don't comprehend what you are asserting then. Who has been oppressing black women that is worse than what black men have faced.

    Since rape is the ultimate humiliation then what about the black men that had to live with those black women, who might have been his daughter, wife, sister and as a man he had no power to do anything about it because it would cause him his life at the hands of the white male who had the power in society.

    Now do you see why your notion of black women had it worse is so seriously flawed. You make it sound like it was black men that inherited some power from his forefathers, the wealth and influence, social status, privilege, black men were the bottom of society in America, even a lowly immigrant that came to the U.S. had more rights than a black descendant of slaves in U.S. History.

    Black men benefited in no way from white men, none. Can you understand that. They were stripped of what it is to be a man, these concepts seem hard for you to grasp because you are seemingly intent on pushing that black women had it harder. If that is the case then do tell me how black women had it harder than black men in society. I'll be waiting to find out.
     
  15. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    We need some sistas up in hurr LOL
     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Nah just a young know it all. I swear I miss being that young when I knew everything lol
     
  17. sockervadd

    sockervadd New Member

    I have never said I know everything, have I.. I let the misters do that

    I have never told anyone to shut up cus they are too stupid, I have never told anyone they are a fool.. what I have done is saying I was wrong on some parts..
     
  18. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Could one imagine if black men had the power over black women that white men had over white women, sheesh.

    The constructs of black feminism generally centers on how in the black power movement sistas were mistreated and black men disrespecting black women in hip-hop videos etc, etc. Remember when that was all the rage. So record labels, primarily owned by white males by the way mind you, switched to Latin and White women in the videos today.
     
  19. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

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  20. sockervadd

    sockervadd New Member

    gotta love ur refined retorics
     

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