The other side of the coin

If you have trouble with a bw over dating a ww, just set her up with a wm. Simple. Everyone's happy, no one's lonely.

 

Yeah in an ideal world they shudn't but we all now it's not an ideal world..

I have talked to many racist, and I always start with listening to them for a while and by doing that they often listen to me later.. all racists aren't evil.. some just haven't had the time to think things thru.. and some have had too much hate in their life

that's just my experience, listening to someone doesn't cost a thing

if u have another opinion u are very free to express it.. and I promise to listen.. haha

 

thats for sure.

or you can ...wait... wait....masturbate IR

 

thing is I can be very charming, believe it or not, when I feel like

so if I don't feel like beefing with someone I usually don't have to either

 

no doubt.

 

you e-beefing again? who you e-beefing with this time? Didn't they teach you to cover yo self, keep you head down, and not to speak to a man in your culture? smdh.

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LOL.

 

pfff, If I was a muslim I wud have been taught a woman is a diamond, and that I am the most precious thing out there... boouyyachacka

 

Sounds like someone likes a bit of dancehall...:smt033

 

Don't give up just yet, Captain. All hope is not lost!

 

LOL. 5 finger get off baby

 

Hahahaha! We have no right to ask someone to do what we're not prepared to do ourselves! :smt023

 

GL, when I see a discussion dumbing down like this, that's exactly what I say to Mike too...OK. I always remind myself that he's just a kid. He's a good boy, but he is definitely on the mischievious sometimes. I guess that's why I like him a little bit. He loves to attack while you're fighting with someone else. What is the term? Double Team Ya? :smt042

 

What the hell has gotten into you?

 

ROFL.

 

And in her long litanous post what did you learn from it, enlighten me please. Point by point I would love to hear what you took away from it that will be so useful. Instead of speaking about her perspective, tell me what she stated that was so poignant for future reference.

What did you garner from what she wrote that was so insightful about the black woman's perspective of black men who date white women and what is said about black women.

You speak as though she speaks for black women, she speaks for herself, what she feels is her feelings, the next black woman could feel completely different, secure in themselves and not give a damn about a black man with a white woman. Her experience is no more or less important than the next regular schmo on the street.

Its often insecure people that worry about these things. If someone is handling their business they can care less about what others have to say, dirt off the shoulders in the end, nothing more.

My bottom line is and remains, there are black men that date white women, white men that date black women, Asian women that date white men, white women that date Asian men, black men that date black women, white men that date white women, etc.

You keep talking about black woman's perspective as though that is suppose to be important when there is no singular black woman's perspective, it varies depending on the black woman, irregardless of whether you are with a black man or not. You can have a boyfriend with a terrific family of black women or an awful bunch, nothing stated here by this hit and run poster alters that, moreover they all will have their own individual reasons for their mindset.

There are black women that don't date black men, even this poster stated that, I didn't for one second care why that is the case, because I am secure and confident in myself to not be concerned about people's personal choices in life. I live one life and I'll be damned if anyone else dictates to me about my interests.

I'm a tolerant individual but I can recognize game when I see it, and this poster was rank, bigging herself up to feel better. Cmon with that already.

 

U are absolutely right all bw are not the same BUT if one bw find something disturbing and feels that bw has been bashed chances are others will too.. and werent u guys complaining there has been soooo many others presenting the same arguments..

easy to just dismiss everyone with uncomfortable opinions as trolls.. not saying they are not, not saying they are.. just saying before dong that everyone maybe shud just take some time thinking about can she be right, troll or no troll

 

Holy cow. W.T.F.

Black men were treated poorly in the past as well by white men, black women were raped and some had consensual relations with said white men, I don't think today however that when I see a black woman with a white man she is sleeping with the enemy, its freaking 2011. That notion doesn't even enter the frame of thought.

Respect is a two way street, everyone has to individually respect the other person first if they expect the same in return, black, white doesn't matter, its a personal value system of each individual.