The other side of the coin

Sounds like we have another drag queen up in here.

 

And you're still mad because you suck and you're a fucking dumbass. :smt043

 

well since I know the truth I don't care who I am to "them"

whoever them are supposed to be.. to most bw Im sure Im noone since most bw don't even know I exist...

 

Seriously where did you grow up?

 

all around the world dudie

 

It shows. You're pretty cultured

 

ohh i thought u meant it in a sarcastic way.. haah like, did u grow up under a rock..

thank u

 

Nah not at all. Some of the men on here have dealt with such bs from bw in the past that they are quick to be defensive and rightly so. The trolls just won't leave us be for some reason and we need people like you to be fair and unbiased.
The original poster said things I didn't like but I couldn't just dismiss some her well made points. Truth is truth whether we like it or not.

 

Frankly this whole subject matter bores me, that is the point of me saying live one's life as it makes you happy. I was referencing interests in one's personal life as far as relationships and what makes a person happy.

Its why I say people ought to just live their lives and focus on their personal relations.

What does what a black man say on here or a black women say on another forum accomplish, absolutely nothing. Doesn't mean jack in the end.

I don't have to convince myself of why I like what I like, I go for it.

She wasn't discussing anything but her slanted views that she wanted to get across about all black women not being "Precious", black men not black women type, white girls are sly and sneaky and get away with things, white women expect to be the center of attention and insecure.

Frankly she came across as the insecure one spending more time seemingly berating white women with a broad brush about BM/WF relationships. Something that is notorious for happening when someone sees a black male and white female together, out come the stereotypes and suppositions about two people they don't know from A-Z.

I don't know where you live but you are seemingly very naive if you think this person showed up here to be altruistic in her post.

Just like she can say all that drivel, I will say I don't give a shit about folks who think like her. Its a two way street I guess.

 

only when they respond...but again and again I have stated over and over move on.

 

Its not even that bro, its just that I don't even care frankly, I'm not checking for what any other person does in their life or who said what or didn't say what. That has no bearing on me as a grown ass man.

I don't feel the need to or think anything about it when I see a black woman with a white man, I simply do not concern myself about it.

I have seen so many labels and stereotypes said about black men who date white women and vice versa, I just soldier on and am not the least bit concerned.

If you are a confident individual, secure in your life and relationship, you don't have the time to care about what others think. I'll walk in the middle of Mudville, Mississippi holding hands with a white woman if that is where I am.

I live my life for my own happiness, irrespective of others views. I doubt I am the only person like that in the world.

 

wow

 

That's great.. but i didn't get the impression it was the ww/bm thing she was discussing.. she just wanted to make us aware how she as a black women felt bout some of the opinions that has been expressed bout black women..


now instead of thinking about if that is a thing u wd do or not, can't u just read it and reflect cus even tho u don't want to date bw i certainly hope u don't want then to think that u think less of em...

 

you should be confident in who you are.....I bought the diary of a tired black man. what you saw was he drove up with a white woman to pick up his child and he stated what most of us stated but he never degraded anyone. his thing was Im dating this ww because she bring me peace. end the of the movie/documentary he ends up with a black woman. he inteviews a slew of black men who cosigns on everything we say here but they are still dating black woman and some date ww.

end the end it is about finding peace and not having to degrade someone esle just to get it..

she stated stuff in some areas I agree and disagree but overall she is in the ball park

 

well, glad my swedish ass just misunderstood it then

everyone has dealt with bs in their lives, question is if u wanna let that bs affect u the rest of ur life..

 

that is so correct...2 wrongs dont make a right. It is stupid to put down BW for whatever reason.

the past should be a teacher and not to be the birther of hate in the now and future.

to many people are living in the world of hating for no reason

 

Haha if those men are that full of hate cus some women have been bitching Id freaking start the third world war reacting like them..

I live and learn, BUT I always leave a door open that I might have come to the wrong conclusion, even towards people I know have acted like a-holes in the past...

 

real talk. I just dont get it

 

If this individual was secure in herself as a confident woman none of this would be of any significance to her. Didn't you state yourself that you don't care what folks think of you.

I'm a black man in America so I don't even need to explain the historical baggage that comes with that. Black men are thugs, black men are convicts, black men are deadbeat, black men are cheaters, etc.

I'm not going to sit around lamenting or having a chip on my shoulder about it. I know what my personal characteristics are and how I interact with others, I give respect to get respect, whether you are a black woman, Asian man, white man, or whatever else. Its just my value system as I was raised to deal with others. I think less of no one as someone who shares an interest in and embraces other cultures.

When it comes to my personal relationships in life however I owe an explanation to no one, not even my own mother about my preferences.

I'm a very individualistic person and so I define myself not letting others do that for me, so no matter what is said about black men, I know better as one and so will live my life just fine.

 

so isnt it that the same thing when bros dog BW for whatever reason...IE BW are loud and ugly or if a person states I still date WW and BW and bros call you uneducated for dating BW or call you a BW loyalist.

so why are they sooo threatened by that