Who would you pair yourself with?

Nips it has nothing to do with education just money plain and simple. If a dude is a millionaire yet he's a hs drop out most girls won't care at all because at least he has money

 

Can't agree with you Andre. What if the guy a girl is dating is very wealthy, yet acts like a complete tool towards her? Would that girl then ignore guys who make less money and go for the same type of wealthy guy that has a bad personality?

It's definitely more about who you are and not whether you make $80k or $140k a year. It can't be all about money with women because I know already in the workforce, white men/women make more money than black men/women. Yet there are plenty of white women out there that like us, throughout the world and on this site.

 

Basically if youre a woman who claims to value formal education in your dates because it equates to intelligence, you'll be sorely disappointed half the time.

Theres nothing a piece of paper can tell you that a 30 minute conversation over coffee cant.

And this is coming from someone who values education.

 

Preach brotha preach

 

I think you misinterpret what hes saying.
Hes not saying ALL women value money over personality or substance. Hes saying women that have education as a primary dating criteria are looking for money in the end. No matter how they sugar coat the term of their choice for money.

 

Oh, ok. I gotcha now. I've done that a few times on here, mis-interpreted the posts of users. You should ask Andre, however, if that's what he really means.

 

You're still really young and I'm assuming by many of your posts you haven't had to fend for yourself yet but trust me having a lot of money makes a man more attractive more funny and more allowances are made.
Its like being extremely attractive you're considered more intelligent and likeable just becayse of how they look. People who say otherwise are pretty much lying.

 

I'm not implying they want a pay day but a good living. They want to the best chance at the best lifestyle. Even women with their own money usually want that.

 

Fact is, money make the world go round, money is 99% of everything yes its not everything but 99% is pretty darn good, even the good book says wine is for merry making but money answereth all things. If you are a wealthy man women will not care too much about your height or if you don't look like morris chestnut , women will laugh at your jokes like you are Cedric the entertainer . Lets cut this idealistic crap, money makes a man a little more attractive. It might not be the case for every woman but i will bet my last cedi. those women who are not swayed by wealth men are in the minority.

 

Save your breath homie didn't you know the women on are above that "superficial" nonesense. They're independent women who make their own money and don't need a man's money. Smdh lmao

 

MF, please. All women care about is if you have a job and can handle your bills. I don't want to be your sugar mama because you can't be bothered to get a damn job. That's it. It's not my fault you live in a city with a bunch of shallow, gold digging lady-children who hate their daddies but love his wallet and so go after yours. Sheesh!

 

Wow, are you guys just here to argue?

 

You need to take your act on the road because you're comical DB lol. Most women granted not the saints on this site, want security and they usually want a man to provide it. I didn't make this shit up, it has nothing to do with NYC its eons of societies where men have been doing that. This concept of women being financially self sufficient is a very recent phenomena. I'll make it more basic so you can keep up. A lot of money is rarely if ever a bad thing. Making minimum wage or making a living wage isn't hot.
Kanye West said it best "money ain't everything not having it is"

 

Well you're just here to be an annoying prick so why not.

 

Dude as you said earlier to me save your breath homie because they are always right and everybody else is always wrong and they always wanna have the last word and aint it funny how they always try insulting you just because they don't agree with you? And i am sure you have posted where you live and the kind of people who live in your hood hence the reference to that gold-digging heffa that lives across your block smgdmfh

 

True story. Too many people are just plain liars. To say that money is of little importance to women is just plain lying. I don't know a single dude who's making a good living who's alone unless its by choice but there's a shitload of funny broke dudes with great personalities that will stay alone well into their golden years and that's fact.

 

Really? I have a friend who is a millionaire. He is single. Sorry, what were you saying?

 

Ok smart ass do you think that guy is the exception or the rule? Smh