What I love about Men/Women/Relationships

Like a banger with a broken handbrake lol

Anyway my answer is....

Sex! the know eachother well kind of sex, we each know what floats the others boat and there is no awkwardness at all.

A sounding board, someone to run things by and get there opinion, when in a relationship I feel comfortably reigned in (bad phrase i know) and it's having that extra point of view that lends a calmness to me.

 

Well, clearly there's only ONE way to settle this. I will come to NYC and judge in person. I mean, it's only fair.

 

LET THE GAMES BEGIN!!!

 

this right here I guess is another concern, O mean yeah i might find a decent dude.. but i donät just wanna sit with that dude holding hand for some years til we break up and then continue living again..



anyone can tell me how u manage to have a real relationship without suffocating each other. letting each other grow

 

ROFL. Well, my vacation plans just got exponentially better. Lol

 

Be secure and live your own life while they live theirs and hopefully you grow into each other. No guarantees my friend

 

yuuh, Im not too desperate tho.. haha I have the best life evaah.. almost to the extent that I envy the man snatching me.. HAHAHA

that whole love thing just sounds soo nice sometimes

 

Yes, you said it sounds nice, I think it can be really nice. It does come with a caveat emptor though: buyer's beware ! You are dealing at your own risk !!

That is there are no guarantees, and you will be vulnerable. I think that is the point of the whole feeling - trusting the other person with yourself. At the point of starting the journey, you never know how things would turn out, you just have to evolve and deal with your situation with the best ways you are willing to embrace.

If there is no willingness to be vulnerable, there is no point of going into any relationship. It is giving your all, and means you can't be in control.

 

This.....

 

I haven't read all the replies, but I love the following:

- I love to feel wanted. That's a sexy feeling.

- I love when a guy shows me he's thinking of me

- I really love when a guy and I have a lot in common and things just click.

I miss these feelings...lol

 

...and thanks, and you too are awesome, lippy.

 

Agree with this.

When in a good relationship - it makes you a better person, you try more, you also have a better social life that I think its more satisfactory on so many levels.... I love men for that. Someone you can spoil a bit and someone that spoils you back and I'm not talking monetary things.. just the small stuff. To know that someone thinks of you.


Its wonderful!!! Granted, you should be completed before you enter a relationship and not look for someone to complete your life for you - but - it does add an extra level of completeness that is very satisfying and inspirational.

 

Yeah I repped Geek for starting the thread, very cool topic.

 

Would have it no other way and you haven't even heard the deep voice yet. :smt008

 

Hey Damon Stoudamire, Spud Webb, Mugsy Bogues, Early Boykins and Nate Robinson all got game and could ball with anyone.

 

Damn fam I'm taller than all those dudes lol. Nate is cool as hell though. He use to live in White Plains(my home town) when he was playing with the Knicks and would chill with us commoners lol.

 

I have mentioned this before but its worth mentioning again, for me personally nothing is more sexy than an intelligent, worldly, cultured woman.

She has to be someone that can appreciate cultures, languages, travel. Has to be able to talk to me about the world around us in a deep way.

This came about for me at college when dealing with the females who were in my History and Anthropology studies courses. I just found something attractive about them and it wasn't just physical, but that educated mindset that turned this brotha on.

I remember this exchange student from Germany, me and her would go to breakfast every morning and talk about German history and Europe in general, along with relevant world issues.

I love me an educated woman that is very secure in her being, such as attitude and mindset when dealing with others.

I sometimes hear references made that men are intimidated by smart women, I certainly am not, I welcome them with open arms.

 

LOL, Spud Webb used to kill it in the slam dunk contests, ups like crazy. Flying with MJ, Dominique, Sean Kemp, Dee Brown, etc.

Tallness is in my family genes. My mom is tall, dad was tall (passed away when I was 12), I have a couple of female cousins, 12 and 13 that are up to my shoulders. One of my uncles played college ball at Texas A&M between 92-95.

 

Ohhh you have a deep voice, too??? I have a thing about voices.... I'm sensitive to sounds and something about a man's voice goes straight to.. well, nevermind. You'll find out eventually....

This is a huge thing for me, too. I dated someone a few years ago who had no interest in travel and he was a jerk about it. He would say stuff like "Italy is a third world country! What kind of loser wants to live there!?!" Of course, he had never been there, and when I came back from Budapest with a souvenir he barely acknowledged it....saying we had the same stuff here and it was better because it was American. I broke up with him not long after.

I love standing in old city streets..like the Barri Gotic of Barcelona and just looking at the buildings...imagining them filled hundreds of years ago and how it must have looked. I visit every history museum I can find and absorb everything they throw at me. I don't require aomeone to be as into it as I am, but someone who can at least appreciate these things would be nice. I can't imagine not wanting to travel and see as much as I can, and sharing that with someone is even better.

Also, knowing what is happening in the world is a big one. I watch the news every day... someone who at least can discuss what's happening out there is a must. You don't have to be an expert, but at least have the senae to know that things are happening in Libya! Lol

 

Per the deep voice, so I've been told by others.

I absolutely concur on the travel and appreciation of other cultures. I've heard Budapest is very beautiful.

When I was in Montreal, I just loved walking around Old Montreal and seeing the buildings and architecture of the city's history, kind of takes you back in time.

I just enjoy folks who can have a respect for and understanding of the cultures of others in such a varied world, shows a real sense of openness and tolerance.