1. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    The balance is........

    wait what? She dindn't say shit. Hold on...I know what this is....

    ass-kiss·ing? ?
    [as-kis-ing] Show IPA
    –noun Slang: Vulgar .
    the practice or an instance of attempting to curry favor by the excessive use of compliments, praise, or the like.
     
  2. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    How is it ass kissing to express your opinion without insulting the person?
    There is always a tactful way to still get your opinion across.
    Saying as you stated as an example
    "I really don't like it, I think its a bit over cooked on the outside and meat is still red on the inside"
    is totally okay in my eyes. It's not praising,but not insulting either.
    It's a healthy middle.
    Especially when you add an advice like "Maybe next time when cooking this dish try to ...(insert whatever you think may be useful) " it is very constructive and I'm all for that.



     
  3. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Thank you,BigBrother and Karma for the welcome :D

    und hallo,Unique!! :)
     
  4. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    It's been ages. Did BlackPlanet.com lose some sway for you?
     
  5. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Lol BP has gotten boring.But that happens. I haven't stopped by here in a good while either :)

     
  6. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    :p I still have you on Skype and you're often available. Think you'll be up for a Skype chat later? :)
     
  7. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Sure I'm signed in and no plans to sign out yet

     
  8. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    huh?

    I agreed with what you said..........and I wasn't saying "YOU" were ass kissing...

    I was commenting on the "e-butt rub" that was given to you, when you really didn't say anything earth shattering......

    "Wow and thus the balance is restored. "

    huh? what did you say that somehow "restored balance" All you did was.........well...........never mind.

    You had your ass kissed...I saw it, I saw it.
     
  9. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Get ready for me...again! Heh. Well, the threads here have their ups and down. But for the most part, it's invigorating.
     
  10. BlackMasterJay

    BlackMasterJay Well-Known Member



    Braggin are we???..lol..

    Congrats , still.
     
  11. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    hey looooooky here...it's youuuuu...!!!! welcome back stranger :D
     
  12. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    There's also nothing wrong with welcoming back an old friend or associate.

    ........

     
  13. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Thank you,Tarshi! It's good to be back :)

     
  14. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Of course not. But claiming you are the deliver is a stretch. Or as I call it, kissing a lil boootay.
     
  15. Bug

    Bug Well-Known Member

    lol :D
     
  16. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    Not for assholes.
     
  17. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    A "welcome back" is what happens when someone is missed, like Be-you-tiful.

    If nobody misses one, in fact if nobody really likes one, I can understand how one wouldn't know the dynamic.
     
  18. Brittney

    Brittney Well-Known Member

    Damn, I didn't know all that. I just manually type and post the link in the middle. :rolleyes:
     
  19. Unique4ever

    Unique4ever Well-Known Member

    Ein nettes HALLO zurück an Dich! :smt039
     
  20. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    yeah everyone loves a lie if it makes em feel good
     

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