New, but glad I found the site

Hey my name is Julie 31 from Minnesota. I am married to a white man, but having an affair with a black man for the past month. I am an office manager for a security company. He is a security guard that works for us and we started an office affair. He is a great lover for sure!!! I look forward to posting on the site!! :drinkers:

 

Oh for fuck's sake...

 

There's plenty of BM married to BW on this site, some overtly looking for tail on the side, some hoping it happens and others doing who knows what. So welcome JM, everybody's here!

 

Who here is married to a bw? That's news to me and who here is trying to get side pussy?

 

northside is married to a bw, MF.

 

I swear I don't know you people anymore lol

 

I'm sorry, Athena..I'm still calling shenanigans. This reeks of crazy. Burden of proof of NOT CRAZY is on JulieM.

 

Well, how about you and I just sneak off into a corner and we can get reacquainted...? LOL

I can't believe you missed it- it was a big thing for awhile...but he also didn't come out and say it from day one.

 

LOL my words exactly

 

lol I hear yah. There's another "veteran" poster who is not posting so much now but came out saying he's looking for love in all the wrong places. He was a great poster but I think wasn't happy with the reaction he received when he made it public he was searching for tail on the side.

 

wow

Really did not expect that kind of welcome lol but oh well still happy to be chating!

 

we love to judge around here...but athena is right there are plenty of married men looking for something on the side...there are people not married looking for something on the side...

many people here have dated...currently date...or are interested in dating either bm or ww exclusively...not a fetish...

it doesn't sound like your husband knows about your relationship so this is not a cuck situation...you are having an affair and it just happens to be with a bm...

i don't know that i find this so odd anymore...i know very few people participating in one/one partnerships anymore...alot of people think they are but that is usually because one person is in the dark/denial

there are lots of cheating threads and you may be able to give a perspective that most aren't willing to share since you have already been open about cheating on your husband

:smt006

 

Why cheat why not just leave?

 

Well JulieM, first and foremost, welcome aboard to the forums, but cuckoldry is not what we practice here...at least not most of us.

 

There used to be a time in my past where I ONLY dated married women. You mutha fukkaz will be the first to scream about people being "judgmental"


...that's why I laugh at many of and your hypocritical. Sycophantic such ups. I don't know that its true, who comes into a group of strangers and just comes out and says some shit like that.

But after reading post after post about yall complaining about being judged, and ya ya ya. I can only sit back and giggle my ass off at the replies in this thread.

LOL....you fool kills me.

ha ha ha ha

 

Who said she wanted to leave. She just wants the extension of physical pleasure that the husband can not provide. Maybe its financial. She's a Admin assistance. That don't actually pay the bills, no 401k plans....

...only she can know the reasons why.

 

Because she lives on the real Planet Earth not your twentysomething paradise.

But misspelling one's own name is suspect.

 

I just agreed with this mutha fukka...

..I think I'm going to be ill.