You like what you like. No shame in that. I'm always amazed by the number of times that I've been asked that question too. Personally, I like to tell the ones that ask that I have to use a ladder to get on top of it to ride it. I agree with you though. A person's sexual ability/prowess has to do with the individual person. I also don't like the stereotype that just because you are white woman that dates black men that you are a sexual freak. For me, it's true. I just don't like people to assume it. Hmmm, does this give me permission to discuss big black cocks without any sort of backlash??
Yeah, I have fun like that with my answers, too. It's fun to mess with their idiot minds. LOL The sexual freak stereotype is annoying, even though it is true for me too. People do make some interesting assumptions about us; it'd be funny if it wasn't so irritating. The latest comment I got was from a friend of my brother's who said, after seeing me with my ex bf, was that I was a freak with a thing for guys with radiator hoses. smdh
I'm a firm believer in that dumb questions deserve to receive dumb answers. People's assumptions kill me. It also makes me wonder why they are so concerned with what I do or like to have done to me in the bedroom. I always wonder if they would be so concerned about it if I was dating a WM or if it is just the intrigue of the BM that all the sudden makes my sex life a topic. Regardless, I know why I date BM and it isn't because I have some kind of 'Mandingo' obsession.
You don't? Knock me over with a feather. Myex's friends did the same thing. First thing they would always ask "Is he big" I guess black guys are only good for sex otherwise what's the point? For any of the women who've dated other races has anyone ever asked why you're dating them?