Love Isn't Colorblind: White Online Daters Spurn African Americans

I like how Andrae betrays his age with each categorical statement. That inability to see nuance repeats itself particularly well among younger people.

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Anyway, short and sweet.

The western hemisphere plays hosts to two of the most violently xenophobic cultures in human history, the Anglo and Spanish. The Anglo model primarily took root in North America, while the Spanish dominated most of the land south of what became the United States. Contemporary white American culture bears the stamp of the Anglo model--industrious, repressed, Christian, and virulently racist. Of course there have been changes, many might argue progress, since the dawn of our republic, but like red wine on brand new white carpet, certain cultural strains are harder to wash out.

Personally I think the solution is to find a way to not care one way or other. This "white-woman-won't-date-me" bullshit is a boring topic that's been done to death on this board.

 

Or younger people like myself seek progress. Maybe we don't want to be burdened with the unshared short sighted ignorance of those who came before us. Human beings of every culture have been violent and dispicable. Caucasians don't corner the market on that.

And like others I will say the same to you if you don't like the thread then stay the fuck out and don't participate. Its far easier to do nothing than just bitch about home much you don't like the thread.

 

The thing about the credit is for real!!! Even you don't own home or want one still build your credit bruthas, build it up!! And for the luxury car IDK about that one. Being too flashy will attract the wrong attention in my opinion. It's all about that "Image" down here in Atlanta. You have to drive this type car or have these certain desinger clothes on. It's so crazy I know people who have 600 dollar car payments just so they can be seen in Lexus,Acura,Range Rover.etc. Men and Women get mad when they get called out for fronting. I laugh my ass off when I see them in the club maxing out they credit cards at the bar.

 

It doesn't even have to be brand new or it could even be an American car just as long as its clean and looks new. It shows that you have your shit together. Hell you can get a brand new Accord for 300 a month with 3 grand down and that will do the job. Its not just the car its the total package. Only young dumb girls fall for that Lexus and BMW shit and for girls like that you can rent the car for the weeknd for 200 to front so you can tap it and leave. I did it a few years back with a Cadiallac CTS.

 

So your argument as to why you disagree with the notion that white women are generally more desirable in this country is to highlight the specific reasons why you feel thats the case?

 

Damn!! When I was on there I had more women from Portland,Arizona,Seattle area's wanting to hope on that plan and meet me. But I didn't find many cute women in my area so I dumped that shit site a long time ago. Now Plenty Of Fish has been on fire for me. I agree dudes need to step their game up. Hell, a lot of those women I used to chat with online that lived in other states told me they were attracted to BM but couldn't find many in their area. Reason being there were so few of us to date in places like Portland, St.Paul,Seattle, Iowa,Arizona etc. I told all of them they needed to get away from their comfort zone if they wanted to find someone new.

 

I'm pointing out its not about them being white its about how they live and carry themselves. Like if more black and spanish women carried themselves that way they'd have more cultural appeal especially bw. A lot of bw are absolutely gorgeous but their ugly attitudes and poor manners kill it for them.
My point is follow a healthy care free bubbly upbeat model of living your life and you come across way more approachable. That's what I feel ww have going for them over most women is they are extremely approachable. Shit they just say hi to say hi. You rarely see that from other races.

 

Of course its not the categorization of "white" itself. Its the attributes that go with it. But that should go without saying. Whats relevant here is that it IS the case.

We'll just have to agree to agree

 

Plentyoffish was great for hooking up for me but quality women with their shit together seems more abundant on okcupid. But yeah I hear you on women from other areas liking bm. Especially in places you wouldn't think like Iowa and Idaho. I had one chick from Lincoln Nebraska begging to spend the weekend but like I said quality women are hard to find. Its easier if you're high achieving and have a fun personality.
When I look at those surveys saying black guys don't get ww I really want to see their profiles and who they're going for. Some dudes think life is a porno and believe an ugly dude like Shane Diesel will be walking around with Anne Hathaways of the world especially if they're a check out clerk at Stop N Shop.

 

Fair enough fam I can admitt when I'm going overboard lol

 

POF doesnt have profiles that state your racial preference. A better site to do a study like that is Match.com. And from my experience on match.... Most profiles stated a preference that did not include black men.

Whats funny is, I had white women that had profiles listing the races they were interested in and didnt include black, email me. Of course I busted them out and they claimed it was "some kind of mistake". One woman even used the excuse that there were "too many black military guys" emailing her. Whatever that means. :lol:

However, in the real world...A woman's idea of "black" and any stereotypes they like to associate with it can easily be debunked with a conversation. That said, im not into 'converting' any reluctant white women.

 

Interestingly enough most of the women in my tri state area on okcupid say they are open to all men and race isn't a factor even though it is.

As far as women who fall for the negative stereotypes, they won't change their minds because our culture is too lazy for that. Unless you're a someone who has achieved far more than their peer group those who think that way will continue to think that way but honestly who wants to deal with a person who's that close minded and that uptight.

 

Too right... I later added this bit at the end of my post. That said, im not into 'converting' any reluctant white women.

I like knowing whos down from the get go and isnt afraid to say it. :smt045

 

I hate coming into threads late, but fuck those White bitches if they don't want to date BM. There are a lot of us who do.

 

And trust me we want you IB :-D

 

I have been doing the globetrotting thing for yrs...and I have had the most success with WW in Canada, Australia, N Zealand, all over Europe...plus, Argentina & Brasil.

I'm down with international flights, but hate flying domestically -- too cramped, no food, poor service, ect.

The Kid Rasta

 

Aww, thanx..lol....

 

:smt045

 

Nvm,after rereading this comment and paying more attention, I can tell it's just another insecure white cuckold boy.

If you guy's were manlier, you wouldn't be the one watching