When people glance at you and your partner..

do you automatically assume that they have a problem with your relationship?

I enjoy the beauty of love in any and all forms so I will occasionally give a passing glance at an attractive interracial couple. I do, however, admittedly divert my gaze when they make eye contact with me (usually black men/white women) because I fear that they may assume that I take issue with their relationship.

Sometimes when I'm "caught" I'll offer a smile, but often times the couple will give me the evil eye. I make every effort not to do the same when people glance at my SO and me, but who knows, I could be guilty without being conscious of it.


Can any of you relate?

 

So this is blueskies3 what about 2 and 1?, When is bluskies4 going to make her appearance?

blueskies2

blueskies

 

Is she's attractive, no matter the color of her mate...I'm gonna sneak a quick glance, of course...and she has a nice set of legs I might look longer.

but I'm not going to stand there with my mouth hanging open

 

I tell them to go fuck themselves.

 

nope.

 

America is still making her adjustments. Don't let it worry you. They probably give you the evil eye because they get so many evil eyes from black women. This is really sad because they should really not rant and bitch about this at all. I remember a while back when a celebrity black female mentioned publicly that it hurt her to see so many black men with white women. In my opinion she being a famous R&B singer should not have made such public statement. Beautiful as black men are, black women must realize that they don't own them. Black men are individuals with their own personal preference for who they want to be with. A black man is happier with a white woman then he should not have to hear any bitching about it from any black woman and moreover, he shouldn't bad mouth black women either. There's a nasty gender war going on between them. While most black women don't care, there are too many that do bitch about.

 

I lost my password for the initial account. The second account was banned when I have done absolutely nothing at all to cause trouble on this website.

 

That makes a lot of sense. I agree wholeheartedly.

 

Correction: My second account was not banned. For some reason I tried to post a reply to a particular topic and was not able to because of some posting restrictions on my account.

 

Are you in an IR right now? Is so, for how long if you dont mind me asking. What do you like about her most?

 

I'm actually a black woman engaged to a white man. I really hope my being here doesn't make anyone uncomfortable. All I wish to do is engage in harmless (hopefully) healthy conversation about issues of race in hopes that we can finally free ourselves from the division separating humankind.

 

OMG! I have no problem with it, but there are some anti-black women people here that will. Your motivies are good. It's good that you are trying but as you probably know, there are some who think you are here to make war. I can tell you that just the mere mention of any reference to a black women sets some here on fire if it's anything positive. I'm white and incidentally mentioned something about some of my black girlfriends and got slaughtered for it. I have a very strong preference black men. On my very first post, I wrote a poetic expression of how I feel about the black men I know in general. You would not believe it, but some of the BM here got mad and one white female. I honestly did not know how to take that. Had it not been for the many kind BM and several kind WW who came to my defense, I would have been boothed off of this forum. You are welcome here as far as I am concerned and I am sure others won't mind. But I am sure you will be underfire everyday with them following you around on the forum. I know because they only think that I'm black, but they KNOW you are.

Welcome:smt006

 

Aww, hun! Thanks so much for the kind words. If only we had more open minded people like you in the world.

 

fuck em if they can't take it. (no really) You have to be leery about some folk here. The overly thirsty ass Negro men, and the insecure with themselves white women. There is an unwritten GROUPING. Its CERTAINLY not all, (not by a long shot) but enough to make you wonder why folk get so up in arms over people they have never, and more than likely WILL never meet.

I don't buy into the "human kind" bullshit. I'm a proud, loving, educated, hmmm and bit arrogant black man. But the pride in who and I am does not mean I can not respect, honor, and love another who is different. All humans of course, but not all the same.

I'm a BM married (meh) to an Asian woman. And I'm here. So fuck em' if they don't like it.

sistat if you like it I love it.

I hope you stay...........

 

When I was walking around with my BM in North America I was surprised to get glanced at at all as in NZ IR couples don't attract interest in the same way.But when I encountered it ,it was mainly interest I feel not disapproval.It felt like people were just interested in our story so to speak.

 

Even though this is wwbm, I dont see a problem w you here - as long as it doesnt turn out to be a bash fest of wwbm unions.
There is plenty of people here that "dont fit" the wwbm "criteria" whatever that really is.

As long as there is fruitful discussions, Im cool.

Im not cool w the BHM/racist site type invasions that only go here to spew shit. Or the Cuckold stuff that is so damaging imo.

 

It's hard to ignore them, but if you have to just look at them pleasantly (unless they come at you foul) and go about your business.

I always smile internally when I see IR couples....

 

No beef. You shouldn't even really need to explain yourself in my opinion, as long as your posts and contributions are friendly and unjudgemental.
I'd personally love to know about the experiences that you and your fiance have to go through, and see if they differ to ours.

 

I dont care to hear your realtionship with a WM. I also dont care to hear your personal struggle in regards to IR dating as it has zero application to my trial and tribulations. Having said that you're still very much welcome to continue to post here and engage in discussions as long as you remain civil and has No Ulterior Motives.

 

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mothafuckas be straight trippin over this shit....they couldnt catch white pussy with a bear trap