the pressure of looking thin

Well, Im white and I consider black women to be very beautiful too!
As a matter of fact when I was a teenage girl I even wished I was black!
Isnt it normal for a person who is into black man and simply loves the skin color, to see black females as beautiful too?

 

I would certainly think so. I mean how can we say that black men are so beautiful and in the same breath say his mother and sisters are ugly.

 

I agree with you OpenHeart

 

:smt105 THIS IS A BLACK WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Excuse me, but isn't this an interracial forum...that means white girls and black guys...right? If I am not suppose to discuss us, what am I suppose to do. If I have offended you in one of my post would you please cut and paste what I said that bothered you? Your vague comments do not justify your hostility toward me.

and how great black woman are in your point of view!! like the most good looking women on this planet and etc.

Fabio, if you are referring to the comment I made on this thread about black women, then you should go back and read it again.It reads nothing like what you just said. What's wrong with what I said, Fabio? How did I offend you?

Then Fabio asked: i mean why you are here anyway?

Why are you here Fabio? Tell me why you are here. Why is anyone here. This is my second day here. The first greeting was a shocker:smt014, but then the welcome of others made it a warm place. Now you...I mean if some kind of initiation is required in order to remain here peacefully then simply let me know and how many days it last. Then I will decide if I want to go through it or not. In fact, I may just decide to go anyway because you may not be the only one who questions whether I should be here or not. This is a nice forum here, but somehow the hostility toward new joiners who have not been rude or nasty toward anyone, has got to stop because everyone should not feel that they have to live in a box when they log on here.:smt031

Just because you have more post than I do, what does that make you...the Thread Master?

If there is anyone else here who questions whether I should be here or not, please let me know. If I'm voted out, I promise you I'm out.:smt051

Thanks

 

whenever the topic of weight is brought up it always ends up being a comparison of one extreme to another. We pick out the extremely thin and compare that the extremely fat.

then we talk about "meat on the bone" which isn't very quantifiable. Then those of us who are not "healthy" come up with quibs and lines about that usually start with AT LEAST

- AT LEAST she is happy
- AT LEAST he loves himself
- AT LEAST she is healthy

I can only talk about America. We are an unhealthy country and we are aggressively over weight.

 

You all really need to stop. A woman who doesn't hate or bash BW and who has a positive opinion about their usual(?) body type doesn't make her a BW or someone who shouldn't be here. Ya'll got issues.
It's like this place is turning into a forum where the majority's goal is to "catch/call out the troll first" or "someone who doesn't hate BW is a troll" and it's really fucking annoying.

 

Hahaha, I always like how these weight situations are explained. It's so funny that we focus so much on the pressures of losing weight when our clear problem has been the opposite. Statistic shows that only 8% of the population have or had an eating disorder, with ladies being 6% of that. (You would never know that guys do the same thing since we've only seen women doing it.) On the other hand. 30% of the population is OBESE. Not overweight, but obese. Like the images that was posted before where people can't wipe their own butt? Yeah, 30% of our population is like that. That is over 3 times the amount
of those with eating disorders. Over 70% of the population is overweight. 70 freakin percent. That's abysmal and ridiculous. I just went over to Japan and it was like night and day. Everybody was in shape, no plump tub of guts sitting
inside the midsection for miles around. America statistically is the fattest country in the world. Yet we focus almost as much time, if not as much time, on a disorder that barely affects 8% of the population over one that affects 70%? Where is the logic in that?

 

YES it is smh

 

who's talking about hate here?

 

forget about it... i'm not the thread master! i have some more posts than you here but i'm not a famous person around here. soo we are cool

if you are a white girl excuse me, if you don't ...you won congrats

 

I'm not basing it just from this post.

 

Okay. We're cool.artyman:

 

XoXo...:butthead:

 

i don't see troll or bw from openhearts posts...i just see someone who expresses herself differently from others

 

Stop with that BULLSHIT analogy. If I find a particular TYPE of White man ugly, it doesn't then by default extend to my father or brothers. There are some ugly white women, but my white MOTHER is BEAUTIFUL! Always will be.
MY father will ALWAYS be handsome! TO ME. It's like how a man can dislike fat women but ADORE his fat mom! Get it? Parents and siblings don't equate into your redundantly used little theory in order to guilt BM into liking/dating who YOU(they) think they should!

 

Really? Several huh. And on a daily basis...lol.
White woman here, with many white women friends and associates...I don't know any who purge on the daily. And if any of my several white women I know did, I doubt they'd shout it to the winds to me. I'm amazed how several of white women you know confess this act to you and how you seem to attract them in your life.

 

that wouldn't be your Black ass, would it?

 

Kunoichi...why are you being so hostile toward me??? What are you talking about? I'm not trying to guilt anyone about anything. I think you came on the back end of this and then ran off half cocked with some kinda wild idea that entered your head.

There's a lot of warm and nice people here, but how can anyone truly enjoy a good forum with this sort of ruckus going on each day with some of the members who love to:smt021?:smt102

 

Whatever color you want it to be, whether it's your color or mine's.:smt058