What was your first job???

That guy has a porn 'stache. :smt037

 

:lol: Haunting

 

russ meyer films are cool lol

 

Ok, that's it, your my favorite!

 

lol i like all those kinda weird films, especially those on the something weird video label

 

call center:smt025

 

Hell noooo!!!! Would you ever allow yourslef to be photographed in a gaint rat costume? LOL

 

My first job was with IBM in New York. I hated that job and I quit. They recruited me while I was in high school and I thought they were all that and a bag of chips so I accepted their offer. They sucked!!! Just a bunch of geek electrical engineers who treated me like I didnt know anything. Every thing I did could be better I was told. They gave me crappy circuit design projects that any idiot could do and still complained. The only computer programming language I knew in detail was BASIC (a little assembly too) and they wanted to see everything in FORTRAN. I didnt take Fortran until I went to college but they expected me to know already. I really think those fucking geeks thought I was after their jobs and I was not. I just wanted to fit in and learn from them. Yes I was kind of arrogant but that was because I believed that there was no limit to my abilities. I had ideas that they just laughed at. Mind you.... they somehow came up with the same ideas later..LOL

 

Yeah i'm down with those crazy off the rocker films myself. Usually the darker the better as well. I just love films period really, and appreciate the people that challenge the main stream and do truly artistic work that may not be appreciated by all.

 

I saw Tortured and Repo-men last night..... (trying to recuperate from a few weeks of insane work and travel).
LOVED Tortured, I cant believe I missed it. Repo-men was a good distraction, sorta good, but a bit flat and predictable, even though I am a huge fan of Forest - he was by far the savior of the movie. Alice Braga was great too.

 

My first job


I used to walk over to this bush and pick up a book bag.

...then I would take the book back about 8 blocks and put it inside a garbage can then go to school

...after school I would go back to the garbage can and puck up a different book bag

....I'd take the different book back back to the bush

....when I got home there was always a brown office envelope with 100.00 in it.

My cousin did it on the other side of town and the guy that set us said that one day if there was no bag, the job would be over.

Only two rules.

1] don't tell anyone
2] don't look in the bags

I did that for something like 7 months, then one day no book bag job was over.

 

I helped my aunt out making exotic belts, but my first real paying job was at Baskin Robbins/31 Flavors.

 

My first job at 16 I worked for my brothers GF that managed a Pay Less shoes.
I was a stock clerk.

 

My first job I guess was as a nanny for my one year old cusin...I was 16 then.

Then turned 18 I started as a stripper and did that for 6 years.

Loved them both.

 

was your family supportive of your decision? Are you ever afraid that men care more about your body than your mind? or do you not think about those type of things?

are you ever afraid of attracting the wrong type of friends into your life? or am I asking dumb questions?

 

Yes my family was very supportive and they know what kind of person I am and that I would never do anything else than just dancing.

Well I don't think I ever worried about men wanting me for my body. I was a little chubby when dancing and there were so many more girls with better bodies but I was the most popular one and I got booked over and over again mostly because of my humor and personality while dancing....does that make sense?
I mostly met really funny people but sure sometimes there were creaps. The most concern I had was that from my experience, if you put a nice naked woman in front of a man only maybe 1 of 10 will be faithful. So I had a hard time trusting men yes.

But it's been 7 years since I stopped dancing and I do miss it sometimes.

 

That was very insightful. that does make sense. was it the $$$ or the need to be seen that drove you to strip? What made you stop? If you had a choice to do anything else other than strip, would you have done somethinh else?

I mean is the world of stripper dancing there very freaky? i mean do people show you respect do men and women hit on you in disrespectful.



i only ask because i saw this reality series of a cable channel here call "g string divas"

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G_String_Divas

I think if you do a youtube search you can find a promo for the show.

and i realize because of the type of person i am, i could never date or marry or really be close to a person who lives in a erotica world. Solely because as a man my ego would be constantly tested.

it would be too hard on my EGO. I'm not a prude and i don't mean any disrespect to you at all. infact you don't come off as a DIVA. you actually seem like a nice person.

I don't look down on strippers or erotica stars at all. We all have our role to play in life. Its just that i understand the nature of men. When it comes to be in a erotica world men don't have any respect for each other. We can be ruthless hyenas.



and then there is the stereotype that stripper as by nature gold diggers. i mean if i had a nickel for everytime i have heard a rapper call a stripper a gold digger, i'd be a rich man.



I told myself along time ago that its simplier for me to deal with women who have their skirts down around their ankles in comparison to a woman with a mini skirt.

I'm somewhat intrigued by men who date-marry women who strip or are into erotica based world. Because you have to understand the nature of men. Men are PIGS. WHETHER ITS NATURE OR NUTURE. we are.

I can just picture myself now walking in the park with my stripper girlfriend and just picture men looking at me with disrecpect, as if there is an inside joke and i'm the outsider.



take myself for example, i'm a beginner bodybuilder and when i get in better shape i plan to do professional photos of myself but only for me, not for others.

but somebody like arnold scharznegger needs to be out there on stage where he can be seen because he likes the attention.

Is it exhibitionism? Do you have male friends that are platonic friends that respect your personal space?

Correct me if I'm wrong. but do you feel that people in north america are prudes by comparison to swedish people? Because we hide the fact that we're freaky whereas it seems lots of other countries are open about things, right or wrong?

i mean the whole thing of swedish feminists fighting for their right to be topless intrigues me - infact i made a thread about topless beaches in what not in the international section. but i get the impression that our country is more hyporcritcal about a great many things.

infact this episode of al 90's murder mystery show "Silk Stalkings" has a subplot about one on the main characters dating a stripper. This show is like miami vice but its a man and a woman instead of two dudes.

the male lead (rob estes) talks about why he can't deal with the fact that his woman is a stripper. its a good episode because they ask lots of important questions about right and wrong. i don't know what your internet connection is like but take a look at the episode. its 30 mins long.

tell me what you think

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOGmMBrZG0A&list=SL

 

Sounds like every drug film