the beauty of dating outside your race

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Jan 19, 2011.

  1. Tirkah

    Tirkah Active Member

    If I don't understand a topic, I usually wikipedia the crap out of it. Repetitive toggling between wikipedia and this forum though can cause carpal tunnel syndrome so I let certain statements/topics slide undisputed.
     
  2. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    LOL.. Yeah, I knew that. I gotcha:)
     
  3. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    no one will really ever know the color of them we can speculate. like with your statement it say "they were darker than them" so relative to what ? It really doesnt matter to a point I guess. I just role with it
     
  4. Galiant

    Galiant New Member

    I am a big fan of aureoles. It is not just beauty and I have seen my fair share of female bafoons, but my first love was white and I admire all of her qualities. It is not to say that black women cannot be fun, affectionate, loving, kind, meek, mild, smart, and able to communicate well, but the black women I have met do not possess all the qualities that I like. The women who have treated me the best have been white. But what they offer me I cannot compare to another women.

    Agonizingly Haunting
    Breasts are perhaps the only organ that have such an endearing effect on a man’s psyche. Most researchers have noted that suckling a great pair of breasts will forever remain the most luscious of all fantasies. An interesting natural feat in this regard is that breasts have the tendency to swell and allow the nipples to point the pleasure of being caressed.

    Most women love the tantalizing feeling that a caress, a brush of the hand on the breasts bring! A virgin woman would get devastatingly aroused on having her breasts being fondled. This can be seen as most unsuckled breasts tend to swell at the nipples, a little less common feature for breast-feeding mothers.

    For most women, breasts are probably the most sensitive organs that allow room for foreplay to occur. Of course repetition of anything leave alone the same act, allows it to diminish in its effect. Then there are the aureoles, or the smiling moulds that surround the nipples that are known to be the fastest to understand the touch of ecstasy. And because the room for arousal has already been set, it’s interesting to note that at most times, breasts swell upto 20 to 25 times larger than its original size. But of course this takes place a lot during foreplay!

    The importance of Breasts
    Besides feeding children, breasts play a major role in enhancing a woman’s confidence and personality. It’s intriguing to note that there are many cultures that take notice of the size if the breast. For example, Americans like them big, the bigger the better, the French, die-hard romantics that they are, believe in the size of the breast to be as big as that which can fit within a champagne glass! But for most men, the presence of a breast, especially with its hardened nipple popped out, is a sight that’s hard to resist.

    Then there are other literatures that believe in the real origin of breast sucking pleasure to be hidden somewhere within our sub conscious mind. Like the fact that we all remember certain traces of our childhood, (especially the early childhood) is reminiscent enough that at some point of time, we all remember what it felt to suck our mother’s breast. It’s odd then that every time your man put his mouth to suck your breast so endearingly, that you feel like holding him like your child! Try it out if you don’t believe me!

    The sight of a full grown breast is so enigmatic that men all across the globe understand and salute women for being the way they are! It’s only after a pair of well endowed assets does the man’s glance move up to the face, which is quite a treat in itself.

    During a sexual encounter, however, it is nature’s strange way of allowing the swelling and deflation of the aureoles that by the time the nipples harden and become erect, (and this happens especially after achieving orgasm) the body confuses the lover of not demanding any more love, as he has already been prepared for taking off to the next round of fantasy. Generally men associate erect nipples to the preparation of a woman’s lubricated vagina; in short, set for sex!

    But with this movement, it’s a little confusing when he’s all hard to be refused by his lady love! This simply means that if you’re not sure if her erection means the beginning of something new, then you’d better start learning newer techniques in winning over your lady love.. If you don’t get it… Try it out yourselves, you’ll see what I mean!
    http://www.buzzle.com/editorials/9-7-2004-59010.asp
     
  5. Mikey

    Mikey Well-Known Member

    Good post Ceres and Tamstrong. That's definitely something that I should take into consideration next time. I didn't think of things that way.

    Good post GQ Brotha. It's very inspiring to read it. It seems like from your perspective, black guys that date white girls have a high level of confidence and passion about their relationship despite social and political realities. Interesting.
     
    Last edited: Jan 31, 2011
  6. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Thanks, Mikesandy. You have to live your life for yourself; & not to please folks whose opinions don't matter in the long run. :cool:
     
  7. whikle

    whikle Well-Known Member

    :shock:
     
  8. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    :smt095
     
  9. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    I've never been phased by it or felt any sense of awkwardness or being uncomfortable.

    It is just the way I carry myself as a man, I treat people with respect and expect that in return, if someone is ignorant or intolerant, I leave them to their fate.

    Not going to change or affect my life though. I'll keep doing the things that interest me. We have one life, make it fulfilling and enjoyable to the max by surrounding yourself with as much positive experiences as you can.

    Let the negative die by the wayside, it just isn't that serious in the larger picture of life and love.
     
  10. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    ROFL, I think Galiant has just a little breast fetish, :)
     
  11. whikle

    whikle Well-Known Member

    I was just imagining my boobs at 20-25 times their original size and it frightened me!
     
  12. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Amen, Whiks!
     
  13. Galiant

    Galiant New Member

    Everyone finds different pieces of art masterpieces and some are willing to pay more for a painting than others.
     
  14. Galiant

    Galiant New Member

    I would not call it a fetish, but I am sure some will. Some guys like feet, but I am sure none of them want to suck a giants toes.
     
  15. Leksola

    Leksola New Member

    Some might. Seriously. It takes all types.
    :rolleyes:
     
  16. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    ROFL, in this world nothing surprises me any longer. :)
     
  17. thefieryphoenix

    thefieryphoenix Active Member


    Now I will admit I am quite fond of big breasted women, but he is taking the desire a little far. LOL

    Loving big breasts is a good thing as long as a man can love the woman who comes with the breasts. If a woman treats me badly and has a bad attitude, she is history--even if she is a BBW with JJ cups and hot, brown hair. :D
     
  18. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    My sentiments as well, I like a woman that is respectful, because that is how I certainly will treat her as well. I don't do drama, life is too short for that.

    If she wants to argue, she can argue with herself or find someone else for that soap opera. :)
     
  19. TheHuntress

    TheHuntress Well-Known Member

    Being a big-breasted woman, I found the whole thing rather creepy. :smt009

    Life is too short for a lot of things. I can't even stand drama from my female friends. Some of them are so ridiculous, I can't even tell you. The kicker for me is usually that they're always the ones *married*.
     
  20. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

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