Are you trying to get into my pants?

Now i know a lot of dudes have been asked this question ands its always a catch 22 situation. Do you say yes when it abundantly clear you want to or say no because you think it might offend the lady in question. Lat weekend i went to a night club called Aphrodisiac(with a name like that its obvious guys would wanna get inside your pants ladies!!) and i was dancing with this american woman who was visiting ghana for the first time. The alcohol began to sink in and we were dancing and her booty was in my crotch at some point .Needless to say the brother down there reacted and i know she felt it and we kept on dancing and sat down a while later. Now as we were conversing i subliminally made her know i wouldnt mind hitting it then she asked that question? Now i was quite tipsy so i told her most definitley i wanted to separate her clothing from her body. Well i ended up going home with blue balls because she was resolute and did not lemme taste the honeypot.I called her later and she told me even if i wanted to do that i shouldnt have said yes and maybe she would have let me have it WTF?? So i am asking guys if you are asked this question would you say yes or no or skip around it and ladies when you ask this question and you know the guy clearly wants to get into your pants do you expect an honest answer or the guys should skip around it.(I am hoping i will be lucky this weekend with her i will be smart this time)

 

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I've had that happen before when dancing and a girl was grinding her ass on me. Instant growth where I had to back off a little and let the snake relax.

When it comes to sexing, I want them sober, so there is no confusion as to what's up. I can't get down with a drunk chick. I think its my experience from seeing in university how some girls acted when they got tipsy and it was a turn off to me personally.

I like my woman sober and in the moment.

As far as the question of wanting to get in her pants, I would play it cool and calm, not a yes, not a no, just a lets see what goes down after hanging out.

 

he wouldnt fit in them if he was :smt017 :wink: joke lol

i wouldnt ask a guy that, cos id be griding my ass all on him (if i like him) and me being the over horny bitch that iam i wouldnt tease him if i wasent gonna let him get this good stuff lool, has only happend to one guy who is now my bf haha, ive even had a guy ask me im i tryin to get in his boxers LOL

depends on the kinda guy a girl dances with, i know a thirsty guy when i see one, some women cannot see this or they let them dance with them then complain about them wanting sex

 

Lets be honest....all a guy wants is to get in a womans pants. Im not naive to that. I have never asked a guy directly if thats what he wants, i dont need to because i already know the answer. That is the reason i am over men. :smt003

 

please dont be over men who knows i might have a chance with you in my next life

 

Are you trying to get in my pants?:smt003

 

Exactly, not every guy will be like a rabbit in heat, but depending on the environment you are in, one should know what's up.

 

That's why you keep the sweet stuff on lock Mama. Opening it up only for the man that has shown his character over a good time period and is not a hit it and quit it asshole.

If a woman gives it up too soon, he will move on to the next woman to continue the cycle. As a guy I know how we think about these things.

The quote in my sig is appropriate "The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man"

That man should desire you as a complete woman, not just for your vagina.

 

You are a very wise man GQ. I tried to rep ya but i have to spread it around first.
You are a catch and im jealous of the woman who gets your heart.

 

I'd never ask a guy that because if you are doing things properly it should be obvious.

They know you want to, they just have no self confidence and want to hear you say it. Then they can give themselves a pat on the back for turning you down. I think it's best just to change the topic.

If a guy said it that clearly to me I wouldn't be impressed. I'd think he was a sleaze that didn't really know how to seduce a woman.

 

damn woman are you a mind reader :smt003

 

Just a wild guess.

 

I understand your point because you say you would never ask a guy that so definitely if a guy just walks over you and says i want to get in your pants that would be creepy but in the scenario stated i am saying if a woman asked a man that and knew it was abovious he wanted to should he say yes or be coy about it

 

Thank you.

 

You're welcome.

 

Be coy. It depends on the woman I guess.

 

That's why you just play it cool and have a good time and see where things go.

I don't think a dude should be like hell yeah, with his tongue hanging out of his mouth, :smt118

If a man comes across as aggressive and hungry for the vagina, he is like a predator after prey.

Even if she asks, be suave about it, make her feel like a woman, not a piece of meat that was just hunted down.

 

I was heavily tipsy bruh and she felt the wood and didnt complain so i naively thought she would be cool with it, i guess the notion that caucasian or foreign women pull down their pants easily has been thrown out the window . NO offense but thats what i was told since i was a teen and this is africa so i fell for that crap

 

Aww shit now you've done it, white women give it up easy?? How are you gonna say a whole race is all the same? :roll:

 

ive heard this little saying many many times, i could be here all day pointing the irony out