So had lunch with the Ex today

It was great. We caught up and I realize that it isn't over and we still have a few more chapters to write. It is probably a good thing the new guy dumped my ass.

 

was that the one you wasent too sure about meeting? when you was with the new guy?

 

Yes it is. The ex just popped over to my nail salon today(he knows my saturday routine) and waited for me and insisted on lunch

 

Damn, what you crying about, you weren't single two minutes.

 

No complaints. We are not back together. Just weird how things work in life

 

First of all, glad you are happy. Secondly, this outcome doesn't surprise me, I saw it coming. Perhaps you did too?

 

Let me perfectly honest and straight to the point. You were a fucking fool to dump dude in the first place. And after you have been used for some "exclusive" pussy and thrown away,

OH and NOW yall have some unfinished chapters?

And would you have even sat down with dude if you Mr. Exclusive hadn't dumped you? Probably not....You hugged up with this mofo, taking him around the same circles you used to hang out with the Ex...going to parties n shit, while EX is supposed to smile and grill like Toby?

(You don't get a ***** Back Like That)

All I can can say is I hope you wore condoms with you "exclusive" dude and that your Ex is a stand up guy. I wouldn't have even sat down with your trifllin' ass.

I would say more but this is a nice as I can be at this point.

 

If dude is cool with it why not? Life works out weird sometimes.

 

Why not what?

...I wouldn't have met here. Deuces. That's why I say he's a stand up dude. Couldn't be Ymra. And what is means that ole boy was really (is really) into her and she's isn't.

Based on actions not words.

 

It was LUNCH. It was nice that is IT for now. Yes, I still have feelings for him. Yes, I was wrong to dump him in the first place. Yes Ymra, I am always careful. Fan, you are a sweetie

 

Well at least you are woman enough to admit it. RESPECT! There is hope for you. Now all you need to do is tell dude "I fucked up" damn lunch....

..and pussy footing around. Damn that "unfinished chapters bullshit" tell dude you fucked up..........take me back...........I'm an idiot............I'm slow............It wasn't me.............(etc)

 

It is going to be up to him if he wants to get back together or not. I owe him that. I will see and and speak to him, but I am not going to pressure him.

 

bahh.....you are getting ready to make another dubm mistake. Dude is waiting to try to get a peek inside where your emotions are. Trying to find out if you really miss him, or you are on the rebound from Mr. Exclusive.

...and instead of doing all that, fall on your sword like a grown ass woman and admit that you fucked up. It goes without saying that its up to him, I mean. No shit. But its up to you to express it. How you couldn't see it before you made the dumb choice is beyond me. I don't get it.

Dude tells you he wants to be with you, but admits that it might be difficult after having not been in a relationship for so long, and your ass breaks up with him? I still don't get it...I really don't

 

Damn fam you sound very emotionally invested i this lol.
Plain and simple she's a chick and they never know what they want lol.

 

He KNOWS how I feel and that I am sorry and that I would love to get back together. I TOLD HIM. It is now up to him. He should have the option to decide right?

 

Would you say breaking up with him is a mistake because:

A: it didnt work out with the new guy

or

B: You value something in the first guy you didnt see till now

If B, what made that apparent to you now?

 

Max Mosley on therapist mode!!! Gotta love it.

 

C. I valued everything about him, but did and do not want to deal with his neediness in terms of the fact he had not be in an exclusive relationship for a long time. Also, I wanted and want him to be with me because of him and his needs, not because he wants to change who he is for me. It never works if you don't change for you.

In terms of the other guy, he ended it with me and it was probably a good thing. Have not spoken to him since.

If my ex and I do get back together it will take a while. In the mean time, I will not date anyone as long as I have feelings for him. Obviously, that was a mistake.

 

He's a GOOD DUDE

 

good luck with your man.