the beauty of dating outside your race

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Jan 19, 2011.

  1. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Without a doubt, its all a matter of being open minded and confident in going after what you like. Something I have never been short on is speaking with confidence.

    I remember my mom, when I came home on vacation from university, saw me with a white girl in a photograph, she asked me who it was, I was like a friend of mine. :) If she didn't know I liked white girls then she certainly knew afterwards.

    She raised me to become a strong, confident man and respects me to make the right choices in life based on core values instilled in me from a young age about right and wrong.
     
  2. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    LOL, with the divorce rates so high and interracial relationships increasing year upon year in the numbers, its going to keep rising with people looking in new directions.

    If a person is stable, intelligent and driven why not broaden the horizons in life and love.
     
  3. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    I've heard black guys and white guys say they like dark skinned women and no one finds a fault in them saying that.

    However if a black guy says he likes fair skinned women its assumed that is somehow not alright, because its not politically correct I suppose due to historical circumstances.

    What they don't grasp is it's liking fair skinned women within the context of a personal attraction, interests, personality of them as well. Its not like every woman I see is one I am going to be attracted to.

    If a woman is argumentative, drama filled, always on edge, I'm checking out of that for my own piece of mind no matter how she looks. I don't do drama of Shakespearian proportions. :)
     
  4. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    It's that damn pussy juice ya'll got. That shit like sexual crack for some of us don't you know. :yawinkle:


    Too Late!! That's why I don't post up recent pics of myself. :rolleyes:
     
  5. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    If that's what y'all been drinking, then nevermind...you don't have to share. The only "pussy juice" I have any interest in is my own. ;)

    I know that's not it...you just know that you'd have a difficult time keeping the ladies off your sexy, chocolate ass. :smt077
     
  6. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK HA HA HA HA!
     
  7. satyr

    satyr New Member

    Hmm.

    Regardless of the choices we make now or in the future, the human race will eventually destroy itself or be destroyed. It would be interesting to see how another intelligent species might interpret the social divisions that have characterized so much of our recorded history on this planet.
     
  8. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member




    I'm taken remember, so the flattery will not get you what you want. :cool:

    I do however appreciate the sentiment Sexy Texas. :D
     
  9. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yes, Ra-Ra, honey...I know you're taken...the good ones usually are. ;)

    I have to admit, though, I was a little hurt a first that you would accuse me of flattery, which means excessive or insincere praise. I wouldn't have said it if I didn't mean it. Thank you for redeeming yourself in the second half of your post by expressing your appreciation...you're very welcome. Btw, I appreciate the "Sexy Texas" & I appreciate you, too. :D
     
  10. Ra

    Ra Well-Known Member



    I know that you mean what you say about me. But I can't let you think I have a big head about it. :wink:
     
  11. Arwen

    Arwen New Member

    Being black men usually from a different cultural background than mine, I love to learn about those differences. Of course it's not about the "race" but about the culture. "Race" itself is nothing but a very little DNA difference.

    Oh, and I learned that I love to make old racist people mad while I walk around with a fine black guy ;)
     
  12. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    That's my girl. :cool:
     
  13. z

    z Well-Known Member

    I remember sleeping in Genetics class and hearing this staement from the professor "we are all, regardless of race, genetically 99.9% the same, that means we are closer than we think". Oh well I am not a geneticists and used that class for my daily brief nap and when that statement was made I was in my delta wave of sleep stage so if further explaination is needed y'al can ask a qualified geneticist, lol
     
  14. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    They'd wonder why we spent our entire existence fighting with each other over stupid shit.
     
  15. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    You don't strike me as a man with ego issues, so I would never think that about you. :cool:
     
  16. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    :smt023
     
  17. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    There's nothing wrong with acknowledging and being proud of being with someone outside of your "race". Rather, it's a revelation that we have moved forward and those who insist on being too fixated on the past need to grow out of it.

    Moreover,

    A preference is a preference, but there is a big difference between someone with a preference and someone with an unhealthy of fetishist obsession.

    (Sorry to be brief)
     
  18. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    good take
     
  19. thefieryphoenix

    thefieryphoenix Active Member

    ROLFMAO!
     
  20. thefieryphoenix

    thefieryphoenix Active Member

    He certainly knows what he likes!
     

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