Looks or Personality?

There have been guys that I never gave a second look but once I got to know them I found them better looking so its definitely personality.

A guy could be the most gorgeous/sexiest man in the world but if the personality is not there it would end there. I have never been with anyone based solely on looks.

 

obviously looks attract people then the personality keeps them around.

but there are times you just strike up a conversation with a stranger or acquaintance and their personality makes them attractive.

i don't know though, i've been duped by someone that has both

 

personality lasts more than looks. so personality for me.

 

Now I'm not shallow, we all want a woman who is good looking. I mean we as a society. But I also want a woman whom I could talk to for hours. Talk to her about anything and the conversations never get stale. I look for both qualities in a woman. I'm not asking for much, just a woman with some brains.

 

matching personalities and looks....

Ive dated girls who i'd talk to from dusk till dawn,however, i could never introduce them to my boys.......likewise ive dated girls who id introduce to my boys ONLY if they kept their mouths shut...haha...

I dated this Jessica simpson lookalike once,,,and despite being a straight A student, she was soooooo random at times,,,i didnt like that

 

What's random? In this reference I mean, what was she "random" about that you didn't like?

 

Beauty or Brain?

Hmm,

the puzzle of the century.

I'm sure the ladies will do far better job than I can explaining this mathematical dilemma.

 

Haven't we all?

 

socially inept??..i dunno, but she just coulnt "get it" in social gatherings..


But fuck,she was hot still......everytime i walked with her people literally stopped their cars, no bullshit, theyd slow down-in slow motion and glare as we walked by......and during the hot summer days we'd sometime go roller blading shirtless...ofcourse i was the one shirtless, she had some really short shorts and a wife beater-haha...those were some good times still

 

With me, a person is beautiful until they open their mouth. That's where longevity begins.

 

Awe, come on, that's all very noble, but haven't you ever seen a lady that is sooo... "dawg ugly" that just by looking at her you know you could never stand to kiss her or make love to her, so you definately wouldn't be interested in getting to know her any more deeply?

 

I don't think that's quite what Happy Life is trying to say Tink.
Happy correct me if I"m wrong, but your point is that you can find a person attractive- beautiful but it's when you speak with them that you will discover if you can be with them.

ie a person is beautiful not every person is beautiful.

 

Perfect answer

 

If I had to choose, Personality./ I want to be able to talk to my woman for hours about anything. I want a Seinfeld-ish relationship. I think a girl with a head and her shoulders is way sexy.

 

personality, because its what is about inside a person not the outside when they treat you really good and respect you that is what draws people to fall in love

 

chat room

I have questions as a blackman here in Orlando that only a white women can answer. Anyone up for chating in the chat room?

 

Substance is sustaining and beauty is fleeting. I'll take personality over beauty every time...

 

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/23/fashion/weddings/23FIELD.html?hp

 

very intriguing read!
thank you!

 

60% Personality 40% Looks