I don't see how yall date....

There is no need for loathing. Focus your energy on the damsel in distress.

Girls are not hard to understand. One just needs to learn how to read between the lines.

They are just as much a scavenger as we are despite stating otherwise.



Cheers!

 

I'm in the airport now my flight is on delay. Sitting across the able listen to a nice looking woman in black stockings, high heels, white shirt, tan jacket, long blond hair....cute smile. Talking to me with a country twang that makes me think about boomhauer. LOL She's talking to me...and I'm chatting to you.

ha ha ha ha

I'm going to try to take a picture of her and posted it. She's cute. I guess I have that face that says "I can talk to this guy" cuz she is spilling her guts to me. Flipping her hair. I swear I'm not paying a lick of attention her.

(I'm just going to type the topics she talks about)

- (4:35) Now she's talking about shoes and how she can't wait for the style to change from pointy toes ...something else. How its so hard to find the right shoes that don't make her calves look big



- (4:45) "You know little rock is a nice place but but its not very diverse." blah blah blah Central High School and Central High. (So I ask her if she knew about the history of the school and the Little Rock Nine...she didn't) She's already hit me with "I like black people" already

- (4:50) She's been single for 5 years. Her X was an asshole. She caught him cheating. She gave him everything....yada, yada, yada

- (4:53) the guy before that was a jerk. Living in Michigan, she worked for a small back. Got pregnant and father raises the child. She's now a Professor at the college. She didn't say what college and I didn't really ask. LOL

- (4:57) And this is a direct quote "well how do you keep the ladies off of you? How do you tell if they want you or want to be with you ?"

- (5:04) You know you are very easy to talk to. (I havn't said shit...I asked her if she knew who Night Crawler was or Ratchet...she said no) So she's going to DC, I'm going to Baltimore. I told her I was married. Three times already....LOL...she keeps right on talking.

- (5:12) Well here flight here. She gives me her card AND writes her cell number on my hand. "Give me a call when you get back in town" and she's off.

 

Hey what man wouldn't find it flaterring. Itrs really more me than anything else, I talk to EVERYONE....and I can never come out and say "You know...you are boring the shit out me, please go away"

 

Let me go ahead and say what some other men may be thinking:

Was she a dog? Fugly? :smt087

 

I date because I don't let drunk people sleep at my place unless we are in a relationship. BTW, why are you letting a chick sleep at your place when you are married?

 

You seem to get in and out of relationship pretty easily. And "I date because I don't let drunk people sleep at my place" didn't make a lot of sense. That's the reason why you date? I don't get it.

You are a woman...I hope you don't like drunk people sleep in your place. Its dangerous and not a very good idea. Men and women have a different set of thoughts. For example.....

....when I leave the club my only thoughts are (where did I park...where are my keys)

.....a woman's thoughts are a bit more (Am I alone? Is it lit? Is anyone following me?) If it was some random pussy word, you don't bring hoes back to your house...but we have been kickin' it for a moment.

 

Your thread title was I don't see how y'all date. Bringing home a drunk person is not my definition of a date. Yep, I have been in and out of 2 relationships in the past 2 months, but I am not longer married and have not been in 5 years.

 

So you read the title and not the rest of it?...

...ok, now I know how you can get confused. We left from my house..partied, danced, drank....ended back at my house.

I know this might be a hard concept for some women like yourself to grasp, but I take it as my responsibility to ensure that a person who is with me is taken care off. Putting a drunk woman behind the wheel of a car seemed a bit irresponsible to me. Now I think she read a bit more into it then was there....a lot of women have never been treated with respect and don't really know how to deal with it when it happens.

I believe she and I are clear. And if I had to do it all over, I think I would have made the same choice.

 

I have to agree with the British guy. Why not put her in a cab? My guy friends have done that with me before. I think you were right to be responsbile, but your wife might not like another woman staying at your place KWIM?

 

KWIM?

There was this Soldier who went out with some friends. He got really drunk and they put him in a cab...

...that was the last time anyone saw him.

I don't know what type of "friends" you have if they put a drunk woman in a cab saying "hey good luck" I will make sure (within meas) that a person who is with me, man or woman is taken care of from point A to point B. And if all I have to deal with is a lil alcohol induced flirting....so be it.

 

I have never felt unsafe in a cab. I am sorry that happened to a soldier . I understand your reasoning a lot better now.

 

What is KWIM?

All I am saying is that she started the night with me and my my roommate having a good time and I wanted to ensure that she was safe. The whole randomly picking up chick and inviting them to my house.......and throwing my date in a cab...huh?

If I was in a position to drive I would have drove her back to her place myself.

 

Got it

 

What does KWIM mean??

 

European?

 

KWIM- Know What I Mean

 

Oh man.....you are under 25 aren't you?