something is wrong here

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Jan 19, 2011.

  1. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

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  2. xoxo

    xoxo Well-Known Member

    The issue of the disrespect and the posting/attraction of non white women are not exactly the same. No one is claiming that we have to be exclusive or that the HOT NON-WHITE WOMEN threads are the reasons the women are leaving. The women were here when some of those threads were created. Only the men argue over that stuff anyway.

    Some are just expressing a general sentiment as to why this forum is no longer as hospitable to white women. Everything is getting brought up in the mix which may not be the best way to hash out the problems, and some of these past issues or the context in which they were said can not be properly understood by some of the new members. Some of the more explosive threads were deleted and can not be read. That doesn't mean BigBrotherWise would have a different opinion than he does now, but going over past posts of current members and parsing them for meaning is not cool in this respect. If I had a problem with that post than I should have stated then and there.

    Be exact here, I'm not saying the "threads were created out a fear". With respect to the issue of non white women: Some like other women equally, while some just want a little changeup, some BM just want to assert their right/ability to have an IR, and then there are those who prefer white women , yet the reality of AFFIRMING THAT and saying it loud and proud is probably a blow to there notions of Blackness or some other social pressure, many of these guys probably believe the negative stereotypes about Black men who like White women and don't want to be seen in that light. These dudes go into detail about other women for many reasons, some of it seems like over compensating.

    That's exactly what I'm saying. Threads are not being created out of fear. I'm not deriving this assertion from pictures, but through numerous discussions (most outside of the locker room) on a number of different topics. I've already named names and pointed out posts, we can go over every post on this forum for the last 5 years and not come to a conclusion that will make you believe what I'm saying is the case.
     
  3. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Then we can end this discussion on that note. You've made your point and it's valid.
     
  4. FG

    FG Well-Known Member


    100% agree w you on what you responded to me.
    Also, I really dont have any problem w attraction to non-white women-type threads at all, but can see that it bothers some, especially considering the sheer number of those types of threads. It never has bothered me.
    The straight out disrespect on the other hand, is sad, off-putting and also weird given that this is wwbm.
     
  5. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

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  6. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Most of the issues I was referring to happened in the past...I very rarely have any issues these days. On occasion I deal with an idiot family member or local redneck who goes on the attack, but I don't take the shit...I sling it right back at 'em. Yeah, the looks/stares, whispers, etc. are pretty funny & I also let loose on idiots who are stupid enough to open their mouths. Although there have been times that the ignorance has pretty much beaten me down, it's all made me stronger. I have a pretty good support system now that I never had in the past, & that's made a world of difference. It will also help to get the hell out of this redneck prison I've been stuck in taking care of my parents...I've been organizing & planning my escape.
     
  7. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    You would make Harriet Tubman proud lol... jk
     
  8. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

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    I don't think the threads about the non-white woman are the main issue either. Like you so well stated, FG, it's the disrespect to the ladies of the forum that is the real issue.
     
  9. xoxo

    xoxo Well-Known Member

    Those who express their attraction of nonwhite women are not the ones disrespecting, let me make that clear (Which is even worse I guess, if those disrespecting supposedly like white women). It's not even a big thing and the two should not be equated as I sort of did with my first reply. But, the "all the while fawning over Black and Asian women" is just the cherry on the top for me and a few others I guess with the current dynamic. Bookie mentioning the hypocrisy of some with regard to the ladies posting about WM should not be lost in this though.
     
  10. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member


    Smarty draws. lol :cool:

    I'd spank you for being making fun of me, Kushi, but I know you'd enjoy it too much. :yawinkle:
     
  11. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

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  12. Archman

    Archman Well-Known Member

    I have listened to every angle of this debate…..and have concluded that for those sincerely interested in walking away with some substantive enlightenment of what has happened on the forum and what can be expected in the trend…….Read and try to digest the opinions and contributions of Max, Satyr, Karma, Whikle, Tamstrong and Bookworm……Of Course the individual with the best course of action is Tony Saprono with the suggestion to just delete the damn thread and any others like it…..Although entertaining for a number of Blackmen, the Hottest Blackwomen thread being paraded on this forum, amounts to nothing more than a selfish, inconsiderate slap in the face of those we share the forum with………..
     
  13. Vamber

    Vamber New Member

    I don't know how

    bad the site has been in regards to the negative that's been said to your "White Goddesses", but I'm back here to this site because I do want to date.
    Not to date someone that's going to turn away because I'm not the worlds "idea of a Perfect size".
    A real man looks beyond the beauty of the face and finds the inner part to be sexy. I'm a sexy plus size woman.
    I want a man who's going to look forward to taking the time to get to know me.
    Getting the topics out there, getting thoughts out there, sharing. This White Goddess wants to stay.
     
  14. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

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  15. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    wooooooooo beautiful and quick wit, I LOVE IT!
     
  16. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Great post, Vamber. I also refuse to let those who don't appreciate us run me off. There are several real men here who do appreciate real women, & the love they show us is more powerful than the negativity poured out by those who don't. :)
     
  17. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    And I'm compelled to respond with this.
     
  18. Vamber

    Vamber New Member

  19. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    You do that and I shall come to ye in great pleasure!!!
     
  20. Vamber

    Vamber New Member

    I'll talk to you

    tomorrow when my day start to wind down and the night starts to reach out.
    I look forward to some of the posts you'll be in. I intend to start one myself, if something happens that gets me upset I'll be sure to vent.

    Night Everyone.
     

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