Make a thread called 'ugly as fuck women'. No "cute" bodies. Not "cute" faces. See what kind of attention it gets.
One can only speak from their own experience or observation. Your first example involves an analyzation of a public figure in comparison to ALL black men in this country. You could walk down a mall outside of the hood and debunk that without trying. The next involves black women and their opinions on black men and white women's relationships. You need to either have candid relationships with black women or sit and watch or read candid discussion between black women. I have or do both and its my opinion that theres an overwhelming amount of vitriol for bm/ww relationships coming from that direction. Sure i could pretend I dont see it and chock it up to my inexperience but why? Im 33 years old and have seen enough of it to know its not my imagination. I hear it from family, I hear it from co-workers, I hear it on the street and i read it on any forum ive seen available for black women. Does this mean I hate black women, no. Does it mean that I feel every black woman I talk to feels this way about bm/ww, no. it just means that if I run into a discussion about this very topic, im not gonna put my head in the sand just to be politically correct. And again...This isnt a sweeping generalization, but rather my observations of MY experiences. My family has a few hoodrats but by and large its far from it. Out of all of my female family, id say roughly 30% have positive or indifferent views on BM/WW relationships. So you tell me. Should I have kept that to myself?
I just re read this after Flame's remark. Fam you actually did use bw in the general sense and I wasn't pretending anything. Like PO said all they youtube watching and restricting ourselves to small areas limits our life experiences and leads us to drawing ignorant false conclusions. I could care less about winning an argument I just like talking about truth not assumptions.
Well, youre assuming that in order to have the opinion I do on this subject, i must have restricted myself. I say to you that youre entitled to your opinion on this subject but you have no idea of the extent of my experiences.
Thats where youre wrong. My intention isnt to establish a negative representation of black women. But rather to point out what i feel is still an issue. You might be taking a collection of opinions from several people on bw and arguing them all with me.
Fair enough fam. It wasn't my intent to do that but I can see how its coming across like that. My bad.
I just did and in fairness I get the pov. I'm not blind or stupid fam, I see the same bullshit but I know such amazing beautiful bw. They make joke about "Drae and his white girls" but its never with animosity or ill will. I guess I see the negatives but won't let it make a lasting impression because I know what its really about.
No prob. The argument im trying to make is... just because one points out an observation they've experienced....the fact that its a negative observation doesnt mean they have an overall negative opinion on that group of people. But I can damn well see how that could be assumed because people make ignorant generalization every day. Sometimes on this forum Some of my aunts have the same opinion I do on this subject and the last thing I feel is 'they dont like black women'.
Btw for all the kiddies this how grown up disagree and resolve a misunderstanding. I'm just saying.... :-D
This right here needs to be quoted and copied @ pasted into pretty much every argument that's ever been had on the forum.
