Feeling Guilty About Attraction to White Women?

She was married to a *Jewish* guy on top of that. Can't find the video on YouTube they must have taken it down. I posted the link a long time ago on here.

 

Do you really think a Middle-eastern or Mexican woman can pop-off about how fine a BM is without looking around first???

C'mon now..

I live right next door to a Brother that is married to a Mexican woman.

Her Brother...kicked his own daughter in the side so hard he ruptured her kidney....just because she said some Black guy on a video was cute..!!

Conjecture my ass.

 

Larry Elder looked at her like she was stark-raving mad.

People in the audience were in awe of her hypocrisy.

 

Never said that but the obvious divisive propaganda that keeps the poor at each other's neck is obvious and very apparent. I'm sorry you guys have had bad experiences with bw, I have too but I'm a grown and educated man and I know bs when I see it. I am attracted to ww and prefer to date them but it doesn't mean I think all bw are evil and out to hurt me.
Everything you guys keep pointing out seems to be the talking points of women in shitty socioeconomic circumstances. I never grew up hearing bm are shit from my family or any of the women in my personal life. That shit always came from talk shows or chicks from the projects. So all I can say is up your circle because what you're say isn't true. No more ture when I hear shit like more bm are in jail than college. Bm don't care for their kids. All bm would rather party than read. Its horseshit, this site is evidence of that. So could the same logic be applied to bw.

 

Would the reaction be different if they were white?

 

As was pointed out you are West Indian right? So your circle can indeed be different. I will grant you that.

And bourgie college girls from good homes and families can be trifling too, it's not socioeconomic in the least!

 

shit really? thats ridiculous

 

Im not even sure what the disagreement is cause im jumpin in late but this need not be forgotten...

What groups do most of the opposition of interracial relationships come from in this country? White men and black women.
Any negative comments I see toward black women stem more from a response to their prejudice & hypocrisy and less to do with pure vitriol.

 

I can't believe all black families have that "niggas ain't shit" mentality. How can a parent look at a child that way?

 

This is true and a good point, the same that petty made. My contention however is that WE ON THIS SITE DON'T SAY THESE THINGS AGAINST BLACK WOMEN, your words are evidence of that, let flaminghetero or another poster even suggest something against Black women and people on this site are all over their ass. Look what happened when I posted the ruckus clip!!

Like I said before: In some instances when people are called something they are not so often, they tend to defend themselves in a manner that makes them guilty of the very behavior they are accused of. This happens when the trolls come, but generally we are very good not to talk bad about others, and we usually check other, which doesn't happen on all internet forums.

 

I just don't like how those of us here don't like sweeping generalizations made about us but have no problem making them about others. Most human beings are complacent and just want to live their lives being entertained and complaining. Very could give a fuck less about us so I refuse to believe that all black chicks and white dudes are sitting around worried about what we do. Just call people what they are based on their actions not other people's.

 

You said all. Not me. Furthermore, this country has too long of a history to put our heads in the sand and pretend its been a melting pot of inclusion. That doesnt mean you harp on it daily but if we're having a real discussion, lets keep it real.

We all know the difference between discussing trends and making ignorant generalizations so lets not pretend we dont for the sake of winning an argument.

 

This thread isn't going to die anytime soon.

I'd say it's going to outperform the BBW thread.

 

Should I feel guilty? No. As palmer pointed out, as long as I'm dating that person for the right reasons, there's no reason to show shame or guilt. Love isn't a disease. It's a chemical and psychological response based on your personal feelings toward someone you find beautiful.

For some reason, people get the impression that attraction = exclusive attraction. That is not the case whatsoever. None at all. In my case, I do have a preference towards white women, but I'd be a damn fool to not recognize beautiful women from all spectrum of life. There are black women whom I fancy, as there are Latino, Asian, Middle Eastern, Native Indian, etc...etc...etc...but all in all, I often gravitate more to white women and it has more to do with common interests and not too much of being WHAT they are.

I guess I am saying that in the end, you need to realize that you must love the person as a individual, and not because of what they are. I did a video mentioning this anyway, so perhaps this could shed some light.

[YOUTUBE]e1-1ROkzc34[/YOUTUBE]

 

lmao

the BBW thread outperforms everything

like bull said, there's a bunch of chubby chasing mothafuckas in denial around here

 

Does keeping it real mean keeping the stereotypes too? My over all point is why do we allow the least(minority) of a group to be the poster child for all. We hate when Lil Wayne is used as the represenation of bm but turn right around and let classless hoodrats represent bw. Like I said before its unfair and inaccurate.

 

Yep..it did happen.

 

I'd say his thread gets views on 'shock value' alone.

Say, if there was an 'ugly women' thread', there would guaranteed be a lot of views simply because of the 'shock value' factor. I'm not saying BBW are ugly. I'm simply stating the type of reaction it will garner on average.

 

SLAMMED...Darrell Dawkins style.

 

posts like these lead me to believe that people (not you but the ones in question) aren't being exposed to decent black women. you can't argue with people that don't get out and experience life. If you work (or even just visit) at a hospital in a mixed city (like philly), you're going to see many black nurses, technicians, professionals, that are anything but the stereotype that loves to chase after tupac or some other guy with his pants hanging off his ass.

If you don't like BW, fine. Don't just sandbag them every time you get the chance, because contrary to popular belief, they don't sandbag us every chance they get. Stop watching movies and living your life through blogs and idiots on youtube, unplug your internet and go experience life for yourself.