Feeling Guilty About Attraction to White Women?

LOL!

I think Tam and I have the same stance as well as other women on this site, we know that we're not the cause of the BW to BM ratio. There are other factors involved and women outnumber men in population as a whole, so it's never even.

Most definitely!

She knew as soon as she registered as "Bruce" and hit, "Submit reply".

 

It's hard when you know your interest or attraction is genuine and people just gotta hate, cause they're unhappy with themselves or just have an all around negative outlook on life. There is a big ass world out there. So much more to focus on. If you're happy with yourself, then you should be able to attract someone, period.

I'll have to go check it out...lol

 

Amen on all accounts!

 

I will echo what others on here have said and that is to not feel guilty. Make sure you are dating white women for the right reason. If your heart isn't truly in it, then maybe you shouldn't date them because you will get a lot of pressure both the outside world and the inside as well (family and friends).

I don't pay any attention those people anyways. Usually they are annoying to me as their relationships aren't any better and a lot of times they are far more worse than the one I'm in.

I would also add becareful of the white woman you choose to date. If she has dated black men before, try and find out what kind of guy he was. You'll be surprised, but there are a lot of white women that love dating the loser type thug black man. I avoid those types as they usually aren't good to date for anything long term.

 

Amen to that. I have found that it's the family and friends of your mate that you have to deal with first and foremost. That was the case for me prior to my marriage with my wife. As far as the world of idiots out there who disapprove of your union. You should never let those bastards make you feel guilty or inferior. Like I say women want a real man not a wimp who can deal with the machinations from the ignorant. Yes to real men and no to wussies. Thank god for the gift of these ladies that he has given us. The least you can do is be strong for them.

 

I could not have said this better!

 

I have often wondered why it is that men of other races can date people of other races and not get the flack that we BM get for dating WW. It's really inexplicable!

 

Alrighty then!

 

Great minds have to ask the same question. If he wants to marry black, he should be on BlackPlanet, not here.

 

:smt011 You're beginning to sound like the haters in the KKK and the Nazi groups. Really, WHY do you waste time with white women if you feel this way????

 

Great point, Inner Beauty. After all, we are the ones whom society looks at with raised eyebrows. Most BM are with BW and with the end of laws banning interracial marriages, BW do have Asian, white, Native American and Hispanic males as dating options.

 

Another good point by Tamstrong! Can somebody rep her, please?

 

I love dating white women and will continue to.

What does guilt have to do with anything. Guilt for what. I don't owe black women anything in 2011 and they don't owe me anything.

They are free to date other Black, White, Asian, Hispanic, Indian men in a free country.

I know what i like, white women, and I go for it, that simple. That is what is interesting to me and attracts me.

 

I see we have another dude playing a girl who's playing a dude...

 

very true, ive often seen bw bash black men something rotten and get praised for it while uplifting their white bf etc as the "perfect father" "perfect upbringing" etc, the way ive seen black women attack black men for liking white women tis pretty sad to be honest, just shows you how intimidated people have gotten these days

 

I know what you mean on that front. There are also some black men who do the same to black women when dating white girls.

This is my motto when it comes to black women.

1. I don't date them because I am not attracted to them
2. I don't talk about them negatively in front of white girls.
3. I keep things to hi and goodbye on an interaction level, never put forth any sense of interest in them, so they know the score when they interact with me after a while.

This is one brotha that isn't going to be trying to get that ass like some thirsty dudes they deal with.

When I hear a black woman talking rubbish about a black guy while dating a man of another race, it doesn't bother me in the least, because of that list I posted above.

I know what kind of black man I am, what my personality is like and why I like white women. So a black woman could speak until the world comes to an end and for me it will be like water off a ducks back, because I'm not checking for them in any interpersonal way whatsoever in my life.

Some people have to put down others because of their own personal motives. I'm not about to argue with a woman because she thinks X,Y and Z about a black man and I'm not a vanguard for black men and usually am in no mood to hear a lecture about their ills. I'm worried about my own darn life.

The reason I don't get upset about any negativity by black women is because I date interracially and I'm not attracted to them so therefore I can ignore them quite easily when they start yapping.

 

yes ive seen this video too, alot of white girls in this country especially in the london parts do not like indian men, pakistani men etc period, you will get the odd rare coupling of a ww and asian guy but its very rare, alot of white girls ive known over the years find them repulsive etc, personaly im not attracted to any of them

the guys reasons are hillarious, hes screaming jealousy and ass hurt, especially saying when a white girl gets a black bf then her friends will want one lmao, hes mad cos no white girl wants his nasty ass, ive noticed these non white men tryin to keep away white girls from black guys, its weird