No ordinary love....

Superbly said Max.

 

LMAO...!!! me...??? tactless...??? why i never...!!!

 

but datz why I lube........I mean love you.

Lube comes later.

 

Wow @ this thread


That's not an easy situation to get into, so I wish you luck....

 

is the reason why i will need lube is because you leave me dry...???

 

we have to judge people. you dont want the wrong person coming into your life fucking it up....ie this story :
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Felony charge ends Mike Haywood's Pitt tenure after 17 days
By Matt Hinton
First, the good news for Mike Haywood, relatively speaking: He posted bail this morning after a Friday afternoon arrest for domestic assault at his home in South Bend, Ind. It would have been a shame to spend the first day of 2011 in jail.

Now, the bad news: Haywood has been officially fired as Pittsburgh's head coach, effective immediately, barely two weeks after he was hired away from Miami (Ohio) to replace outgoing coach Dave Wannstedt. At the time, Pitt athletic director Steve Pederson called Haywood "a man of character and integrity" who "will be an inspirational leader for our football team."

That was then. Today, the university released a statement in which chancellor Mark Nordenberg said coaches "are expected to maintain high standards of personal conduct and to avoid situations that might reflect negatively on the university." Presumably, the start of a new search for Haywood's replacement is also effective immediately.

The domestic assault charge against Haywood has also been upgraded to a felony. He was arrested around 3 p.m. Friday, after an apparent custody dispute with a woman with whom he has a child (but is not married) led to an altercation, according to St. Joseph County Police, who said the woman told them Haywood "grabbed her by the arm and neck and pushed her as she tried to leave" the house with the child. She reportedly had corroborating marks on her neck, arm and back. Haywood told the Pittsburgh Tribune-Review after his release this morning that the arrest "isn't fair" and "the truth will eventually come out."

Be that as it may, his now-former employer isn't waiting for it. Haywood's elapsed time on the job: Seventeen days. That's longer than George O'Leary lasted as Notre Dame's head coach before the university discovered he'd lied on his resumé in 2001, but not as long as Mike Price was in the top job at Alabama before being canned for his infamous strip club antics in 2003.

In both of those cases, O'Leary (now at Central Florida) and Price (Texas-El Paso) were able to limp on from the ignominy of being fired before coaching a single game at a traditional powerhouse to a respectable second-chance job in Conference USA. Ditto basketball coach Larry Eustachy, who landed at Southern Miss after a handful of notorious post-game party pics got him bounced from Iowa State in 2003.

Given that Haywood's premature exit is the first in recent memory to be prompted by an actual arrest, though, the schools willing to take a chance on him will be much further down the food chain, and probably not willing to hand him the keys as a head coach. And given that he could be facing jail time if convicted of a felony charge, his future employment status may be the least of his concerns.

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dont have women like karrine steffans and robin givens in your bed to get in your head to get in your bank account.

 

No you don't have to judge people. You use common sense, but judging a stranger you don't know, and trying to tell Sonny how to handle his own business is not appropriate. Sonny didn't ask for anyone's advice or opinions. Y'all need to get off your judgmental soap boxes and take a hard look at your own lives. When your life is absolute perfection and you are truly beyond reproach, then you might be in a position to offer advice to someone else... but you need to make sure they actually ask for it first... if they don't you need to step back and shut your mouth.

As for the article goodlove, it doesn't belong in this thread as it has nothing to do with Sonny's situation. Additionally, if Mr. Haywood assaulted the woman, he should have been arrested. I've seen nothing so far that shows that she provoked the attack, and rather clearly he can't prove that either or they would both have been arrested. So speculating that she's a gold-digging bitch who tried to keep him from his child (mentioned in the other threads) is really inappropriate at this point, it could be that he's an abusive bastard. Funny how in instances like this it seems that an awful lot of people automatically assume the woman is somehow at fault, which is especially odd in this case since given the facts as they've been laid out thus far, it appears the fault lies with Haywood. I'm not saying that's the case, there's a chance we aren't yet privy to all the facts, however given what's been reported, that appears to be the case.

Just because some of y'all have bad taste in women and got played, taken for a ride, cleaned out, whatever... that does not mean all women are like that, it just means you need to chose more wisely in the future. In short, don't be projecting your inadequacies, short comings, bad experiences, and bad judgment on the rest of the world, fix yourself. You made your own mistakes, accept that, pay for them, and move on. Blaming everyone else cause you screwed up isn't appropriate or productive, and it just makes you look jaded and bitter, and neither are attractive traits.


And Sonny, I'm happy you're happy. Ignore the idiots and assholes, just enjoy your happiness. I suspect if other people were happy, they wouldn't be going out of their way to give you so much 'good advice'. If you and your lady are happy, that's really all that matters. Go, live your life, leave the doubters to wallow in their own discontent.

 

THIS! :smt038

 

thats right common sense. use it. People are judgemental every minute of the day and every second. If you walk down the street and see a guy with his pants to his knees the first thing that comes to your mind is "thug". that is judging. women judge men before they get to know them all the time.

Again the pants to the knees there are women who would not talk to a guy like that without talking to him. then there are women who only talk to "ballers/drug dealers" .....that is judging. hello !!!!! people do it all the time.

as far as the article it was nt to condone the man but to let sonny know that when you are dealing with women who make bad decisions its going to suck you in also. what if dude came by and they got into some shit like that in the article and sonny was there. sonny would have been sucked into the shit and probably got shot or the least his ass whipped.

that is one reason I dont like dealing with drama mama's and women with multi-kids with multi-daddies. prime example in the article. another entertainer Nia long sucked a dude in her bullshit by doing that very shit.
all we are saying is watch yourself. dont confuse a good fuck with love.

 

Am I the only one who sings the Sade song in their head every time they see this thread on the main page?

 

Point 1) Rather we do it consciously or not, we all judge people. It's in our nature.

Point 2) First thing I thought of when I saw this thread title was Sade.

 

Probably.


Now that you mentioned it, that song is in my head.

 

Its just not PC to say one is judging, the very same people decrying being judgmental and the biggest judgmental nitwits on this site...

...by every measurable means.

I just laugh, giggle, snicker...

...its not good to judge when you are judging someone that is liked by a good many people, that's when judging is wrong. But as long as you are judge the goofy guy who wears super man T-shirts...well that's ok right there.

silly asses...I chuckle, I chuckle.

 

yep and now it's in mine

 

[YOUTUBE]_WcWHZc8s2I[/YOUTUBE]

 

CLASSIC!

 

-The best I was reading since a very long time-
you really talk from the bottom of my heart.