what do white women love about black men?

Im with petty. being a man is being confident. to elaborate ( this is going to sound sexist but it is what it is) being a man is more than the physical it is a state of mind. women love the manliness of a man. meaning he is confident in himself about his decision making abilities and ability to provide for a woman (ie stability, comfort, affection, love and the feeling he can protect his love ones.) women love a man who have goals , can make plans and make wise decisions. they want a leader. that is in any race. black men have their own kind of swagger. every race has have their own kind of swagger. just choose the one you like.

lets just be honest about it.

 

thanks, I will adjunct my statement with this.....even if a woman made 10X more than a man she will still look to him as a leader because he is a man. If I married Halle Berry , Condaleeza Rice, Taylor swift or whom ever ....If you carry yourself Manly ( as described above) a mature woman will respect that. A MATURE woman.

 

let me ask you this . describe the difference between being manly (leader) and being domineering. I can probably guess but I want you to do it and give an example.

this convo should go in the trading macking notes thread . LOL

 

It's overrated, in my opinion. It's better to be compassionate. A world where everyone was kind and empathetic would necessarily be better, a world where everyone was more confident (even if they weren't cocky) would not necessarily be any better.

 

Thats subjective. Whats good for the world my not be what turns a woman on. one is a rational belief, the other is a passion.

 

hmmmm....wonder which category you fall under pecs...

 

i was going to elaborate a bit more in support of my stance, but I figured my time was best finding more women for the Men's Locker Room.

:mrgreen:

 

.....just because....

I find that most black men I meet have such confidence...boarding on arrogance...but not quite...that I enjoy....there is a comfort in being with someone who makes you feel safe and protected....I also find that they are amazingly more respectful than white men....please note... I am specifically referring West Indies and African men in London vs White British men....

Also, being that I am a high energy gogogo person who loves to dance and goes out dancing every friday and saturday till 6am....only black men seen ti be able keep up with that pace and love every minute of the dance as much as I do....and love the music just as much as I do....

 

...just because

If I could blush, I'd be doing that right now. lol. Thanks for saying those fine things out loud about us.

I am one of those West Indian guys who could party all night and go to work next day after a quick shower. It's been a while since I did that I must admit, but those were some real fun days.

 

you are welcome.... there is a kindness that I found resonates in the hearts of most West Indies guys... at least the ones I have met... and there is a sense of tenderness, love and laughter and that always comes out in conversation and in dance... and a dance is just a dance.. which is lovely!!

 

Appreciate the love for us West Indian men, :smt058

It starts with our moms, who are usually no nonsense and is big on respect of others.

Of course there are rotten eggs in every basket, but some of us try to always be gentlemen in interactions or I certainly do.

Even if I find a woman so tempting, I'll always play it cool and suave in speaking to her.

 

THIS, i love west indian men my ex was west indian too, plus i seem to attract west indian guys more ha :smt077

 

Yes we are very respectful and can party hard too lol i had to say something for the african brothers cuz those two cats were repping west indies.

 

What's sick about this is that this is clearly a racist white guy, with the same old myth about black male slaves. The real problem was the white slaveowners taking advantage of and raping black female slaves.

Come on, there is no magic pheromone between black men and white women, because race as we define it is really nothing at all. We're all basically the same, with different physical features.

Okay, this is my first post so I thought I'd put in my two cents' worth. I find black men attractive because for whatever reason, most black men's features are just pleasing to me. I can't say it's a personality thing one way or the other, because I grew up pretty sheltered and my dating life has been very limited. I've only dated three guys in my life -- two white and one black -- and unfortunately, the black guy was a committed Christian so we didn't do anything physical. Boy, was that a letdown, I'll be honest. LOL.

 

At least you knew he wasn't with you just for the sex and maybe actually, I don't know, liked you for your personality?

 

you know that reminded me of one time i reading a thread and reading what some white guy said once in a topic about why black men like white women so much, and he said white women have a addicting taste in thier mouth that sets off sensations in the guys mouth or some crap like that and said no other race of women have it only white women, he certainly pissed off alot of people with it thou lol

 

"At least you knew he wasn't with you just for the sex and maybe actually, I don't know, liked you for your personality?"

True, he wasn't with me for the sex and that's refreshing. But his initial attraction to me was still based on my appearance. No reason why that can't be true even if you're not planning to have sex. He admitted that much, although I believe he also liked my personality.

I'm just saying that it was a bit tantalizing that he wasn't even going to kiss someone on the lips until proposing. So I couldn't even get a good kiss out of the deal. I know men are supposed to have the stronger sex drives but it was killing me!

Ultimately he needed someone who shared his values, and although I was raised the same way, I think of myself as a "liberal" Christian and he's most definitely a "conservative" Christian. It's not that I sleep around at all. As I said, I've only ever dated two other guys and have never had casual sex. But I couldn't pretend to be someone I was not. Okay, enough rambling!

 

Wow...yeah, I see your point now. I'm a Christian too, but I don't think I could wait until proposal or marriage to be able to kiss and have some sort of physical contact. I'd go nuts. :smt103