What was your first interracial experience

My First powerful interracial experience was sophomore year of college, I used to see this blond white girl, with real ice blue eyes every single day in one of my History courses. She had those eyes that were just transparent and long blond hair.

I would occasionally glance at her, but didn't want to be too obvious.

So one night I went with friends to an off campus party, after leaving a club at like 2:30 in the morning and I saw the very same girl at the house party

White girls are bold when they like you, I must say, , She came up to me, after we exchanged glances a few times and said I've seen you around campus and you have a class with me.

I was like likewise, and we got to talking deep all night. Telling me how she likes my style and such. She must have been watching a brotha longer than I knew. Women are subtle with that for sure.

Not to toot my own horn, but I'm a sharp dude, so I know when women are noticing with the occasional glance,

From that day forth we chilled for most of the semester and had lots of fun, if you get my drift.

 

Right after high school. Girl I knew from one of my science classes. Red hair, very fair skin. Good sense of humor. We had some fun.

 

I have dated all kinds over the years, but I've been down with the IR from first kiss.

Summer between 8th and 9th grade. A cute little thing from my hometown that was in the same summer YMCA program. She was a year younger than me if I remember correctly. I was sold when I saw her in a bathing suit. It was at that age where I had to think of grandma or I wasn't gonna be able to get out of the pool without getting laughed at.

Anyway, we were both really shy, but it was clear there was something there. We were inseparable that entire summer. Finally on a beach trip I made my first move. It was all good from there.:smt025

 

ROFLMAO, I hear that.

The girl in my original encounter I would see her in the cafetaria, library, gym, and with groups of her friends, we would just look at each other, but always nothing more for a good while.

Ironic she made the first move after spotting me in the house party. Thank god for the modern, confident woman. or I might have missed out big time.

That is why you always have to give things a shot, you never know.

 

98% of all the girls I've dated were white so I've pretty much been doing this since nursery school when my first kiss was from a white girl. Actually up until senior year of high school I never hooked up with a girl who wasn't white and I have to say for the most part I had so much fun. I wonder why that is?

 

Some red head I met off AOL chatrooms when I was 13. Smashed the 2nd time we met and never looked back.

 

When I was 13 there was this american family who lived on the other side of the street. One summer there was this guy hanging around at their house and I remember I spent half of the day stalking their building and their windows. LOL
I think the adults were on vacation and they left the 18yr old guy with this friend of him to keep him company while they were away.

So, I think we started talking from the window. OMG, I was really 13, how could I do something like that. haha. Like, probably the whole block could hear us.
"How old are youuuuu?" "thirtheeeeen!" "O_O thirtyyyy??????" "noooo, thirteeeeen!"
Hahahaha.
So well we ended up meeting down on the street and talking with this guy. I was SO in LOVE. LOL. We went for some walks and met for like 3 or 4 nights. I didn't enjoy my first kiss too much lol, it reminded me of a slug. Then he went back at his parents house and got somehow in troubles and they didn't let him come around anymore and we didnt exchange phone number, anything, so it ended like that. I think I cried for one year. It was my first teenage love and since then it's always been me and black guys, besides a white date.
Now that I think about it... I was so crazy, but when u r a teenager everything is different, right?

 

Hey same with me! Being a military brat my first little gf's were white. All I know is interracial dating. I think I mentioned it here once that I've only been with one BW in my life. My ex tells me that BW don't talk to me because they can sense I'm into WW/LW.

 

I hear the same thing. Especially since I "talk" white lol

 

LOL, think quite a few of us here can vouch for that. I know exactly what you guys are saying about that.

 

I have always been fascinated with how things work out and shape our desires in life, I mean growing up where I did in South America, the first white woman I recall setting my eyes on was Heather Locklear, from the T.J. Hooker tv show in the 80's that ran in Guyana.

I had never seen a white woman in real life until I came to America and yet felt attracted to them, maybe that was the 12 year old hormones in me at that time when I came to the US. But everything sure came together to create my taste in women.

I could have felt this way for black women or Indian women, Asian women, but that was not to be for my tastes.

 

Mine first IR didn't happen till about 2 yrs after my divorce. It started with this handsome black guy approaching me at mall store. He was so cute the way he acted too, looked all nervous and the guys he was with was really razzing him too. We saw each other again a few weeks later only this time he was alone. We talked for a good bit and just really hit it off; I really felt comfortable with him and enjoyed talking with him. We ended up dating for almost 2 yrs. And, that was 10 years ago...I'm getting so old!!

 

What was your first "weak" interracial experience?

 

LOL, overthinking it way too much, no such thing in my experience

 

I lost my virginity to an african man. The guy was one of the biggest assholes anyone could ever meet and was far from good looking. But I was infatuated (because even assholes can be charming when they want something). But I don't regret it. It wasn't the best, but hey...it wasn't awful either.

So, there ya go.:???:

edit: I should just say that although he was "far from good looking" he wasn't actually ugly...just older and well...I don't know. I look at pictures of him now and think "WTF?!"

 

Well, when I was 9 I got into a fist fight with a local neighborhood kid. I gave him a black eye. As freshmen in high school, we bagan dating and stayed together until I meet my ex-husband, who is Latino. Once I split with him, I began dating black men again. My first boyfriend and I briefly recounciled for a bit 2 years ago, but it didn't work.

 

My first encounter was at 5 years of age. Bear in mind I arrived to the States in my late teens. The taboo is not as prominent in the UK as it is in the States. The mindset of most Americans is the whole intertwining amongst different ancestral backgrounds is a big deal. Hopefully, things will change in the decades to come.

My upbringing and circle of friends were quite different compared to many of my American comrades. This is the reason why I don’t pursue a girl solely on her pigmentation. A beautiful girl is a beautiful regardless of her place of origin.

Those who’ve read my posts know I date all types of girls. “Interracial” does not limit my thought patterns to one type of hue and/or ancestry.

Cheers!

 

My ex boyfriend, 2007.

Unless you wanna count the adorable hispanic boy I dated in 2nd grade.

 

Haha yeah, my boyfriend in 1st grade was black, so I guess you could say I started early...