Does Anyone else HATE when Blacks Say You Have Self Hate for Dating IR?

you go girl



not quite on par with the scale of our plight, but I feel ya. Few mothafuckas on an internet forum, whining about having to go to Europe to get some fine white cooter, isn't as bad as walking down the street and having a sista say 'black men aint shit..all you do is get money and chase white tail'

 

i can handle you all baby, don't worry!

 

The United States is not the best or easiest place for a Black man to be with a White woman, no disrespect to American women from me, it just isn't.

 

this should be common sense, ladies and gents

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good white women are around...mos def..but damn...there's an abnormal amount of pressure against IR here

 

which is why we need to organize and relocate!!! this is the point!!!

 

organize? get your own money and go somewhere, you still have to put in work for a woman. It's still every man for himself.

 

seriously i get the shit from both sides of the park

On one side, I got trash white guys upset because i'm able to pull women they couldnt

on the other side, I got sistas giving me off-hand remarks like 'you look like you go after white girls' or giving me weird looks when I talk good about them.

then...up in the club seats, I got UK shorties telling me that the divide isnt as substantial in England, and people are more worried about your religion or nationality, and not the color of your skin.

 

You make some valid points.... But still my scenario is not farfetched and it happens on the regular.

 

fallback and just cosign with what i write

arent you girls supposed to be submissive and shit

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Its hella ironic that most of the countries that participated in the slave trade are now some of the more racially accepting countries in the world now lol...

 

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well, not all american BW fit this stereotypes but alot do!

the way BW are portrayed in media is 1 of several ways.

the church lady


the music video booty shaker / the porno actresses



the corporate independent "i don't need a man but i can't find a man"



the ghetto mamas



there are other extremes.

there are a few BW that don't fit in these extremes that have class. but the ones that do

are like these types with super high standards

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWTXhHABj_A

and when they find the ideal black man they drive that man CRAZY!!!!

and when a BM goes outside of his race here in the US here has to deal with this crap

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gKeLjQrSyls

 

yeah man its amazing. i hear you. its ironic!

check this out it funny!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c92TGgK68ZE

 

give them credit..they moved forward while America keeps moving backwards

we did get the first Black Head of State tho...




just dont expect IR to be as open anytime soon

 

Bhayes im not talking about stereotypes, im talking about real average BW from this documentaries and talk shows.

 

well the stereotypical BW and even the average ones all give us american BM real headaches!

its all the same end result. negativity!

 

I mean I expect them to be ahead of us, the US is still a relatively young country. The US is kinda like a teenage country we're in a akward stage right now just like teenagers go through their own akward stage. Countries in Europe like England, Spain, France, Holland, etc. are more like middle aged countries, they know alot just like middle aged people but they still have a ways to go.

 

YUP! Slater are you a historian or something. i thought i knew my stuff but you seem to be well read!