Talks shows that talk about IR relationships

This is an interesting series of 5 clips. I believe this is an UK talk show. its interesting to get the international perspective on things.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kkXogn8Oeo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZOQoZP9QFkw&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_rvKi7qFPLY&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQbCsA_uOvs&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PE1lozpIwMg&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMqCzgKZ-uE&feature=related

 

there we go!

 

Im gonna have to check this out lata

 

That Erykah Badu looking chick is pretty.

 

this is another convo that took a left turn on clip one. lowering black men and trying to make a racists statement back and forth. Im only in the 2nd clip at 1:32 and these black guys are acting like bafoons. we are better lovers and better dancers , Im just waiting on a white guy to say we have better learning abilities and better financially

clip 3 : 2:53 status symbol. when a black man get successful he dates white women. that is a bunch bull crap. there are many unknown and not 6 figure income black men dating ww. so that goes out the window.

 

me personally i think the problem with this 1997 talk show clip is they make too many generalizations and they try to discuss myths about IR relationships in a rampant way.

However, i'm glad to again see some international-UK WW who truly are not racist and feel almost a PULL towards brown skin. But some of the WW make too many generalizations.

i feel like alot of different types of black men have different reasons for want to date different kinds of white women.

there is no one single explanation.

take for example terry crews in the movie white chicks

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8uMPNaj1qsU

this type of BM simply wants a WW because she is a status symbol. i mean even a dark, red or brown haired WW is not good enough for this type of BM. He must have a super pretty blonde and because he has the money/status and the muscle-tone/wardrobe etc., he can attract this too in the setting he is in.

vs.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1HVcFyF-mco

this type of BM is trying desparately to sample something different in the form of a certain type of WW because he is TIRED of the non-sense that the type of BW he has been exposed to have brought into his life. he is making a ill-fated attempt at happiness.

But Its more confirmation about how that niche group of women in that part of the world think and act. Its a huge departure from what happens here in the states. i mean i guess WW like barack obama's mother is the exception to the rule.

but a open discussion like this on IR relationships on a talk show would never take place on US airwaves. It would really start a riot. i'm not kidding.

i'm talking LA riots level rampage here.

But for me personally its nice to see that the grass is greener on the other side for a BM. Its a nice feeling.

black really is beautiful to some people.

 

hell the bw and the bm were making generalizations and stating prejudices about everyone. ww are docile to bm and bm are weak because they dont date bw. wm are spineless and bm have self esteem problems because they date outside their race

 

yeah. its all really sad but at the end of the day. but there is a reason behind everything.

not all BM are the same. not all WW are the same either. not all BW are the same.

But there must be a way to escape all the non-sense and negative energy.

one of the BM in the clips say that he is a human being who is attracted to other human beings so it doesn't matter if she is green, blue, white or brown, if she is nice to me and has realtionship skills then i will like her back.

and that's how i feel personally. i agree with him.

 

what people didnt catch was a bm stated that ww are easier to get along with. then a bm and a bw called him weak and the ww docile. now, that kills me. If I was there or anyone can use this statement of logic. "easier to get along with" doesnt mean she will be lead by the nose and do EVERYTHING a Bm says. It means she is not arguing for the sake of arguing to prove or think she is proving she is a strong independent woman. that is an apochryphal thought process on meany levels.

do BW think because you can argue about everything is showing you are strong and independent

 

AMEN!

you should really look at the film.

Diary of A Tired Black Man by Tim Alexander. Its very easy to download.

thru bIttorrent or rapidshare. or do a google search on videos.

they discuss this issue very well in this film.

 

I bought it.