No ordinary love....

I hope Sonny stopped reading all bullshit that have been said by some people here.
It's not what you say, but how you say it, and some people will NEVER learn it.
And the fact that people talk shit about others who get in people's threads but do the same in other threads is just hilarious.

Arkansas must be a horrible place since it's making some people go very bitter. LOL

We are in our 20s damnit, let us love whoever we want to and don't bother us.

 

I wish you the best.

 

good luck sonny, hope it works out for you hun

 

I wasn't going to comment on this thread since posting on wwbm has caused me personal grief recently but like a moth to the flame my dumb ass can't resist lol.

I don't think anything Ymra posted was a double standard he was pointing out what he felt to be mistakes based on his own experiences which is what we all do.
Personally I would rather here about the ills of drugs from an addict than someone whose speculating or even someone who pushes the drugs because information may bring you knowledge but experience brings you knowing.


Hey Sonny Congrats on finding someone who suites you. I found my wonder woman I'm happy you found yours.

 

Then you need to go back and read again Andrae. It was pretty clear, though he corrected himself later.

Good to see you BTW, and I hope all is well.

 

Oh and that's too bad Andrae, really it is. I don't know why people can't just stay out of things that aren't their business instead of being nosy bitches and following you from thread to thread lurking like a cockroach who runs the instant you turn on the lights and expose them. It's beyond pathetic being that interested in someone else's life, and no matter what anyone tells you, this chick is not just being a good friend to your gf, she's a bitch who wants to start trouble. I really hope you get it all sorted out, sounds like your gf is a keeper who just has the misfortune to consider the wrong sort of person her friend.

 

Agreed. Why anyone would go to that length to interfere in someone's realationship speaks volumes on them and not in a good way. Sounds like they are jealous of what you have.

 

Agreed, and considering that they both know who it is, I really see this not ending well for the nosy party. There's just no way to justify following your friend's man to a forum, e-stalking him for almost a month, and then picking the one thing he said during that time that you know will upset your friend and telling her. Especially given the tons of super positive comments he's made about his gf during that time. Then as if that wasn't suspect enough, you continue to e-stalk him after you almost caused them to breakup permanently. I hope his gf sees this bitch for what she is, a jealous harpy, and boots her. I wouldn't tolerate that kinda crap, it's just too obvious that it's not done for any good purpose.

 

Exactly. There many times Andrae referred to his elation and happiness and you have to have a stone heart and the name of total b*tch to pull out one moment of question and run with it.

Andrae's gf should come and read all the good comments if she has any doubt about his feelings for her and forget that snoopig "friend".

 

True.

 

OWNED

 

CONGRATS & GOODLUCK TO YOU!

 

I appreciate you updating those of us who wondered how you've been Sonny. I am truly sorry the thread took on such an inappropriate & ugly tone. Please know I think it's wonderful you found someone you feel a connection to, and I wish you both all the best!

 

Yep, I agree ladies. Cowards are pathetic and despicable, not to mention the sneaking around and e-stalking him makes her seem mentally deficient as well. A person who truly cared for her friend wouldn't go to the trouble to point out one seemingly potentially negative remark out of countless glowingly loving comments, and she sure wouldn't stick around to keep trying when she failed. I'm pleased they were able to work it out, and I wish Andrae nothing but the best. The e-stalking bitch on the other hand, I hope she gets the pay back she deserves. I'm a big believer in concepts like 'do unto others' and 'you reap what you sow', because I do know that karma will bite you on the ass... hard!

I do think this is a cautionary example of why you shouldn't lay out specific details of your personal relationship on the forum though. You never know when someone with a mental issue will be lurking, just taking notes and gathering intel for their own stupid purposes. It's just really sad to me that there are people like that, they really need to get their own life.

 

Just playing Devil's Advocate here: is he sure his girlfriend didn't ask her friend to spy on him?

Regarding the last paragraph, I put more personal things on here than I ever intended to, and I think as one gets comfortable, one's guard goes out the window somewhat.

This is one of the main reasons I don't tell anyone that I know what forum I am on.

 

I wouldn't either Bookie. My children are aware of it, because we often discuss some of the stereotypical and racially involved topics on here, but neither would spy on me, nor would I say anything here I wouldn't be comfortable discussing with them if they asked.

I don't know Andrae's life, but I really don't think the person doing the spying had the green light from the gf, because she's been here almost a month and watches him every day, and I think something would have come up before now if she was relaying info back to his gf. He's made some other personal comments about their relationship and this is the only that appears to be at issue, so I strongly suspect this is the only one that got passed on. That says a lot about the person who is spying. It's funny, I knew who it was the instant he mentioned that someone here had talked to his gf. I noticed about a week ago that jackieo was stalking him on the forum, following him from thread to thread. Yet she's never posted herself, she just watches. Frankly that's really creepy to me.

 

Good luck to you Sonny. Seems like you have a realistic approach to the whole thing.

On another note... theres a mature and considerate way to offer advice to someone, and then theres the WWBM forum way. Just because you CAN say something doesnt mean you SHOULD.

 

Rep given. :smt023

 

As my daughter would say, "well, that's a good story". LOL.

Apparently, this forum is full of people who never use tact in real-life (doubtful) so they'll be damned if they'll use it here.

It's unfortunate, since like you and others have said, there's a right and a wrong way to go about saying things.

 

agree with the whole post. what a tactless bunch we have here