No ordinary love....

so Sonny is doing it out of pitty? Because "she needs a man"? He kids need a father? A single mother is considered "red-flaggable" because single with a child is an example of an unwise choice.

If you deem a man worthy enough to carry his sperm, he should deem you worthy enough to carry his last name. These are my beliefs. We have gotten to the point were we don't even try.

Single with children (to me) is just not the same as Divorced with children. Now I know the knew social liberal view is "marriage is just a piece of paper" but Xwife is a title, baby mamma is a caricature.

 

Why do people keep saying the kids' dad isn't there??? Does no one read?

I don't see what's wrong with a man who has found someone he loves. Sonny is a good guy. He's not dumb. I've been friends with him since he joined this board. I don't think he'd make a decision on who to involve in his life without thinking it through.

If you don't like his decision, then tough shit. It's not your decision to make. Let the man be happy. Just because certain people -aren't- happy in their own lives is no reason to hate on him!!!!

 

:smt005

 

Trust me....I'm not jealous of dude.

 

Kunoichi babe that's just being silly.

Dating a woman with children.....when you leave, you not only leave her but you leave children and you leave then wanting and wondering.

Dating a woman without children, You go left...she goes right.

You are not pretending its the same are you?

 

Then back off his nuts.

 

I'm on his nuts? I thought I was reply to a thread he posted....

..but hey maybe that's nuts where you are from.......go figured. You are nothing if not "common"

 

No, Im not saying that, but he said the reason he won't date them is because of a couple of bad break-ups. So maybe he would be willing to tell us if the fact that they were mothers with kids...were the reasons. I'm willing to wait on that before I comment further (ie: answer your questions)

 

You're an asshole with nothing better to do than hate on the internet and make veiled insults towards me that don't even make any real sense. Get back at me when you have some real creativity, because all I see is pathetic.

You've said your piece. Why does his personal life make you so angry? And don't say you're not, because if you weren't you wouldn't waste so much energy bitching like a cunt all up and down this forum about such stupid, insignificant things.

Do you wanna know somethings that should piss you off?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sylvia_Likens


http://helpguide.org/mental/child_abuse_physical_emotional_sexual_neglect.htm

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rwandan_Genocide

http://www.feedthechildren.org/site/PageServer?pagename=dotorg_homepage

http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/hate-map

http://www.newser.com/story/101946/mom-faked-kids-cancer-to-scam-church.html

http://www.newser.com/story/101135/babysitter-11-accused-of-murdering-toddler.html

 

I live in Atlanta!! Single women here without kids is scare as hen's teeth!! I don't have bad break-ups with these type of women. Things usually end on a mutual level. So I basically behave and don't do anything to fuck things up.But if I do I go on this long.. on and off dating BS until "lady with no kids" comes around.

 

Hmmm, and yet that rule doesn't apply to you? I'm going by what you've said previously here, so assuming everything you've posted is correct, you didn't follow this rule yourself.

You have three children from two marriages. A son 13 from your first marriage and two children, 3 & 5, from your second marriage. Therefore your eldest was 8 when your second child was born, which would seem to indicate you were dating prior to that time as it's generally assumed people date prior to marriage. So if he was 8, that's a bit earlier than your suggestion that dating before children are 14 should be avoided.

I guess it's fortunate you didn't follow your own advice on this huh?

I generally find if you're going to take a pretty inflexible stance on something, it's a good idea to not make exceptions for yourself. It just undermines your credibility with most folks.

 

...yeah, I think he lost his credibility a long time ago, love. lol

 

Smh

A thread that should of been 3 or 4 pages of good lucks, i hope it works out, etc. has turned into 12 pages of pure horseshit. I wish you the best of luck Sonny, just dont let your dick get you in trouble.

 

See there P, you and I do have reading comprehension skills after all.

 

Agreed.

 

Yeah, and despite hints at my being stupid, I actually got two points shy of a perfect score on the reading comprehension section on my ACT exam. Funny that! That was before college, to boot.

 

Wait..............since when did I say the rule didn't apply to me? Can you please point that out for me?


Should be easy since you just suggest that I believe it doesn't apply to me, there must be an example of me saying it doesn't.

Go ahead.........I'll wait.


No shit.

Of course it applies to me. And as I've stated (probably more times than I care to admit) I made a great deal of mistakes as young man. One of which (I've said before) was dating while my son was very young and the problems that came with it.

....and even with my past mistakes I believe what I believe.

....I believe I also stated that divorce is wrong, being a divorced man and see that consequences of my actions. But being divorced does that mean I'm supposed to be in support of it?

....that seems a bit silly.























man....and here you thought you were throwing something in my face. DAMNIT!

 

And you think my reading comprehension is questionable?

Here you go.

You were a single parent, rather obviously you dated, therefore you did not follow the rule you are advocating should be followed by all single parents.

You didn't quantify other than to say 'single parents shouldn't date', therefore you fall outside your own suggestion. It's okay if you don't get it, pretty sure everyone else does.

 

Espy

Your proverbial "that's a double standard" line (ala, the need to be pointed out) has been getting a lot of lay in the forum the last few days. Who'd have thought, lol.

 

LOL...from thread to thread I'm finding that out.

I believe it is wrong for single parents to date.......and that included me.

How clear is that?