What qualities would you like to change about yourself?

Also what qualities would you like to work on or gain?

I wish I could limit my level of being understanding. Being understanding sounds like a great quality, but it does have a bad side to it.

I would love to change my procrastinator like attitude, I could really get alot more shit done if I didnt put things on hold until the last minute.


I would like to work on my confidence, I mean Im confident, but sometimes when life hits and my cage gets rattled my confidence takes a hit too.

I would also like to work on my level of patience.

 

1. Cussing

2. Being manipulative (got it from J.R. Ewing)

3. My temper

4. Looking down on others

 

I'm working on being more patient and less affected by the choices others make.

 

I'm good with myself as is. I figured out a long time ago that the qualities that I'd typically think to be my least attractive, are the ones that have come in the most handy when the bad shit happens. So I'd just leave myself as is, the good and the bad work together most of the time and balance out my life nicely. That's not to say I don't have flaws, I do and I see them clearly, but I just see them as necessary and even useful.

 

I give a great deal, which I don't think is that big of a problem, but I expect a great deal in return....which is.

I also have a horrible temper, not a quick one... just a bad one.

I also need to think before I speak, get a handle on this brain-mouth-filter. I really don't think those are qualities.

All in all, I enjoy me.

 

good introspective thread and very mature you see yourself in an objective light.

for me Im perfect. Im willing to help yall though to be like me. LOL

Im with you on the confidence thing. I learned to when times get bad try your best remember to breathe deep and do the following:

make a goal, set a plan and measure the pros and cons and research thoroughly.

I want to be more discerning who I allow to come into my life.

 

I feel you completely on this, I dont get mad easily, but when I do its on and crackin.

 

I join you on those

 

:smt023

 

Im gonna think more and come up with more.

Great thread

 

I feel like I talk alot of shit... Its jokes, but still jokes can unintentionally hurt someone you care about.

 

Oh yeah this is a big one for me, too. I do get things done, and I get them done fairly well but I stress myself out so much with last minute pressure. I really need to get out of this habit!

I'm also extremely sensitive. I'm tough and can cope and have coped with a lot of crap but the opposite of 'what doesn't kill you makes you stronger' has happened in my case, hah. I take things very personally and to heart, which is a quality that doesn't help me in the slightest, and I'd love to change.

I'm also incredibly stubborn. And sarcastic. Apparently I'm a huge pain in the arse to argue with.

 

I'm too much of an asshole.

I love to talk major shit.

I have horrible time management.

I curse too much.

My Body language and facial expression is too negative.

I gotta change that shit.

 

I'm way too nice.

 

There's a whole lot I need to work on.

 

I can't stay with the positive thinking. I'm good for a few days and then I revert back to negative thinking until I catch myself.

I need to find a way to make money writing so that I can quit my boring job and do what I love.

I procrastinated with going back to school and I intend to change that.

That's all for now. artyman:

 

I would like to be fearless, empathetic and slow to anger/quick to forgive.

Same

 

all the bolded bits for me as well.

i'd love to develop more of a self love...there are days where i just hate myself and nothing i do is ever good enough

 

Kushy ol' ima have a discussion with whiks then make a thread out of it looking' ass