Physical connection vs Intellectual connection.

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by Kushton Slater, Nov 10, 2010.

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  1. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I know they are, baby. I know you still love me. :smt003
     
    Tamstrong, Nov 13, 2010
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  2. z

    z Well-Known Member

    Prefer a woman as dumb as a bag of nails.
     
    z, Nov 13, 2010
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  3. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    What happened the rocks? Needed something dumber?
     
    Inner Beauty, Nov 13, 2010
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  4. z

    z Well-Known Member

    whichever one is the dumber will do or dumbest.
     
    z, Nov 13, 2010
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  5. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Gotcha! lol
     
    Inner Beauty, Nov 13, 2010
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  6. Raul Sinclair

    Raul Sinclair New Member

    Both are important for me to fall for a person. Physical attraction gets a women in the door with me. Intellectual keeps you there.
     
    Raul Sinclair, Nov 14, 2010
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  7. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    You're very much welcome, sweetheart. :)
     
    Morning Star, Nov 14, 2010
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  8. Othello1967

    Othello1967 Active Member

    Physical attraction gets my attention. What keeps me is intelligence, maturity, and humor.
     
    Othello1967, Dec 5, 2010
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  9. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    physical yes but i love intellectual more
     
    tuckerreed, Dec 13, 2010
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  10. Athena

    Athena New Member

    Exactly.
     
    Athena, Dec 13, 2010
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  11. jnick57in

    jnick57in Member

    Physical starts the conversation....

    I personally think the physical thing is a big draw; might even get you to 1st or 2nd base. But, there has to be some intellect to keep things going.
     
    jnick57in, Dec 19, 2010
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  12. naija4real

    naija4real New Member

    looks are a delight,but the intellect makes that delight endure. There are many aspects to look, the intellect I think rationalizes and weighs both on which one is more desirable when you meet someone.
     
    naija4real, Dec 22, 2010
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  13. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Physical connection draws you in, Intellectual connection makes you stay.
     
    FG, Dec 23, 2010
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  14. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    Rep added.:smt045:smt023
     
    Tony Soprano, Dec 24, 2010
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  15. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Great to hear that, this is why I often stress liking a woman that I can learn new things from and vice versa. Constantly feeding off of each other intellectually.
     
    GQ Brotha, Dec 27, 2010
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  16. z

    z Well-Known Member

    What draws me-uneducated, quiet, trailer trash, with a tat pointing down at the crack of her butt and a booty as big as Coco. Fuck that intellectual stimulation bullshit, I just want to hit and quit it.
     
    z, Dec 27, 2010
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  17. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    A lot of both, a little of neither.
     
    jaisee, Dec 27, 2010
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  18. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    IMO, a relationship can't be built on a strictly physical connection & I don't get sexually involved with a man outside of a relationship. To me starting a relationship with someone based on the physical is a mistake...I speak from personal experience on this from my young & stupid days.

    It's important to have a connection on both levels, but when you connect intellectually, it gives the relationship substance. There's only so much physically connecting you can do; it gets old & boring...no matter how good the physical connection is in the beginning. I don't want to be with someone who bores me, can't carry on an actual conversation &, as you said, it's good to connect with someone you can learn from & vice versa.

    I don't care how hot & fine a man is; if he's stupid or lacks common sense, it turns me off.
     
    Tamstrong, Dec 27, 2010
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  19. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    How about the money connection???

    $$$
     
    LA, Dec 28, 2010
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  20. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    why...??? how much are you...???
     
    wtarshi, Dec 28, 2010
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