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Welcome. artyman:

 

You get that much love from us, bro!

Once again..welcome to the site!

 

Thanks everyone :smt049:smt005

This will be the hardest decision I will ever make in my life, but I am ready for the journey. I have nothing to lose, more to gain, and I am fearless. Only one life to live and I might as well live it up. I made it a personal mission to become a globe trekker and to explore the world. There is more out there than America. I have always been interested in other cultures and backgrounds. It is fantastic that someone made this website/forum for interracial dating. I have always been an advocate of IR couples and always will be. I am glad to share this love for white women with everyone on here. Happy Thanksgiving to all of you and I hope we can all be friends!

 

NICE!!! Happy Thanksgiving to you to man!!!

 

Hey Phoenix,

I've just realised you look a little bit like Tupac from an angle, lol. Anyway, one more time I'll say welcome and good luck when you go travelling. I plan to do the same some day.

 

As a Swedish woman I take offence to you liking Danish women!
JK JK
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Welcome!!!

 

Hello.

 

Danish, Swedish, I don't care what you are, I love my white chocolate!:heart::heart:

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The 2Pac thing has been going on since 2001 when I grew out my mustache, goatee, and shaved my head. Tust me, I get a lot of attention from women. They rub on my head like it is a crystal ball and I love it.

 

Danish women have magical fucking powers and their va-jay-jays even taste like danish, or so I've heard.

 

would that be cheese danish, prune danish or some other variation?

 

Damn, I was wondering who he reminds me of but I couldnt put my finger on it. Thanks now I know LOL

 

Ha!

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Hey Sosa, welcome handsome~

 

Well pheonix i'm glad that you are ready to move beyond the USA.

i will actually do the same thing one day.

please stay in touch with us because when its my turn to move on i need to direct myself at the right country too.

Denmark and/or Germany. Please take pics and post em!

I too have the goal of setting myself up in another country. i challenge you to become bilingual if not multilingual. it will increase your mobility around people (men, women and children).

but in reading your initial post, i get a feeling of angst towards other races of women and a LOVE of white women.

i do understand where you are coming from. i really do. But don't limit yourself is all i'm saying.

Don't say "white is right and black is whack!"

say to yourself "This is a new beginning for me"

Infact in the miss universe beauty peagant had a mixed race black girl as Ms. Denmark a few yrs ago.

the old saying

"being judged not by the color of your skin but by the content of your character"

me personally, i'm fed up with a great many things in the USA and in black culture and i have the solution to my problem.

Don't get me wrong. this is a country full of opportunity and prosperity, and that does matter. However, because of the history of this country there will always be very complex issues/problems within the black race in the USA and prejudice towards black people - especially black men in the end.

Sure times are alot better now. We have a black president, we have people of color in high places doing great things in different industries etc.,. But at the end of the day USA is a white mans world. And that won't ever change any time soon.

The filmmaker Tyler Perry is making lots of $$$ making lots of "black men aint $%^& movies" and believe it or not these films are very popular. i'm not a Tyler Perry hater. At the end of the day he is just trying to make an honest buck and educate - entertain. He has made some content that is uplifting.

i liked "why did i get married" i dislike the sequel.

But again the history of the USA explains all of the complexities / issues of black americans. And when we take it down to family and relationships it gets even worse and even more dysfunctional.

Me personally i grew up in an environment where i was indirectly taught to hate myself and my looks as a little boy. I grew up in a very socially competitive black environment. I'm 28 yrs old now, and when i see my photos from 16 yrs ago and my child photos, i now see that i was a beautiful child and a great looking kid (yes i did age badly between 13-18 yrs old), but i have had a negative self-image for a very LONG time. and it wasn't until 7 yrs ago that i saw how wrong i was to have low self-esteem.
but it was the environment.

Growing up, it was always two extremes people around me. black people who are black SNOBS (bryant gumbel types) or people who are immature and unhappy with where they are at in their lives or to put it simply they are real ghetto!!.

I watched men and women and girls and little boys compete with each other very aggresively on all levels instead of loving one another.

the friendship game, the family game and ultimately the dating game was so very competitive that i believed that i was never smart enough, handsome enough, or talented enough to have girlfriends and/or just friends. And i wasn't according to the social atmosphere I was in. So everything from color complextion to your actual class (rich-middle-class or poor) was always a issue.

And my parents had a nasty divorce and my mother has been married 3 times too.

Home, School and Church was a battle ground emotionally. Yes i do believe that men are pigs and we are pigs. Misogyny and pigish-ness is something that black men are world famous for and will always be

but my situation is a living example of the fact that women have alot of game too, if not more game then men do. In my world the WOMAN is the pig.

i used to be pro black and i had the attitude that i would always be that way too. I will even admit that i was very racist at 10 yrs old. But it had alot to do with the environment but fortunately it was a very brief phase in my life.

All of this hostility and aggression poisoned my mind and almost destroyed me from the inside out. It was then that i discovered reruns of family television programs from the 1980s and self-help information and i felt amazed at what i had missed out on.

i used to cry alot because of this.

i would later discover foreign movies and french cinema too. France really does do the best romance films. But all i'm saying is i have a strong desire to recreate my world so that there is more love and sweetness and respect in it.

And i have to say that black american women and really american women in general are all something that i'm no longer interested in.

So from that perspective, i more than likely see my self with a foreign woman who will most likely be white. but i don't prefer white skin to brown skin. Its not about color with me. Its about character and how that woman was brought up.

i'll give your 2 good examples.

1. A former black friend of mine married a woman from Cameroon (west africa). She was raised up in France however. They had 2 kids together and moved back to the USA. But after seeing how much power american women have and being around black american culture she really changed very quickly and now she is self-ish, greedy and is basically a terrible mother. i saw this for myself. And everyone in the family is suffering.

All of the lovely qualities my friend fell in love with when he met her in France are all gone now. She's basically an angry bitch now who is a an angry feminist. He blames himself because he admiited to himself and me that she is just very confused but they are all suffering and so are the two little boys.

2.A former co-worker from irelend i knew had broken up with his american girl friend. And according to him, she broke away from him because she felt that he was boring and dull, but mainly that a man going out with her has to be making atleast $60,000 dollars a year.

So the combo of issues within the black race, materialism in the USA and prejudice toward black men have given me the same type of desire to leave the USA and find happiness elsewhere. And i have heard some great things from other brothas who left and are happy!

So Before you leave Pheonix

i suggest your look at these 3 films and remember what you are leaving behind and make it a priority to be happy!

(Jungle Fever) by Spike Lee

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZ64smS4Lyk

(Diary of A Tied Black Man) by Tim Alaxander

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jdxOLRVvIJY

(Not Easily Broken) by Bill Duke

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=enGPKeZ3Od4

 

None of this is racial. I like all women. White, black, blue, purple, etc. I just click with white women the most. I never faced racism in America. I was never called the "N" word or anything. I have had a normal life, but it is time to move on. I just want to explore the world. There are over 200 countries on Earth and I don't see myself living in America in longer. Don't get me started on Tyler Perry...That's another topic on its own.

I will definitely post videos and pictures and keep in contact with all of you . I understand your frustration. I had problems with black women my whole life, but I got rid of that grudge. I used to hate black women for ridiculing me in school, but once I got out of high school, I began to meet black women that didn't fit the typical stereotype. All women have two breasts and a vagina so I get hard when I look at Jennifer Lopez and I get hard when I look at Lucy Liu.

I always get heat for this, but I never experienced racism like other blacks have and they say I am lying. I am not lying. I lived a normal life. We all get made fun of and all, but my life was normal. Good luck with everything, BHayes.

 

Welcome to this site Phoenix Sosa. After your move to either Denmark or Germany take some photos. It has been a year since I last been to Denmark and it is a wonderful place.

 

And to Phoenix Sosa; welcome to the site.:smt023

 

PS,you may encounter those Swedes from Malmo. Geek,if he moves to Copenhagen those Swedes may party with him.

 

Bring it on! I am also very interested in Sweden. I am still shocked about Sweden and Australia, I heard on here too. Sweden may be my third eye.

 

Shocked about what?