I have a question..

All right, guys. I want to ask a question..please answer me honestly, ok?

Earlier today, I went out to see my female friend, she's white, for your information, and she have boyfriend as well. Anyway, her name is Tori. She's very, very pretty.

She was so damn happy to see me. We sat down and having a heartfelt conversation. Bloody hell..for so long..I want to know...here's our conversation.

Tori: (Smiles) How are you today?

Me: Doing good. Very tired. Got my message?

Tori: (Nods happily) I did! I messaged you back!!

Me: (Confused) When?

Tori: Umm...2 days ago? I don't get on much anymore.

Me: Oh. Is it because of job, eh? Oh, please excuse my beard. I look homeless guy. Um, water?

Tori: (Laughing) You don't look homeless, you look just fine, darling! Are you hungry?

Me: Not really, my dear. Uh, I sleep too much. Bloody hell.

Tori: (Laughing) Why did you sleep so much?

Me: I don't know why.

Tori: Are you still tired?

Me: Yeah. Been up all night.

Tori: Why?

Me: I don't know.

Now, that's it. But look at bold one. That caught me off guard that she called me darling. Is that appropriate or not? Not all my female friends did ever called me darling that way..I can't read her mind, but I'm very curious..mind you help to answer my question? So I can paint the clear picture!

 

Did she try to have body contact? Like touching your arm or sholder or something else?

 

Well, not really. But she smiles a lot when I appeared on the scene. She was at working. I just happened to show up. I came to see her.

 

It could be something or it could be nothing. But I do know that a lot of us females call a man we're diggin' little pet names like darling or sweetheart/"sweetie".. Maybe I'm wrong? She could also have just being nice cause she cares about you? But I do know I only call my ole man Darling. Maybe you should look into it with her a little more, just ask her like it's no a big deal.

Hope I helped

 

Ehh...of course, she was being friendly. It's just that..sounds like I'm her boyfriend somehow...but you could be right about that, about being friendly. To some, some female gets mad when I call them darling nor honey nor babe. Maybe it has to do with me...ugh..I can't paint the clear picture out of this.

Just like Shari did that.

 

Yeah, it does helped a lot. Thanks. Strangely enough, I got lots of white female friends thus far after I moved down here in North Carolina, rather than ones in New Jersey.

I ended up got about five female friends, some male friends as well. Am I handsome or what?? I'm not that special, you know! LOL.

 

You just might be handsome lol. And you are special! Don't ever let anyone tell you any different. But like I said if you're real into her look into it. But then again if you're not that into her don't make anything of it ya know?

Either way you sound like you're doing good.

 

It means nothing! Plenty of women use darling with a lot of people or even strangers. Even if she meant something(which I highly doubt), she has a b/f. You'd be breaking something up between her and him.

The thing that I notice is that some women do not know how to act with men meaning they will do things that are usually associated with flirting(toss of the hair, use of terms of endearment, etc.) as just usual for them.

I am totally going to get it from some of the women in here. lol
:wink:

 

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No you're right some women don't notice that they're flirting. I see females do it all the time and that's why they can't figure out why the guy is all over them or still trying to get with them. ha

 

Hi.

It is very common for Non-American girls to use such words.

Possibly you need to let down your guard a bit. There is no hidden agenda using the world "Darling."

It is more of a compliment than a form of patronising.

Cheers!

 

Blimey...

 

You often address us women around here with, "My dear". Should we look at you as being in appropriate by calling us that? NO. We don't think anything of it and the same should go for what your friend said.

 

Oh, ok. You got a excellent point.

 

There is not the slightest doubt in my mind that she wants to fuck you.

Act before it's too late.