What do you bring to the table?

Thank you....

WOW...LOL!

 

Thanx Chica...

It's no longer confusing when I post now...lol

 

She's letting everyone know what she's bringing to table!

 

spectacular avi IB!!!!

 

LMAO!

What happened to the bottle of Manischewitz and collard greens?

Thank you!

 

If we are lucky, maybe one she put them on the table & take a picture for oohs thread.

 

Lol I dont even understand how someone could confuse our avatars with each other lol.

 

I know, right? lol

Put me on the table? lol

Like I said, they weren't even the same, but somehow it was confusing...lol

 

Im kinda glad they were confusing... (looks at her current avi)... yep im glad :smt077

 

LOL!

 

Damn apple auto correct

Edit:
If we're lucky, maybe one of these days she'll put them on the table & take a picture of them for oobs thread.

 

I guess that it really depends on how you define unconditional love.

Unconditional is for me without any conditions. What means that I love that person without any expectations. I could never understand that people stop loving the other one, just because of maybe cheating or lying or whatever. Everybody has his own reasons and life experience, why he reacts like this and sometimes the second part of the relationship has to take her own responsibility, too.
Two people pave their own street, how it looks is their own decision, curvy, straight, interrupted or with road holes.

I have to give my beloved person always the freedom and the chance to be happy, if he has problems it is my job to support, if he wants to be with someone else, I have to accept.
On the other hand, if I see that he is running into his misery, I have to stop him, even if that would blew our love. In that case I can only hope that he can understand me sometimes, why I did it and that he trust me, because he feels unconditional love, too.

 

Of course.

 

I bring to the table the following:

1) Good loving as the name states.
A) romance unlimited
i) convo that gets to know who you are so I can do it rite
ii) romantic get aways. vacation, trips ect
iii) Imagination.ie homemade dinner, candlelight and soft music

B) Bed rocking, opera singing , chinese face making, toe curling , just out right mind blowing sex. In the end you would just be outright all fucked out. You would running around the house screaming got damn it that dick stays erect. do you have to fuck me twice a day everyday. shit !!!!

2) Financial prudence
3)Family orientated mindset
A) be up on the kids about the education
i) helping with the homework
ii) pta meetings
B) watching the kids so momma can have a break or momma's nite out with the girls
c) float momma some dough to go get some clothes and/or her hair done just because she a good wife and she is handling business.
D) dads creed is in order for sacrifice: God first, family second, friends third , then country and Im last
E) loyalty and dedication

4) emotion, spiritual, support and defense for my family paralell to the U.S Army ( I will fuck some shit up in the defense of my woman and kids) always being probity.
5) always be inspired by my emotions but I never make decisions with it. Gone give the best advice and a honest but loving answer.
6) leadership qualities, respect to my woman and the people that are important to her.
7) I have the give-receive-appreciate-reciprecate formula for the successful relationship. Only mature women can handle that formula. Give take relationship is bullshit. because taking is the equalivant to stealing. receiving is being in the act of accepting a gift . the your appreciate that gift and then your reciprecate. only mature people can do that.

I bring to the table Just being a god-damn real man. I bring it every fucking day.

 

I bring one good tooth and decent amount of intelligence considering the years I spent depleting my brain cells.

Yay for the tooth though :smt038 really.

 

:drinkers:

 

I agree it's possible Christine, as you describe, however I feel very few people can be that objective with love. To love someone even when they hurt you, in whatever way, is difficult for some, maybe for most, people to achieve. I understand what you're saying, that you love them and for you that means understanding that they're human and are therefore likely to make mistakes along the way, and since you see that as a part of life you don't feel the need to penalize them when that happens. Again that's something I don't think a lot of people could pull off. It's too easy to see anything hurtful as an affront and unforgivable, it takes a really open and completely objective, logic based mindset to overcome that. I do think sometimes you gain that mindset with maturity, I know I'm not nearly the hot head I was when I was younger, or rather I am but I understand and control that now. I think the life you've lived has lead you to gain wisdom that many simply will never possess. I'm always impressed by your attitudes toward love and giving to others of yourself.

 

Thank you Espy. I was reading about your marriage on another place and it made me really sad. My marriage was ending painful, but the the 15 yrs I spent with my ex-husband were mainly full of happinness and love.

Also I was in situations, when I hated my lovie that, we were even beating each others. But there was a time, when I was thinking why we have different words for love, passion and sexual attraction. We like to mix them, all is one, if we talk about our partners.But it is not like that.

Today I can feel sexual attraction without love, love without passion (many in long term relationship know, what I am talking about)and passion without sexual attraction.

But sometimes I feel all together, mostly at the beginning of a relationship, but then after a certain time the passion or attraction, or maybe both leaves you and then? Is it over? I don't think so.

You should be honest, otherwise you start to hate your partner sooner or later, the beginning of a painful end.