I never knew White Women felt this way..

WTH???
this is weeeiiiirddd.....


It would advisable for noobs to pay attention before they start e-beef.

Tooonyyy, Tooonyyy!!!!!!

 

flyingeek i dont start "e-beefs" because they arent REAL beefs. Its all talk really. And what is this noob bullshit you keep going on about? What the fucking hell do you really think you got over me because you registered i 2009 and Tony registered in 2008? Real talk, what the fuck of it? What of it? I've been around since the gotdamn '80s actually so i dont think im a noob period. This is a IR site, the site may be 5 years old but the issues it discusses are 500 centuries old. How can one be a nob because they registered 3 days ago? Everything you all ramble on and on about his old news, you and "your boo" have been in the same situations as me and my ol' white gals so give me a break. real talk, extinguish that tired bullshit.

Get back on topic already. 8 years ago i might be all game for feuding with internet warriors are arguing over seniority on a fucking WEBSITE but i am older now and i have graduated from the bullshit. BRING THIS THREAD BACK TO RELEVANCE. THANK YOU KID..

 

I think I can speak for IR dating cause I've been dating BM exclusively since I'm 15. I also don't defend bullshit. You obviously have me pegged all wrong and looks like I have done the same with you. I'm not going to sit here and write a long ass dissertation again. I did that already and I'm not in the mood to do it again. You have your views, I have mine. So I'll just leave it at that.

 

the point of the matter is your views are equal to mine because we see the same things and have done the same thing. The difference between you and me is I don't feel the need to do PR for Black men. The criticism makes me smirk, at this point most of us have the capabilities to just feed into the hate and either brush it off or revel in it.. Your too concerned with a bad image of WW and when you get too concerned about others thinking your not doing right you wind up doing wrong or being misinterpreted by those who weren't your enemies to begin with..

 

We got another butt hurt green monster under the bridge trying measure his dick sized ego, which is small. Keep this "I'm the guru of intelligence" for someone who cares, which might be under the bridge of another forum. At the very least you are long-winded.:smt014:smt021:toimonster:

 

I hear the sounds of ignore being clicked right about now lol

 

wow 3 cheers for the cowards. maybe thats the reason why you guys get picked on so much and not ur choice to date inter racially... uh yea pwn3d fucking clowns..

Unless you have the balls or the brains to respond to the thread topic or anything remotely related run along kids. i dont fight with anything but my hands so dont bother trying to spar after this right here, im over it..

 

Like I said in my earlier post which you disagreed with me about, because WW tend to be put on a pedestal and the European standard tends to reign supreme, I don't think this is fair to anyone or to other women. Because of this position, WW also tend to get bashed cause it's like we deserve it or some shit. I'm not talking about the ones who cash in on the perks of White privilege. We have bitter women who say all kinds of unwarranted shit about us. So with that said, I defend those who don't fit the stereotypes. I also defend other people and issues. I'm not an activist, but I'm compassionate about certain things and if an issue arises, I'll discuss it.

I march to my own drum and beat, so if someone is misinterpreting me for the wrong reasons, then they're doing just that. I can't be doing something wrong if I'm doing something right.

 

Wow, that was an odd response.

I was obviously referring to being a newbie to the board.

What I meant is, before you accuse someone of something - its better to actually learn something about the board dynamics and poster interactions so that you know that what you say is true.. Had you done that, you would know that what you accuse Tony of simply isn't true.

That is always a wise choice as it saves one from putting one self in a bad light.

 

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i know you were referring to the board, my point was theres no rank to pull and this isnt the military or a sorority, seniority means nothing. Your not smarter or more credible then me because you joined a year ago or because your well known. Neither is he. Board dynamics and poster interactions? I've come to debate the issues and discuss topics, i dont need to know who is chummy and i don't have to be apart of some family like social bond here..

I can't even remember what I said to Tony or accused him of to be honest. I don't see what I accused him of, I just see him calling on Gen. Powell to embarrass me.
The below quotes are what set me off.

a troll or a dude? I don't know if she is a he or a problem causer, but what of it? She ashed a legit question,I can swear to meeting white gals like that, and if her question caused conflict on the boards it would be on y'all not her.. She cant make a hater hate, they was already hatin before her!

So what if she does? What if it comes up with nothing? Oh out of sight out of mind? If a poster on this site aint said it its isolated or never happens? And thn after all this "uh uh nah I respect da sistas" then you pull the troll card on that poster.

See I think tats fucked up because in society you got people judging you daily and cutting your ass off when you try to educate them. Then here you hear something that makes you uncomfortable or she touches on a touchy topic and you just hit the kill switch on the discuss and rfuse to listen. Thats bullshit to me.

I dont mean to say anything negative about you or to give put downs thats just what got me revved up.

 

i think that the last quote was out of my mouth. i've only been here for a year and a bit, and within that year and a bit i've seen a pattern, and the poster started off with the usual beginning of that pattern & that is why we automatically went the defensive.

 

I think what she meant by noob, is that you being NEW to the board dynamics...not being new to the entire internet as whole.

...ya seem like s mart brutha I think you got that meaning as well. As far as you not starting e-beef, sorry play boy I don't believe it. You are far too much fire over something so small and silly. I'm sort of an outsider myself, a "noob"

me......I admit it, I do so love an e-beef, but I have no dog in this fight so I'm just sitting and watching.

 

LOL...prob should have read this before I made my comment.

 

Right I understand you completely. But I feel like you saying you "saw a pattern" is kinda like racial profiling ironically. You can profile based on certain variables but eventually in order for your actions to be of merit you gotta prove just cause..

Heres something else bothering me, I have three or so topics I want to start:
Are you going to miss your race's characteristics when you have a biracial child?

Do you feel like some White women use Black men at a last resort?

What do you think of larger White women with Black men?

Those are three topics that interest me greatly. Based on your logic of patterns I am going to face immediate problems asking them. Topic one will lead to allegations that i am an agent from racist site.***. Topic two will be viewed by some as me trying to get some Black men back on board for anti-miscegenation. The third question is going to be attacked by ALL TYPES of White women as an attempt to undermine their goals. Its going to be said that I am espousing stereotypes and cliches and will receive unjustified amounts of negative attention and universal condemnation.

I am going to be said to "fit a pattern", I am then going to be called a troll. This is all going to be compounded by the fact that I am new and all my posts have been on touchy and divisive topics. How you gonna kill the debate just because the topic will pump certain individuals up and lead to conflict(s).. The thread that brought me here was what Google gave me when i tried to find info about black guys who had been called the n word by their girlfriends.. I have been hesitant to respond for 2 reasons.

1. Its another controversial topic that I the new guy has chosen to weigh in on.
2. Its 3 years old so there is going to be an uproar over me bumping it the thread making a reappearance at all is going to lead to the troll allegations.

So we have a bump being taken out of context and we have a set up for the troll/flamer card, then we have grounds to invalidate even legitimate inquiries.

I went off about the n00b bs and seniority because I don't want to spend a year here talking on safe topics (like the sideburns thread) just so everyone can get used to me well enough to be able to ask divisive questions and not be called a troll. I joined for he LONG haul.. I don't want to be here that long not saying whats on my mind because I have questions right here and now I want to ask. Its not fair they are attacked because I am a member that signed up 3 days ago. I'm not here to cause a ruckus and i don't even want to here any of this "your probably some duplicate poster or banned member" nonsense.

Can we fucking do better then that? We got real world issues on the table and we are discussing them with internet standards of dialogue. I think that is a damn shame. I am sorry if I was again long winded Tarshi and YMRA.

Yeah I do like beefs from time to time and to see drama, but when I am not trying to cause it or intend to have it, then I'm just not game.

Tony came in w/ wise cracks, the thread was already off topic, my intent was to go off on him to stop a flame war in its early stages. I wanted to get back on topic, avoid sparring, and quash the beef with him early on to avoid others from jumping on the band wagon. I tried to use quick & overwhelming force to end the flaming & get the thread back on course, didn't work..

The second cause of my "fire" was because i feel like online discussions always turn to card games when something said goes against the grain. The troll card, spam card, the race card, etc.
I knew that when one of the girls said "she/he/it is going through thread by thread to find said evidence....meet back here in a year?" that the discussion was going to veer off course...

The white girls in this thread did not meet the OP's criteria. They did not hate BW and did not know of or had any stories about WW hating BW. With that right there, I knew the only things they could really do would be to attack Juicee & to allude to her being a troll. I was interested in the OP's question and I thought the topic was legit.. INSTEAD, the OP's intent was made suspect then through some WACKY internet logic/internet social procedure, the whole topic was made null & void.

That there got me heated and I felt it was unfair.. I really wanted to hear what people had to say about this interesting topic. I hope that explains my "fire" to those who were wondering..


P.S. I think this is a good site and serves a good purpose. We all have common ground and that helps a lot. We share common enemies and that also helps.

Just because society tries to break you all up does not mean anything that can (or even usually does) lead to heated disagreements between man & woman or black & white should not be allowed to be spoken of here..
You cant take disagreements out of our interactions because we are humans... So solidarity at what cost on this forum?

How can a taboo group have its on inner taboo subjects i ask? WE CAN ALL HANDLE THIS THREAD.. If you can not, you & the haters are now on par..

I hope this this posting helped you all to better understand me and where I am coming from.

I will leave you all w/ two quotes
"Escapism is merely a branch on the tree of denial" - me
"I may not agree with what you say but I shall defend to the death your right to say it" S. G. Tallentyre

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I'm not going to address the rest of your post, but I will say this.

Please, please, please do NOT start yet another thread on this topic. This forum has about 50 threads already dedicated to this topic. If you really feel the need to talk about it then do a search and find a thread that's already been made and comment in that.

Thanks.

 

There must be some validity to the question if its being brought up practically every week.
Just saying...

 

Right, again that is where the noob comment came from. Maybe its part of your master plan. Jump in with both feet and start moon walking in the break dance contest...I don't know.

...but I don't think its too much to ask to get a feel for how this particular small group dynamic works. LOL....I was attacked when I first got here as well, but I squashed that shit a bit more eloquent than you.

I used a sniper rifle, and you used a shotgun.