Hey members. What qualities are you looking for in a man/woman? And this time I dont want to hear about "BIG BOOBS" or "TATTOOS" or "MUSCLES". Im talking about stuff like honesty,sense of humor and other values. So this thread is not about who you would like to f**k, its about the type of person that could be your soulmate :smt049
Aside from big boobs, tats n' shit..... The usual shit, honesty, sense of humor, has their shit together or at least is on their way to getting their shit together, kinda nerdy, and some other shit. It would be a major plus if I could talk actual music with them. And not an excessive partier n' shit.
No, Im not afraid of the word FUCK but this is what this thread was not supposed to be about. If you want to talk about pussy eating and dick sucking techniques, this is NOT your thread......
We have seen this type of thread before, but my answers frequently change lol. This person could be my mate: intelligent honest & real psychologically stable and healthy young in spirit - willing to try new activities, willing to experiment with life enjoys the finer things in life such as classical music, museums, books, and sushi (tee hee) but also likes to get down and dirty with some soca, latin, hip hop, reggae, etc. music when the occasion presents itself must enjoy participating in at least one sport - not just watching it on tv loves the water or at least will enjoy it somewhat ideally he'll be a diver, but that's not a requisite not living with mom and working a job he hates or if he is living with mom, he's in school and advancing his life not stagnating enjoys many nights at home together but also likes to go dancing or to a pub now and then aware of the world in which he lives, not living with blinders on **edit** he must also love animals - not in the weird illegal way
I'm not taking about "fuck" in the verb sense, but the word itself. Why would I want to talk about pussy eating and dick sucking when I didn't bring either of them up in the first place?
Now thats the kind of stuff I wanna hear. I just joined this forum not long ago and I couldnt find a thread like this. Thanks for giving some real answers. Sounds a lot like my own "blueprint" LOL
Wow, so no MAN got something to say abouth this? Is it because I didnt post a pic of my DD? Is this really the only way to get a response from any of you guys??? That cant be true
Honesty is the key for me. She does not have to be the most funny or the most beautiful or the most popular. As long as she never hides anything from me then we will get along just fine.
For me she has to be an honest woman with femininity, confidence and class. I do not have strict body type preferences. There has to be a mutual attraction between us, not just physical but shared values. I love a woman that can laugh...wait a minute, this is starting to sound like a personals ad, LOL! What are you up to Unique? Anyway until I get to know a woman and she reveals aspects of her personality, views and interests, initial attraction matters. If a woman shows me she is open to me early on than she becomes much more attractive to me.
- Intelligent - Understanding - Down-to-earth/cool - Respectful - Honest - Well-rounded/cultured - Has a sense of humor - Someone who I find physically attractive
I like a man with a little bit of edge to him. He's confident in his manhood, he's real & he knows how to respect & treat a woman. He needs to be intelligent (this doesn't necessarily require a college degree) & have common sense. A smart man is a sexy man! A sense of humor (twisted is preferred because I've got a twisted sense of humor myself); I love a fun & crazy (not as in mental) man. I love a man I can laugh with. I like a man that knows how to take charge & makes me feel protected. I like 'em firm but gentle. A man who doesn't act like he's got something to prove, because he doesn't need to. I also like a man who lets me be me & values what I have to offer. One who isn't threatened by & who can handle a grown woman. He's gotta be hard-working & dependable. I'm not about a man's money & I don't want him to be about mine either. We should be working hard together. Sexually he needs to be open to anything (except for anything outside of the relationship-just us two), because I need a man with an imagination. In the bedroom-or wherever- I also like a man who's willing to take turns being the boss ('cause I'm bossy & demanding as hell). It's also good if he likes the same music, movies, sports, etc. It's a plus if he likes to read & enjoys poetry. I'd like a man to be a Christian. I need someone who respects my values & standards & takes my wants/needs into consideration. He should show me he loves me & that I'm important to him. I should be a priority to him like he is to me. I like a man who's affectionate, tender, loving & compassionate. What I don't like: I don't want a man who wants me to be his mama. I don't want one that treats me like he owns me; I can't stand a jealous man. Laziness. Excuses. Selfishness
Physical and Mental... Sorry for sounding like a robot, but my nerves suffered a great deal today and my mind simply isn't able to grow, but I'll simplify everything with the best of my ability. It all depends on the individual when it comes to physical appearance. However, some common traits for what I look for in a woman would be the following: 1. Cultured - One cannot stimulate my mind if they're lackadaisical or simply unaware of other cultures and have no understanding. 2. Independence - Capable of standing on her own and not allow herself to fall into extreme clinging and emotional distress. Moreover, she can take care of her business without the need of a mate. 3. Liberal-minded - To be honest, it's hard to say that one who is a staunch conservative is intelligent. To me, it's an oxymoron. Someone with progressive views are a must. Although I don't mind the challenge of someone with an opposing view.
He has to love kids, in the very least, if he isn't a father already. He has to treat me well and he most definitely has to treat my daughter well (if he makes it that far). I've said this before and I'll say it again, I will NOT compromise my daughter's physical/mental/emotional/spiritual well-being for any man. I don't care how great he is in the sack, I don't care how great he treats me, if he can't be a proper father figure to her (since she will be spending the majority of her time in his presence), he's going to get kicked to the curb so fast he won't know what hit him. He has to be ambitious, but not so ambitious that he loses sight of our relationship and partnership. He has to be honest, caring, compassionate, nice, fun to be around, down-to-earth. He has to be intelligent. He has to want to learn new things. He has to be able to carry on and want to carry on intelligent conversations. I want a man who can challenge my mind and challenge my way of thinking. A wide variety of interests is ideal. He has to be mature and know how to fight fair and have the ability to forgive and forget. I will not be with a man who will hold a grudge against me for every little thing that I have done. And I would hope he would expect the same of me. I would really love it if he were interested in movies, as they are a large part of my life and I am working towards making a name for myself in the business. So, someone who can support and understand that aspect of my life is ideal. He has to be supportive and understanding. I think that's about it for now. LOL.
I knew u wouldnt disappoint me Tam. We think so much alike! Incredible. Love your answer! Did you ever find someone who came close? Hope you find what you are looking for. :smt052
pretty feet? Okaaaayyy. so she can be the most beautiful, smart, witty, caring person in the world but if she got ugly feet shes out? LOL Reminds me of the movie Bommerang with Eddie Murphy.
