I never knew White Women felt this way..

Discussion in 'Dealing with Prejudice' started by juicee, Oct 29, 2010.

  1. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    If I could rep you again I would. Espy always speaking that realness.... Sounds like a campaign slogan, Espy for President 2012.
     
  2. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Oy vey....
     
  3. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Well, it is becoming a little like Chinese water torture......
     
  4. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    LOL!
     
  5. botoan

    botoan Active Member

    I would rep you if I could.

    I feel very desired here in KY and many WW lately are becoming increasingly bold in letting me know they are attracted to me.
     
    Last edited: Oct 30, 2010
  6. botoan

    botoan Active Member

    Thank you Espy, we love you good woman!
     
  7. botoan

    botoan Active Member

    Hey, Andre good food for thought, Bro. I am sure you have seen this before maybe it was posted on here a long time ago.

    How Your Race Affects The Messages You Get

    http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/
     
  8. juicee

    juicee New Member

    Well, I am not going to say that I came on the thread on the wrong foot because clearly I did, but I saw some topics on here that welcomed women of other races, I just thought that maybe most guys on here date a variety of women not just white, but then again you are right as well.
     
  9. juicee

    juicee New Member

  10. juicee

    juicee New Member

    Again I am very sorry, what I said was very wrong and it was not fair, I guess I had a chip on my shoulder coming in so I was right for the backlash. I never said I was a perfect person, but one of my strengths as an individual is admitting my mistakes no matter the consequence, so for those of you who didn't think I said it clearly enough here goes:

    "I apologize for making a vicious attack on the white females of this forum, it was disrespectful and to those I have seriously offended, I am very sorry ladies."
     
  11. Yonda08

    Yonda08 New Member

    Ok! somebody set the tables now, we gonna celebrate the white smoke appearance.
     
  12. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Next time, poke around the forum a bit and read the different threads before you jump to conclusions. :smt023
     
  13. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    AMEN!

    We asked her to prove her allegations, yet she refused. SMH
     
  14. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Now this I can ride with.

    Come on........relax, kick ya feet up. I'll let you buy me the first round. yes, I'd like a Bee Sting please

    1 - part wild turkey
    1 - party wild turkey American honey
    (2) Ice cubes
     
  15. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    Man Wild Turkey 101 aint no joke.
     
  16. One to Remember

    One to Remember Restricted

    i believe there are several main variations of white woman trying to be with black men. Those who are "down" or have been immersed earlier in life or for substantial amounts, those who are simply sexually attracted to Black men, those who are attracted to whatever meets criteria be they Zulu, Romanian or Eskimo, those who are own the fence about their views on race, those trying to be PC, those hard headed gals trying to seek thugs, and a few others. Whih in those variations you have several broad mentalities, one in which the white woman is feeling power and unchecked due to having her pick of the litter, those who suck up and spew endless praise to Black women and Black people, those who share racialized beliefs (similar to the younger Strom Thurman or debatably Thomas Jefferson) but still have dealings, those who are completely neutral in the most classic sense and then the most controversial of all, trhe one who hates Black women. I have a friend who has a White girl that can't stand Black women. Its not always clear if its outright bigotry or complete fear but she has a negative perception. I have delt with girls i think our suck ups (or offs.) and i have dealt with several girls who were a bit uh "too rural" in their dealings with BM at certain moments. I have gotten them all mad, but only 3 have called me a nigger. One tried to pin an imaginary baby on me and then threatened to lynch me and accused me of being on welfare and then after this had the audacity to go over to my friend who i mentioned earliar, one called me the n word, refused to apologize after hostilities had cooled down saying she does what she wants, claimed to not be a racist and is now pregnant by an esse.. the third called me a nigger in front of her friends and said shed make me pic cotton or give me some chicken. i went off the handle and blah blahblah and avoided her for two months. she hit me up on myspace and said she was wondering about me but whenever i bring up her language she tries to avoid the topic or point to things i was doing or ways i was being. Her guilt was a reward though so ill chock that up as a victory..

    I dont know what the deal is with the OP. I dont know if shes a troll, if she misspoke, if shes a fool. I dont know if her "race" makes a difference in her right to inquire, i dont know if shes a mariah carey mixed girl or a hallie barry mixed girl.

    I know that regardless of malicious intent there is no reason not to discuss this issue. I have seen it with my own eyes, its a real phenomena, and white women who do express hate towards Black women are not going to do so in an environment here. They need 3 things to not front hereon this sensitive issue, either a Black male setting the stage for them, an established relationship with the Black males here to assure lesser backlash (unlikely intimacy on a forum though), or simply the grape fruits to say what they believe and hope that people may not care or the consequences are minimal. Some white women in the fear category may feel they dont have saying power in a BM's life or that shes fighting against his community and his family. In the latter case she can blast BW and hope to turn him off of them. This is important because the only thing she can work with to have a chance against his community and family is to tap on his individual needs (or selfishness) and to pit that against the commonwealth's. Its a smart tactic and her only move to work with. Desperation..

    I should also note I felt like the outrage expressed by some WW in this thread comes from those withen the suck up category.. It is alright to admit some WW are like that towards BW. Although regardless I feel their are more BW provoking conflict with WW. Probably a 30 % of WW vs 65% of BW on the hostility ranking. The white women's over reaction this thread probably done the most to add credence to the OP's first thread post regardless of the OP's true intent.
     
    Last edited: Nov 2, 2010
  17. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    Hiya One to Forget

    'Welcome' to the forum, and your first ever post. And what a doozey it was. [​IMG]
     
  18. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    :confused:

    I agree with Kuno, you are definitely one to forget. Your post is a huge rambling mess. It's confusing as hell because it makes no sense (your spelling & writing skills are also a mess). For all you think you've figured out about interracial dating, in your post you've made it obvious you're pretty clueless. You're just another person stuck on stereotypes, and it's a very unattractive quality to have. As far as your conclusion that the ww responses add "credence" to the OP first post, it's evident you either didn't read or didn't comprehend their responses.
     
  19. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    You could really use spell check. My browser underlined so many of your misspelled words, but I digress. By the way, it's women, not woman when you're talking plurally.

    By golly gee! You surely know WW! Interesting how you paint WW with such broad brush strokes. You got WW down to a science huh? You pegged us into various categories and since that's how YOU perceive WW, it has to be truth in gospel, right? I'm trying to follow your train of thought, other than a rant that's like a bad run on sentence without a point that's nothing more than stereotypical gibberish.

    Since when do WW have to be "checked"? Have we run a muck that we're on all some power trip? That we think we're Gods gift to BM or any man for that matter? Spare me the bullshit! Do you know a lot of WW? I mean besides the stupid racist bitches you've encountered or your friends' girlfriend? Dumb WW don't speak for me or any of my fellow posters here or women I know offline.

    So now there are WW sucking up to Black folks? What is it that they're doing? Pacifying something? Fear of Black people? Please elaborate on these said WW who suck up. I see you loved stressing the sucking part. Another "Becky" giving head/brain joke?

    I don't agree with being downright racist and disrespectful, but it's funny how you said you got those women mad. I wonder what negativity you've projected that you've gotten such a reaction from more than one woman. Could it be racial fairy tales? I'm not going to be naive and say that these women don't exist, cause they surely do, but I find it funny how you've attracted a plethora of them.

    What example were you using with Halle vs. Mariah? Looking more White? Being darker in complexion? Both Biracial, yes like the OP. I wonder if the OP ever sees her mother as one of us?

    About the OP and the topic at hand, I don't know what her deal is either or anyone who comes here with that approach. If she wanted an intelligent discussion, she shouldn't come in attacking people. You put people on the defensive and you will not get people engaging in anything, but defending, ignoring or attacking back.

    Phenomana? Invoromet? LOL! Please visit: http://dictionary.reference.com/

    Do you think that maybe the WW who express hate for BW are merely just defending themselves? Again, there are some WW who have insecurity issues and feel the need to bash BW, just like the same goes for BW who bash WW. Insecurity is a bad disease cause it festers and projects nothing but hate. I thank God I don't know any BW who are insecure in that sense or have projected their issues on me, like my friends and the like, but I do see the disdain online quite often. I also thank God I don't know any of these stupid racist WW. I'm all for defending women as a whole, but I won't tolerate ignorance.

    What outrage was expressed here? Did I miss something? This type of thread and attitude is commonplace around here. Same shit, different day/thread/post. See my my paragraph above about if you want to engage in an intelligent conversation, you don't attack anyone, especially not a whole race of women or a board full.

    Again, like others have said before me, I don't know exactly what you're trying to get at with your first post, but it's clear as day that you have either an agenda or animosity towards WW.
     
  20. botoan

    botoan Active Member

    LOL!!
     

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