Almost every member here has already had IR relationships, some are married and very few of us have had any actual relationships with others on the board. That statement suggest you still have not read the threads here. This forum features WW and BM talking about everything you can imagine. We generally do not discuss BW, as a topic, we focus on WW and BM, because that is who the forum is for. If you have evidence to the contrary feel free to post it. You cannot be serious. This is going to end very badly for you.
This is why I wrote "regardless if a faction of white society (including WW) is telling him otherwise, or for some even his mother, or other BW.."...the reality is he IS the most DESIRED. We actually agree, just worded it differently. Well, I added the 'IS MOST desired' part.
Maybe you got this site mixed up with another because to be for real for real you will find the women on this site DEFENDING black women at every turn. Oh well, maybe cuz I'm new
A great many slow wits assume because a white woman is attracted to a black men she she automatically has some animosity towards black women. ....or that the white chick is easy ....or that the white chick get walked on ....or that the white chick [insert rand dumb ass stereotype] ...because lets be honest there can be no other reason for a black man to be attracted to a white woman - [/end sarcasm] You can go to an all white site You can go to an all black site. And I guarantee I'll bet fucking money on one finding my disrespect towards white women (as a group) then the other way around.
This is crap. I've never seen this alleged animosity from any of us toward you or any other bw. Where are these alleged threads? I think starting shit is the purpose behind this thread. This is ridiculous Very well said Bo. Thank you. What I'm curious about is why are you really here Juicee?
Well, everyone is being all nice and cordial. I'm going to call you a lying fuck. You THOUGHT, based on some wack ass notion that what you were going to find on a board such as this was the bashing of black women... ...you were/are wrong ...when challenged on it, you capitulated like some witless fool how had been arguing through the nose the THE WORD IS FLAT. Its not idiot. Media take out? What? ...hell I would have respected you more if you had simply said "I was wrong"
Great summation! You called it. She started backwards, thinking for sure she would be able to drum up hate posts (because that's what can be commonly found in reverse on antithesis sites), and thus easily substantiate her accusations of her perceived WW stereotype. In this case, on this site, the search button was not her friend. :smt019
Sorry guys again, I jumped the gun. Well let me come on out on the front and say that I am not a white woman, I am biracial...may father was a black man (passed away two years ago due to cancer) and my mother is from Argentina. Actually, I identify more with my black side because my Mother's ppl I rarely see, but I have always been around my aunts, uncles, cousins on my Farther's side. Anyways, mother hasn't been doing to well since my father passed as she is sick due to her kidney failing (diabetes). Out of all my siblings, I am the primary care taker, and while I don't have a problem attracting men, I just can't seem to find the time to commit between caring for my mom, and work. I thought maybe a dating site may be a good start to find someone I may be compatible with. I kind of feel a little guilty of doing this, like I am forcing myself to be in a relationship instead of the traditional way. Does that make sense??
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, but I'm still not convinced. It was obvious in your initial post that you weren't a white woman, yet you tried to come across as though you were. Why lie about it (omission is the same as lying) & why try to start crap with the garbage you jumped off with? That doesn't make any sense. Something else that doesn't make sense is the reason you claim to be here. Why would a woman who identifies herself as not white come to an IR site looking for a man that dates white women. It's confusing because your initial post had nothing to do with your alleged reason for being here. The fact that you aren't a white woman is not the issue. The problem is with your dishonesty, pretense, lack of respect & what I consider an attack on the ladies of this forum. There is no excuse. To accuse us of animosity toward black women is ridiculous & I personally find it hurtful. Imo this is not the best place for you because you obviously have an issue with what this forum represents.
Ladies, you don't get it. They want you to talk about them, but i will not get in to the why and move the discussion on to the topic she wants.
:smt045 I wonder what the statistical probability is of 3 women, one black, one white, and one biracial all coming to this forum from the same town with a population of 20,000 people? One of the math geniuses on here will have to work that one out for us, I have a headache. But it might bear mentioning that 2 of the 3 have already proven to be the same person, so in the interest of accuracy we should factor that into the analysis. :roll: Also to this latest incarnation and anyone else bitching about BW getting bashed on this site, primarily that is their own fault. Go to the threads with really negative comments about BW and you'll find that the vast and overwhelming majority of the time they are started by BW trolls. By thread conclusion that's usually well known and so those comments are prompted by a BW who ends up reinforcing every negative stereotype. Taking the word 'bashing' and using it in the context that the OP intended, there is by far more WW 'bashing' on WWBM at any given time. About the only time BW are discussed at all is when one shows up to start crap. However gold-digging, materialistic, superficial, shallow, racist, lazy, overly sensitive, easy WW are discussed on a much more regular basis. So really you are whining to the wrong bunch of women about being 'bashed'. **Note, before someone comes charging in to call bullshit **cough** Andrae **cough**, I said in the context that the OP used the word bashing. Therefore bashing defined as someone making disparaging, comments which reflect negatively on the person being spoken about. I realize that saying women are gold-digging, lazy, whores does not mean you are speaking about me, or any, or all of the women on WWBM, but it's still considered 'bashing' members of my gender. Okay PC disclaimer done, hopefully that is satisfactorily unambiguous, sufficiently PC, while leaving no room for anyone to come in a start a ridiculous fight based upon their own interpretation, which is generally based upon assumptions and facts not in evidence.