Healthy Jealousy

Thank you for actually 'getting it'!

I like a woman who won't compromise on her values. We're human and if you allow someone to take advantage of you...they inevitably will.

However, if by your actions, you demonstrate you will not accept subpar performance, you can trust and believe a man will fly-straight if he truly values the relationship.

 

i so jaisee this...!!! i'm exactly the same, if i love you i give you me, completely, totally and without question & expect the same in return...why do anything by halves...???:smt038

 

I 100 percent believe this.

and I live by it.

Thanks Spunkyspunk.. its great to hear this from a man.

and of course it goes both ways.

 

:smt029Awww, my lil'vanilla buttered-biscuit! Such an admirable woman!!

 

you know there is nothing more annoying than trying to rep someone and hitting the enter key accidentally...!!! i had so much more i wanted to say, i was just getting started...!!! :smt077

 

Well c'mon my lil'cuddly cutt-buddy! Holla at'cha manz!!

 

yeah, as long as you have a mature mate and the other dont take it to far in getting them jealous.

it woould be fucked up if you try to get em a little jealous and they dont bite.

 

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dude you just brought up the old school southern slang for booty.....look at the biscuits on that gurl....she needs some gravy on that ass.

 

:smt043Bruh, you aint neva lied!!

 

dude you took me there...ooopss southern style you took me thurr.

I would definitely put some butta on those biscuits and lick em up

 

must say i just got a bit & i kinda liked it...!!! :smt049:smt077

 

Nope, out of all the things in the world, Jealousy is one of the few things I absolutely cannot stand. I have never, and will never cheat on anybody in my life, because I have values and morals that dispise that sort of deal (no offense to those that cheat.) Thus, I expect complete trust from my partner in a relationship and if she starts showing the green eye ugly monster, than she has got to go.

 

There is healthy jealousy and the green eyed monster jealousy... not at all the same thing. If someone doesnt care that you flirt and get around.... baaaaaadddd omen. Just as bad as if someone cant take you having normal relationships w female coworkers etc. There is a healthy balance that must be met in this.

 

Heavily disagree on this. For one, many people unintentionally flirt, and many times people believe someone is flirting when they aren't, and thus the partner attacks the individual that they believe is flirting and suddenly all hell breaks loose. All of it would simply be avoided by simply having trust in your partner.In the end, if that person wants to be with you, than he or she won't perform certain activities (such as cheating) while with you.

And again, it has nothing to do with not caring, and everything to do with having complete trust in your partner. So yes, if someone doesn't care what I do, than indeed that's a problem, but instead, I would rather find a lady who instead of not caring, essentially trust me completely, no matter what the situation maybe. I can honestly say I have never been jealous towards any one of my romantic partners and it has nothing to do with not caring, and everything to do me trusting them completely. So, I expect that same trust in return. And if she doesn't have that, than she has to go.

 

I honestly dont think you get what Im touching on, maybe it has to do with how we define the word " jealousy". Clearly I agree with you completely, you are just missing the part where if someone doesnt care at all what you do.

 

I admire you Babybro for not corrupting your morals for a piece of tail. Seems that you deserve complete trust, but in all fairness, it might be difficult to find a woman who hasn't been cheated on and thus has perhaps a wee bit of possessiveness when it comes to a good man such as yourself.

Glad to see your values and morals are so strong! :smt023