ASK the wwbm forum .: Love edition

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Oct 25, 2010.

  1. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

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  2. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL. Ok fair enough. LOL.

    Ok anyone has a question? I dont want to be a thread Hog. Im gonna post some articles so we can comment also.
     
  3. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Yall wouldn't believe some of the questions I get each damn week!
    This HAD to be the craziest!
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  4. botoan

    botoan Active Member

    Some women do not know other women as well as I assumed they would. For men it depends on what he values in a woman.
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    the first letter. he did a good job on that one. I like that. I stopped at the 2:42 mark. is the rest funny and good.
     
  6. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    AAAHHH shit thats you. I was like damn he look familiar. No shot I stated that. Then I said naw. LOL
     
  7. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    ha ha ha ha I am far more serious than I seem too. I get crazy crazy CRAZY questions and they just keep coming.
     
  8. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Im gonna have to check out the whole thang. You must have a youtube show huh ?
     
  9. StephanieMarie

    StephanieMarie New Member

    No...not at all. lol I like a man to have an opinion. To know how he feels about something one way or another and not just sit back and let me make all the noise or decisions.

    I DEFINITELY do not need a man that thinks he needs to "put me in my place". I think i know exactly what place i need to be in at any given time and my man is definitely not the one who will decide where that is

    oh P.S. Andrae.....you ARE the one. How are we just now figuring this out?! ;)
     
  10. StephanieMarie

    StephanieMarie New Member

    ditto
     
  11. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Good post you prompted a question Im gonna have to ask the fam...particularly the women.

    women say they want a man. They want a MAN. Now women say he has to be decisive. (meaning a leader..I would assume). so Im gonna give a scenerio and you decide is a leader or domineering or being a punk. (2 scenes)

    1) yo babe. Im looking at the money (bank statement ) and we arent getting anywhere. we need to get on a budget. this is what I believe we need to do. You take these bills and save this amount and your allowance is this amount. Im gonna take these and Im gonna save this amount and Im gonna be on the amount of an allowance. doing this we can save this amount on a yearly basis and be out of debt in these many years.

    2) yo babe. Im looking at the money (bank statement ) and we arent getting anywhere. what should we do. Do you think we need to be on a budget ? I think we should . what do you think ?

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    who is being a punk, leader domineering or both approaches ok OR both they both can be fined tuned.

    would you be mad at both...would you be patient because they have the best intentions ? what do you think ?

    Fellas what say you ?
     
  12. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    ;)
     
  13. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    she definitely hit it on the head. That way she is able to screen him and then make her move.
     
  14. StephanieMarie

    StephanieMarie New Member


    I think both situations are acceptable. It also kind of depends on how or what the money situation is based on the individuals in the relationship. I would appreciate the initiative taken in Scenario 1, but because finances can be a very tricky thing between people and lead to even more issues....I like leaving it open for discussion the way you did Scenario 2
     
  15. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    do you think some people (particulary women. I dont want to feel like Im picking on women but you can dig the intent right) that they may see it as losing their independance or a man just being a leader not invading her independance ? the scenrio would be referenced with married people in mind.

    It seems in your mind that it is more of a man looking out for the well being of the family. would i be correct in that ?

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    also here is a vid on how to deal with a narcissist:

    Isnt he kind of creepy? anyway I believe what he states is a good way in handling anybody

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    Last edited: Oct 26, 2010
  16. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    My niece has the show, and also a lil local show in atlanta, I just do a couple spots a month
     
  17. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    You definitely know how to make a guy smile woman.
    Btw I already know what place you need to be in wink wink lol
     
  18. StephanieMarie

    StephanieMarie New Member

    I'm not married so I can't really give you a good answer on that one....

    However I viewed the way you said it more of the man looking out for the well being of the family. Which should inevitably be what everyone in a caring, loving relationship should want to do. right?
     
  19. StephanieMarie

    StephanieMarie New Member

    oooo....What place would that be??? fill me in! lol ;)
     

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